I find it difficult to balance. If possible, it is best to buy a house as close as possible to the workplace. Now people can't afford to buy houses in big cities, because many of them work in big cities, so they can only go back to their hometown or buy houses in the suburbs.

I have a very good friend who is working in Beijing and has been renting a house. They have been renting a house since they got married. You know that houses in Beijing are not affordable for ordinary people, but when you reach the age of having children, you will face the problem of where your children will live and go to school in the future. After discussion, they bought a house in Langfang. When we chat together, we will ask her, why do you want to buy a house when you don't live in Langfang?

Then her plan is to take the old man over and live in Langfang to take care of the children when they have children, so that the children will not go back to their hometown to go to school after school, so that the children can have a good opportunity to receive education, and it will not be too far from Beijing where they both work. Her husband can work in Beijing, live in a rented house and go back to Langfang to live with them on weekends. As for her words, the child is still young and needs nursing. She can find a job in Langfang. When the child is older, she can go back to Beijing to work or buy a car and try to drive back to Langfang every day. Although it takes almost two hours to drive, after all, lactating women can enjoy an hour of breastfeeding leave every day and have more time.

In short, it is difficult to have children. You can rent out your house before you have children, and the rent you earn every month can make up for the money you spent renting a house in Beijing.