When I was a child, my relatives saw my round face and chubby hands and always praised me as a blessed person.
My mother's face will bloom like a flower from time to time, and she will echo and say, "The fairy on the mountain helped me calculate. That's a rich life. As long as I study hard, I can become famous. "
Although I have always been skeptical about my mother's words, my academic performance is still good.
Our grandfather's generation was an iron shop, and it was my father's turn to handle some daily necessities, food, groceries and so on. , equivalent to the small supermarket now. There is an endless stream of people at home every day. After the busy farming, there will always be some people sitting in the shop chatting about the world.
My mother didn't know who said that the fairy seemed to be very clever, and several college students in the village were right, including whether the future development direction was southeast or northwest, which added a bit of mystery.
So, in the year of the senior high school entrance examination, my mother climbed the mountain again and visited the legendary "immortal".
This time, a college student's mother accompanied her with earth eggs and fruits and vegetables. Thank you.
After my mother and her party came back, they were all very happy and drew another sign: I am lucky to have someone to help me, and I can do well in my studies and career. My family is more like a reassurance, just waiting for me to be an agricultural cadre in the future, as the fairy said.
It may be the guidance of the gods, or the admission score is not high. That year, I was admitted to both a normal college and an agricultural college. After family discussion (mainly influenced by fairy tales), I finally chose the latter. ...
In our time, when studying and choosing a job, many life events are decided by family members.
Fortunately, there is an aunt in the distance who is a hotel manager. When she heard about it, she gave us a lot of professional and pertinent advice. Finally, parents agreed to give up their major in agricultural management and choose their favorite tourism and hotel management.
For the dream in my heart, I encourage you to take a small step to help you tide over the difficulties, broaden your horizons, lead you on the right track and share positive energy with you until you reach the other side of victory.
Since 2006, due to the improvement of people's living standards and the rapid development of hotels, I have been at home in the hotel industry.
That year, the man in my life-jj appeared. His words also strengthened my dream of going abroad.
He said: "I support you to go abroad. No matter how much money I bear, you just need to learn English well. Don't worry about delaying your work. You can be a professional manager in my hotel when you come back from studying abroad."
This is not chicken soup, but a real responsibility and commitment. What could be more chicken blood than this?
In order to encourage me to go abroad early and supervise me to keep learning English, my uncle gave me an IBM notebook computer. You know, in those days, only the IT director in our hotel used IBM. Now that I think about it, vanity is bursting, and there is no passion for not learning.
On weekends, JJ will take time to drive from Haikou to Sanya to see me. It's hard to think of it now. It's nearly 700 kilometers to drive back and forth on a hot day! In order to accompany me through the difficulties, give me synchronous guidance and share my learning experience, even the busiest one began to learn English.
That year, he was in his early 40 s, with a height of 1.78, and his burly figure was more heroic with a golf or baseball uniform.
In the words of my colleague, the boss of the famous brand parked his luxury car near the lobby again, probably waiting for you to get off work.
After a long time, there are more and more gossip in the office, and everyone is more curious and suspicious.
Some say it's my boyfriend, some guess it's "kept", and even the boss who doesn't like gossip the most will smile mysteriously: "Really, congratulations!"
In the face of all this, I will only smile: "it's not what they say."
I thought to myself: Only when I pass the English exam quickly will the truth come out on the day of my speech.
After all, at that time, for a small white who didn't go to high school and didn't know what CET-4 and CET-6 were, I was really not sure that I could learn English well and pass the IELTS test immediately. Moreover, I dare not reveal the fact that I am secretly learning English and preparing to go abroad in the workplace.
Sure enough, many things happened. I actually took IELTS three times, with a difference of 0.5 points.
JJ, who failed the IELTS test for the first time, was afraid that I would give up and comforted me by saying, "It's good to get 5 points for the first time. The elegant thinking of listening, speaking, reading and writing not only measures a person's comprehensive English level, but more importantly, knows how to answer questions. "
During this period, JJ urged me to leave my job several times, concentrate on studying IELTS and go abroad for further study as soon as possible after passing the English exam.
In the autumn of 2008, it was not so much with the help of JJ as under the pressure of JJ. Finally, I left my job and entered the university campus, and began to study hotel management courses and English IELTS tutoring. East China Normal University has an indescribable excitement and joy.
After half a year, my IELTS score finally reached the standard, and I can start preparing to go abroad. At the same time, I also got an offer from Ritz-Carlton, a luxury hotel. Faced with the temptation of high salary, I chose money and power again and secretly returned to the workplace.
Unexpectedly, after JJ found out, he called me and called me short-sighted and only cared about immediate interests. And asked me to resign immediately. A phone call burned my mobile phone until it was turned off without power. For a long time, I always used various excuses to avoid not seeing JJ. JJ visited me in the hotel many times, but I turned him down because of business trip and other reasons.
JJ tried every means to persuade me to stick to going abroad. He even said that if I am in love, if the other person is worthy of entrustment, I will study together. What's even more touching is that he specially invited his friend who came back from France-a postdoctoral fellow studying abroad to stay in the hotel where I work and give me national guidance and study abroad planning. ...
After many hardships, at 20 10, I finally got my wish. With my dream and JJ's insistence, I dragged the Samsonite Grand suitcase specially prepared for me and boarded the flight to Switzerland.
On the way to the airport, JJ said again, "Life is an exercise. Never too old to learn. Let's cheer together. I also signed up for a class to improve myself. "
Unexpectedly, in the year of returning to China, JJ had already obtained a doctorate in Tsinghua, which did not include other EMBA, study tour classes, and the French I studied together.
After studying in Europe and America for two years, JJ is my life mentor, giving me advice and guidance at critical moments. After studying hotel management in Switzerland, my uncle recommended me to practice in the United States and experience different cultures.
I still remember what he once comforted me:
The so-called "giving up" means that you have to learn to "give up" before you can "get", and "giving up" means releasing memories for "getting".
Now, after more than ten years, JJ still insists on studying. With his encouragement and support, some of my cousins went to the United States, some studied media in Malaysia, some studied EMBA in France, and some returned to China like me.
What's more encouraging is that, over the years, JJ has been exercising and running constantly, no matter how busy she is. Under his guidance, I persisted in yoga for several years. My cousin "ribs" is muscular and handsome now. My other cousins also tasted the joy of sports and gained the physical changes brought about by sports.
In recent years, JJ has been running for an hour every day and started a marathon.
He is so excellent that he is still pursuing perfection and challenging more possibilities, which makes our future generations feel deeply pressured and motivated.
Because of his spur and encouragement, I changed my fate, from a middle school student to a graduate student; Because of his drive and guidance, more competitive cultural people have appeared in our generation; Because of his support and change, our family has written a new chapter: from the bottom of society to the middle class!
He is our amiable and respectable uncle, and he is a noble person we will never meet in this life!
His contribution to the cultivation of our generation, family and hometown is enough to write a book and make a play.
Today, my uncle manages several companies and thousands of employees. Besides working, he also studies and keeps fit.
Here, I sincerely thank our Supreme Uncle for teaching and cultivating me like a father! Accompany me through the ups and downs like a friend, accompany me through the ups and downs! Teach me like a mentor and lead me forward! Teach me to cultivate my self-cultivation and treat people like a saint!
Although you never expect anything in return, you just think of us, but your teachings are like spring breeze and friendship is as deep as the sea!
We sincerely wish you, the noble person in my life: I wish you all the wishes, all the wishes!