Because of the differences in thinking, boys generally think rationally, while girls think emotionally.

So that boys generally fall into a misunderstanding: when chatting with girls, they will talk directly and have no emotional thinking at all.

For example: What are you doing? Busy? Wait, you can't show your advantages naturally, let alone attract girls.

So in order to arouse the right mood and chat atmosphere, we can try an interesting illogical chat mode.

For example, the weather is fine today. This weather always reminds me of you.

Whether the weather is good or not has nothing to do with missing you. What we have to do is to guide girls to chat with you and make them think about what you say, so that girls will be more impressed with you.

When mobilizing emotions, the effect will be more obvious by using witty and logical reply chat.

Girls often care about themselves, not things like the weather.

The reason why the weather is actually a step, the room for buffering will not be too close to her, which the boys with high emotional intelligence will certainly understand.

The atmosphere is like this, and the mood is there. It is illogical to reply to a chat like this.

Don't think it's strange that girls are emotional thinking. The illogical foreshadowing in front is to pave the way for future topics, so as to mobilize girls' emotions.

2. Stimulate the desire to reply to chat.

Since chatting with girls is interesting, the premise must be that you and girls can talk, and both sides have fun and are willing to talk.

If the girl gives you three consecutive chills (hehe, busy, taking a shower), you won't have a chance to chat.

Sometimes you need to stimulate girls' desire to reply, so as to achieve the effect of flirting.

There are two advantages to using this method:

First, let girls have the desire to answer and achieve the purpose of flirting.

Second, girls reply easily, without pressure and without time to think about it.

For example:

Girl: I like coffee.

Boy: Me too. I also like to drink beer.

Chatting with girls in this way will only make girls feel bored and have no desire to reply, leading to the loss of mood and emotional appeal.

How to stimulate girls' desire to reply?

For example:

Girl: What are you doing? I'm working out.

Boy: Did you break your chest today?

This is a teasing reply, which greatly increases the girl's desire to reply to you, and the chat is not dry. Unless the girl is in a bad mood today, what will the girl think?

What does your body and chest have to do with this, so that you can extend the topic more and chat easily.

When the girl replies to you, you can go on to say: it's really safe to be your friend, chest girl.

Does this make girls react faster?

3. Push-pull chat

What is push-pull chat?

Push: Just push girls away from you.

Lara: it is to pull girls to your side. Pushing makes her sad, pulling makes her happy.

What is the function of push and pull? Say goodbye to boring chat methods and drive girls to chat.

When you use push-pull skills, it will have two psychological effects on girls.

First, let girls can't help chasing you; Second, pushing and pulling is an ambiguous way.

In other words, push a girl away and pull her back, and she will always guess what your attitude is, whether you like her or not, and how you are going to treat her.

This creates a sense of unpredictability and mystery.