First, talk to your partner more.
Never talk about relative silence, how many marriage crises have never started. Many men in China are very strange. They are humorous outside, which Kan Kan talked about. No matter with colleagues or good friends, there are endless topics. But when I got home, I was suddenly silent in the face of my wife who had been married for many years.
Second, the premise of running a good marriage.
You need to manage yourself. Managing yourself well is the greatest gift to each other and the best investment in feelings. Many people have a wrong view of marriage and love, that is, marriage is the guarantee of love. As soon as they got married, they relaxed and stopped running around like they did when they were in love.
But you also know how high the divorce rate is now and how big the marriage crisis is. Love is a lifetime thing. As long as we are together for one day, we should not give up running our own business. Before you got married, you wore delicate makeup, read books, exercised and studied every day, and lived like a fairy.
Third, if you want to be happy, you must learn to please each other.
When we are in love, we will please each other. You will spend weeks preparing a surprise for each other, and you will secretly pay attention to what each other likes.
Feelings quickly warmed up in the mutual courtship of both sides. However, after marriage, few people will try to please each other. Because I'm so familiar with it, I don't think it's necessary, and I even take each other's efforts for granted.
You have to admit, you are getting less and less serious about each other. Please is definitely not a kind of please, but always keep each other in mind. You are willing to spend more time making each other happy. You should have the right to enjoy happiness and the ability to create happiness.
It is not easy for two people to be together. In the process of pleasing each other, what you get from each other is the best. Giving to each other and having each other can bring us closer. Your marriage will naturally last longer.