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The best love is to love and kill each other? Don't! ! !
I believe everyone has seen the hit drama "Anjia". The plot of this TV series is really great and the ending is friendly, which really makes me want to brush it. In the play, Aunt Xu and the store manager changed from an initial hostile relationship to a loving couple and gave us a handful of dog food. Some students said that it seems that loving each other and killing each other is the true meaning of love. Is that really the case? Listen to me.

The manager's purpose in coming to the store is to replace it. So at the beginning, she had a purpose for anyone and everything, which was reflected in making rules with subordinates and grabbing other people's customer resources. Of course, these actions were also despised by Aunt Xu. Aunt Xu tried to change rooms and told her that the real estate agent sold not only a house, but also the happiness of a family and could not sell the house. He did this not only because he was the head of a shop, but also because he hoped Miss Mitsui would become a better person.

It is out of this mentality that my aunt will try her best to help her when the room is in trouble. It is also because I appreciate my aunt's help, so when he is sad because of the divorce, the room will accompany him. This goes back to the love and killing mentioned in our topic, which seems to be the appearance of love. Some people say that you are not inconsistent? Don't worry, I'm not finished.

Let's take a look at how Aunt Xu and her ex-wife came to the crossroads of life. Some people want to say that this is because of unilateral derailment. Is that really all? In fact, it is not difficult to see from the above description that they were still very happy before the divorce, and there were also links of mutual loss and mutual anger at ordinary times, so this is also love and killing each other. Then why did you break up?

Aunt Xu and her ex-wife stayed in their original posts, met with contradictions in their lives, and then solved them, met them again, and solved them again. It seems that they love each other and kill each other, but there will always be one party who is tired of this routine life, so there will be contradictions that cannot be solved. For example, the derailment of Zhang Cheng and Cheng will lead them to part ways. So what did they miss? What they lack is the next step on the basis of mutual love and killing-complementarity.

What is the complementarity in love? It's that we have the courage to make decisions and actions to change the status quo for each other's better selves. It is for the other party to strive to become a better self, which embodies a wide range: for example, ability improvement, character cultivation, fitness shaping, gardening baking and so on. In short, everything that becomes beautiful and better can be reflected in this way. Aunt Xu in the play learned to let go of the past and hatred for the sake of prosperity. Fang learns to treat every customer and colleague sincerely and learn to face and forgive his mother.

It is precisely because of this complementary operation that we become better ourselves and make each other feel refreshed. With preservatives, love becomes more lasting and precious. Therefore, the best love needs to be tolerant, grow together and achieve each other. Love and kill each other and complement each other.