In "Ordinary World", Lu Yao once felt-
"How much helplessness and regret there is in life, and what kind of sadness and sadness? The loneliness and sadness eroded by wind and rain must be water, quietly flowing through the days of youth struggle and touching the ideal years. "
Yes, the road to self-realization is not easy.
First, to achieve the ideal, we need to be firm.
When it comes to the ideals of youth, almost everyone is "I want to be a scientist", "I want to be a dancer", "I want to be an astronaut" and "I want to be an architect" ... but somehow, it is always others who realize their ideals, and it is always themselves who are inconspicuous in the crowd.
Investigate its reason, might as well ask yourself "did I try my best?" If the answer is no, then the result ... you know.
A few days ago, I read The Story of a Famous Scholar Studying Abroad and got to know a person, Yan Jici, one of the pioneers of modern physics research in China, the first China native to receive a French national doctorate in science, and the main founders of China Academy of Sciences and China University of Science and Technology.
Any one carries weight, and you can't refuse to accept it.
Yan Jici studied in Paris when he was young. Paris, a world-famous "flower city", however, for Yan Jici, there, he lived a simple and regular life every day, with dormitory, classroom, library and laboratory, "four points and one line", coursing on wave after wave, studying tirelessly and thinking endlessly.
Imagine how splendid the Louvre collection is, how charming the beauty of the Seine River is, and how charming the spectacular Arc de Triomphe is. But Yan Jici doesn't know what prosperity is, let alone prosperity. He only cares about his calculus, theoretical mechanics and general physics. ...
"A person who devotes himself to learning has no right to live like an ordinary person." This is a famous saying of French writer Mo Bosang. Yan Jici took it as his motto, which led his life's research.
It is good to dream of becoming a scientist, but it is not easy to realize this ideal. Aside from smart qualifications, unique thinking and strict training, hard exploration alone is enough to make people avoid it.
Mencius said: "Heaven will take great responsibility for the people of Sri Lanka, so we must first suffer their minds, strain their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and mess with their actions. Therefore, patience has benefited them a lot. " We all understand the truth, but we can't bear the "bitterness, fatigue, hunger and emptiness" and naturally we can't bear the "heavy responsibility".
Therefore, the road to self-realization is never easy. With such psychological preparation, life can shine brilliantly.
Second, no matter how hard and tired you are, you must be strong.
Bing Xin has a well-known poem: "a successful flower, people only marvel at her present brilliance!" However, at the beginning, her buds were soaked with tears of struggle and shed blood rain of sacrifice. "
In life, don't just see the glorious glory of others, but know that behind the glory is a long hardship.
Yang li Ping, the "dancing princess" in China entertainment circle. Presumably many people know her name, but few people know her experience.
After entering the Central National Song and Dance Troupe, Yang li Ping took a tape recorder to the empty rehearsal room almost every night, and practiced until late at night, early in the morning, and even stayed up all night. Her first novel, The Spirit of Sparrows, was written and staged in such years, with such efforts and hard thinking.
To create a large-scale song and dance collection "Yunnan Image", Yang li Ping suffered from lack of funds, loss of actors, expiration of rental, SARS ... In desperation, she sold the house, borrowed money and took an advertisement, but she never complained. "No matter what others think, I have never said bitterness on any occasion, nor have I called it bitterness, because it has not reached the limit that I can't do." Finally, the image of Yunnan was born and received rave reviews.
It is said that there is no hurdle in life. Knowing the story of Yang li Ping, I firmly believe that the so-called ups and downs are just a test. A person may doubt himself, or feel confused in the face of ups and downs, but never give up easily. Otherwise, "what you earn inch by inch may be wasted in an instant."
As mortals, we can't be completely free from suffering and fatigue, but whenever and wherever, we must remember that no matter how bitter and tired we are, we must be strong. Go ahead and do your best, and all the ups and downs will eventually lead to smooth roads.
Third, experience depression and live yourself.
There is no doubt that every life is an unparalleled miracle. Similarly, every life is a trivial existence.
Because, we are just ordinary people, and none of us belong to anyone.
A girl named Adams, she had a legendary experience-
/kloc-Before the age of 0/7, Adams, like all girls who love beauty, likes beautiful clothes, high heels and travel. Her dream is to be a model.
But fate didn't favor Adams. /kloc-when she was 0/7 years old, a serious car accident claimed the lives of two companions, and she was taken to the hospital. After 30 hours of rescue, the doctor said that her survival rate was only 5%.
Three weeks later, Adams miraculously woke up. Although he was paralyzed, he finally escaped death. Adams was once on the verge of despair. But who would have thought that she walked into the gym in a wheelchair. With her own willpower and training, she was finally able to stand or even walk with the help of instruments. ...
Later, Adams finished high school and studied psychology at university. Nowadays, she participates in various social activities, gives public speeches, records programs and runs marathons ... She inspires others with her own stories, "Even if she loses the past, she still holds the present".
Bi Shumin said: "We often encounter setbacks and failures, but the value of life is not always victory and success, but in this process, we have gained our own unique experience."
Although Adams suffered misfortune and experienced a period of depression, he survived doggedly bit by bit and lived the life he wanted.
This also verifies what the ancient Roman poet Ovid said: "Although it is painful to bear and persist, it can gradually bring you benefits."
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Yan Jici, Yang li Ping and Adams, all their life experiences show that the road to self-realization has never been smooth.
Indeed, ups and downs in life are the norm, and vicissitudes of life are the norm. Although we don't want to suffer hardships, fear difficulties and refuse disasters, they just love to haunt us.
So what if it's tangled? Can't bear it, just can't bear it. Endure, the heart will be clear, and the day will be bright.
Don't be afraid of suffering, because suffering can sharpen our perseverance; Don't be afraid of difficulties, because after difficulties, there will be gains. Don't be afraid in case of disaster. If we overcome it, we will become stronger.
No one in this world is easy, and no one is easy. Because it is not easy, it is thick; Because it is not easy, I cherish it even more.
About the author: Lao Yang, born in Guiyang, Hunan Province after 1980s, lives by working and enjoys writing.