? Isn't it cool that a person can manage his life in an orderly way? I think it's good to know what I should do and how to live. Don't influence yourself because of some external factors. If you enjoy your present life and feel there is nothing wrong with it, why care about other people's eyes? Your life is not for them, what matters is inner satisfaction and peace.
? And many things need to be done by one person, not all things need two people. Drinking tea alone, reading alone, traveling alone and so on, what a good opportunity. People are group animals, so it is rare to have time to enjoy it alone. I will have more time to think, to understand life and myself, to be closer to my heart, to know what I want and to enjoy the beauty brought by the atmosphere at that time. Therefore, a person can be beautiful sometimes.
? Loneliness is not necessarily loneliness. Only inner loneliness is true loneliness. Sometimes you find a large group of people who are not necessarily happy. Maybe they are lonely inside. Because they don't know how to take care of their lives, how to become full, and so on. So by covering up your true loneliness with many friends. A San has a song: "Loneliness is a person's carnival, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people". I especially like this sentence. In fact, in the final analysis, everyone is lonely, so we are more anxious to find the other half to get rid of the lonely group. Why? Because they have no confidence that they can persist or how long they can persist. Everyone needs friends and lovers around, because they are afraid of loneliness.
? But when a person is lonely, he is not affected and still lives his own life. Work when it's time to work. Go to the health room to exercise and sweat after work. I don't think this life is lonely. In my opinion, it is very substantial. People who love life will not feel lonely. They will have more things to do and try.
? Or, stay in one place for a long time and don't make some new friends? Isn't that how old friends get along? Do you still feel strange to see them in the gym every day? I think you are familiar with it. Isn't life like this? We will make more new friends and develop into our old friends.
? Whether it is one person or two people, it is true to enjoy life.