The so-called blue confidante is the best friend except her husband or boyfriend. This friend is commonly known as "Blue Yan bosom friend" or "man's best friend". Tell everything to this man or blue confidante. Discuss life, society, life, society, humanity and marriage with this man. When you are in a bad mood, talk to this man first. If you are in a good mood, what are you happy about? Report to this person at the first time, regardless of details. I think about chatting with this man every day, and I have endless words with this man. I will ask weakly, what do you want to say to your husband or boyfriend when you get home after talking outside?
I quite agree with tuo Lao's point of view that there is no real friendship between men and women, only love. Let me add that it is adultery. When I didn't find a very satisfied husband in my marriage, I went out of my body, found myself a big lie, and fabricated a beautiful legend, "Lan Yan bosom friend". It is entirely to find reasons for betraying marriage, and those literati also endorse the "blue confidante" with lengthy words. The description of "Lan Yan bosom friend" is extravagant, trying to subvert people's normal cognition of marriage. In case they cheat in the future, give yourself a reason to find an answer.
How many great examples have you found since "Blue Face Confidante" is so wonderful? Tolstoy was absolutely right. There is no friendship between men and women, only love.
1. Best friend's boyfriend;
During college, Wang Qian and Thomas Lee lived in bunk beds, Wang Qian lived in bunk beds, and Thomas Lee lived in bunk beds. Both girls are very beautiful. Wang Qian is cheerful, careless, loves to eat snacks and comes from a big city. Thomas Lee is gentle and comes from a small place.
Wang Qian in the upper bunk loves snacks, while Thomas Lee in the lower bunk becomes a trash can. One moment a biscuit fell from the upper berth, the other moment potato chips fell from the upper berth, and there were sausages and so on. As long as it is eaten, it will fall. Everyone can see that Wang Qian's family is superior. Thomas Lee in the lower berth and Wang Qian in the upper berth are embarrassed. They also give Thomas Lee some food from time to time and share it with each other.
After a while, they became good friends. Sophomore students began to sleep in the same bed, either the upper bunk or the lower bunk, for the convenience of talking. Sometimes when it comes to dawn, there are endless words. Later, the two were as good as one person: having classes together and eating together; Take a walk together; Chat together; Go shopping together; Watching movies together, inseparable.
It is Wang Qianxian who is in love. She fell in love with Hao Ting, a handsome boy one level older than her, and Thomas Lee in the lower berth naturally became Wang Qianxian's boyfriend's confidante. So Wang Qian's boyfriend shuttled between two beautiful women. Sometimes Wang Qian's overbearing and smelly temper, Hao Ting can't help it, just talk to Thomas Lee. Thomas Lee is very gentle, elegant and polite. Whenever Hao Ting confides in Thomas Lee, Thomas Lee always listens carefully and patiently and gives her reasonable suggestions. They get along very sweetly, and in the third year of high school.
College life will be over soon. On the eve of graduation, Hao Ting confessed to Thomas Lee that he loved him and hoped to accept him.
See, there is no friendship between men and women, no confidante, only love between men and women. It is only an opportunity for friendship to turn into love. Once let nature take its course and the time is ripe, friendship will either become love or sexual partnership.
2. Children's michel platini;
Shuying was assigned to a military enterprise after graduation from technical school, and her master happened to be her brother in the same technical school, which inexplicably increased the affinity between master and apprentice. The master is a little older than her, married and has a lovely and clever daughter. Shuying is beautiful, but slim, so she is not so handy in military products. A lot of work can't be done, all of which are done by her master. She is very grateful to her master. Sometimes Shu Ying will bring more food to her master. They became good friends.
Later, Shuying got married and had a fat boy, so she recognized Master as the godfather of the child. In this way, they have been friends for ten years.
Shuying's husband is a construction engineer. He has a project that needs to be done in other places for several years, but he will also come back for the New Year.
Once I had a birthday with a workshop worker and we had dinner together. Shuying drank too much, and the master sent her home. After arriving home, the master arranged his apprentice, and when he was ready to go out, Shuying suddenly took the master's hand. So they had their first time.
Blue confidante, confidante, there is no chance, but once the opportunity is ripe, everyone will not say that they are just confidante.
3. Uncle Wang and Aunt Li;
Uncle Wang and Aunt Li met while dancing in the square dance. Uncle Wang is 60 years old and his wife died the year before last. In order to exercise and drive away loneliness, he goes to square dance every night.
Aunt Li is 55 years old and her wife died of illness 10. He is the leader of the square dance, and he dances well. Uncle Wang's square dance was taught by Aunt Li.
The children of the two old people are married, and Uncle Wang and Aunt Li live alone in the community. In order to save trouble, Uncle Wang sometimes goes to Aunt Li's house for dinner. Uncle Wang sometimes cooks and invites Aunt Li to his house to drink some red wine. The two old people live a very comfortable life.
After a long time, the children of both sides know that it is not appropriate for lonely men and women to be together every day, and they want to separate. Aunt Li's daughter took Aunt Li to her home and sold the house.
There is nothing wrong with two old mouths. Don't they just dance, eat and chat? After separation, the two old people agreed to be good friends for life. If you have any ideas, you can communicate with each other. Sometimes you can talk on the phone for hours, and you don't want to put the phone down. The telephone bill soared. In this way, a year passed.
On Uncle Wang's birthday, I invited Aunt Li to have a potluck together, and Aunt Li readily went to the appointment. They discussed that it is better to be friends than to be a wife, and children should not listen. They still have a long way to go for the rest of their lives. The next day, Aunt Li moved to Uncle Wang's house.
Master Tolstoy really put it well and saw through everything in the world. He said: There is no friendship between men and women, only love.
The so-called "blue confidante" is self-deception.