1, don't make friends with first-class talents, lest you feel ashamed. A very talented person, a first-class genius, eloquent, very unparalleled. I was born stupid. Stupid birds fly first and occasionally succeed. Because I don't make friends with first-class talents, I don't know a small land, and there are people outside, but I tend to be complacent and talk to myself. . .
2, don't make friends with successful people, so as not to hurt self-esteem. The success of life is gratifying, but it is not absolute, it is relative, and can only be achieved at a certain stage, in a certain aspect and in a certain link. Failure is not absolute, but relative. Life cannot be perfect. It's long here and short there, so we must take it easy. So, in any case, don't deliberately make friends with those hot winners. Otherwise, it's just futile to look at others and compare yourself. Why bother?
3, don't make friends with rich people, so as not to hurt your mentality. Originally, life was good, the house was not big enough to live in, and the money was not enough; However, if you insist on associating with rich people and rich people, you will immediately feel too poor when you look at those luxurious gardens and luxury yachts. In fact, nothing has changed at home, just because my friend's carelessness suddenly turned him into a poor man, which in turn affected his optimistic attitude.
4, don't make friends with celebrities, so as not to enhance inferiority. Celebrities and celebrities are famous at home and abroad; I am unknown, like a nameless grass. If you insist on sticking your hot face on someone else's cold fart, please write an inscription, sign your name and invite a photo, which will probably be boring and make you feel particularly inferior.
5. Don't make friends with powerful people to avoid embarrassment. In the circle where I live, I can be upright, everyone respects me, and I also respect everyone and be respected. But if once you sharpen your head and blend into the circle of powerful people, you will inevitably be looked up to, looked down upon and become a miserable wretch despised by everyone. Isn't it self-deprecating?
People sigh the helplessness and feelings of middle age.
People lament the helplessness and feelings of middle-aged people (I) 1. It never occurred to me that when I reach middle age, I am still in the confused area of career choice. What should we do next?
In my eyes, a successful woman, no matter how young, has faith in her heart. When people reach middle age, they are not confused and mean at forty.
3. Sometimes, I think that there is a household lamp that I personally light, complete daily necessities, fresh fruits and vegetables, love for my partner, and a warm bed. Even if it is simple, it is happy.
4. Don't refuse to start because you are afraid of ending; Don't refuse to try just because you avoid failure. Life is a one-way street. If you miss it, there is no chance to start again. Don't let fate be full of regrets.
5. Life is alive, and it is impossible to predict the future. Fortunately and unfortunately, we will not know until the end. Therefore, the quality of life depends on the mentality. If you have a good attitude, bad things will turn into good things; If you have a bad attitude, good things will turn into bad things.
6.20 years old can afford toys that 10 years old can't afford, but there is no original expectation; At the age of 30, I have the courage to chase girls who dare not chase at the age of 20, but girls have been women for many years; At the age of 40, I wanted to cherish my friends who should be cherished at the age of 30, but I have been alienated for many years ... Life is like this. If I miss it, I will never come back. Some things are not done now and will not be done in the future.
7. There is no absolute fairness in life, but there is also relative fairness. On a scale, the more you get, the more you have to bear than others.
8. Adjust your mentality. When life is frustrated, the fate of static products is bitter and happy; When life is proud, listen to the brilliant movement of life; Many people's failures and pains are not that they can't get out, but that they can't get back.
9. Time flies, don't let me stay.
10. No one will know what tomorrow will be like, maybe it's a copy of today, maybe it's a paste of yesterday, but since you have chosen the distance, let's go through thick and thin.
1 1. I have never felt so tired. There are many things at work, and no one at home worries about them. Are people like this when they reach middle age?
12. People will always encounter setbacks, there will be low tides, there will be times when they are not understood, and there will be times when they have to feel inferior. These are precisely the most critical moments in life. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and confidently, believing that life will not abandon you and fate will not abandon you. I can't stand loneliness and can't see prosperity.
13. What do middle-aged women need? They need temperament, elegance, calmness and calmness.
14. In life, there are always some gains and losses, some joys and sorrows, which we can't control and predict, and will suddenly come. What we can do is to respond positively and adjust ourselves. If you are happy, try to control yourself and don't flaunt yourself because you are happy. Sadness is trying to overcome yourself. Don't lose yourself and suffer because of sadness. All kinds of life, regardless of gains, losses, joys and sorrows, face it calmly, get it, don't deny it, lose it, don't avoid it and deal with it calmly.
15. When people reach middle age, they will struggle for survival, money, reputation and status. Inadvertently played a variety of roles, along the way, many people will leave halfway, and many people will transfer schools halfway. Maybe you are tired, but I hope you don't give up.
16. When I was young, I prepared materials and wanted to build a bridge to the moon or two palaces or temples on the ground. Living to middle age, I finally decided to build a shed. anonymous
17. The hardest thing in life is to choose; The most difficult thing in work is innovation; The most painful thing in life is to ask for trouble; The most painful thing in life is injustice.
18. The world seen by positive life is sunshine, and the world seen by negative life is darkness; A positive life feels extremely happy, while a negative life only feels a little sad.
19. A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, only to find that he is also looked up to and envied. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others.
20. Sometimes, the question is complicated, but the answer is simple. Play hard, don't be too serious, anyway, no one can leave the game alive in the end. Life is like a stage. You didn't know how great you were until the curtain call.
People lament the helplessness and feelings of middle-aged people (Part II) 2 1. Pioneers seek their own way out, conservatives stick to the rules, explorers climb the peak bravely, and persistent people go forward bravely.
22. This is a greenhouse full of cacti. I stood for a long time with a balloon called happiness.
23. I suffered from occupational diseases when I was young. Oh, no, it's a middle-aged old aunt.
24. The wife is the master of young people; Friends of middle-aged men; For older men, they are nurses. Open your eyes before marriage; After marriage, you should turn a blind eye.
25. The greatest pleasure in life is dedication; The most beautiful flower in thinking is wisdom; The fastest step to progress is to continue; The best memory between friends is laughter!
26. Those vague feelings have become profound because of persistence.
27. When saying goodbye, try to be gentle, preferably as a joke, so that the other party feels that there is still a future.
28. People's trouble is 12: they can't let go, can't get over it, can't see through it and can't forget it. People are tired because they often hesitate; People suffer because they pursue too much; People are unhappy because they care too much; People are worried because they have a good memory. What they should remember and what they shouldn't remember will remain in their memories. In fact, the pain is not brought to you by others, but you asked for it. Learn to let go and don't let yourself live too tired.
29. I was reunited with my college roommate today. A recent photo of me was posted in the WeChat group. After reading it, I was extremely sad. When people reach middle age, they are greasy and want to vomit for a long time, from the heart. Very sad.
30. One concentrated study is better than one hundred times swallowing dates; An idea is worth a hundred reckless actions; A sincere help is better than a hundred pities; One brave act is worth a hundred brave words!
3 1. They didn't know you didn't go to bed until dawn until they saw you get up at noon. He laughs at your idiot and can't see the determination behind you; They see that you are surrounded by splendor, but they can't see your bitter efforts; They think you are laughing and heartless. They don't know that you are sad at night. You have to work very hard to look effortless. Even if you are photographed lying down, you have to pose beautifully.
We might as well lose what we have lost, because it will make us less disappointed; We might as well be less satisfied, because it can make us more awake.
33. Perhaps love is not passion, nor nostalgia, but time, and time has become a part of life.
34. The right person may not meet at the right time, but the wrong person may meet at the right time. This is the time difference in life.
35. In the past, I always felt that it was a long time, thinking that it was a distant thing for people to reach middle age. Now that more than ten years have passed, no matter how magnificent it is, it can't reach this corner in front of me.
36. Being humiliated comes and goes unintentionally, so peace of mind and elegance follow. Only sunshine without shadow, only joy without pain, that's not life. In the sober moments of life, under the shadow of sadness and sadness, people are closest to their true selves. Life is like a cup of coffee without sugar. It tastes bitter, but it has an endless aftertaste.
37. The road is at my feet, and I have no reason not to move forward well. The care of relatives and your company. These will be the best and most effective weapons I use to clear obstacles. The most precious thing in life is not what you can't get and what you have lost, but what you have now. It is a great pity not to cherish what is in front of you. Because what you have will always be lost, don't regret it, and learn to cherish what you don't have.
38. The quickest step is not to leap, but to continue; The slowest pace is not a small step, but a wandering; The best way is not the main road, but to be careful; The most dangerous road is not a steep slope, but a trap.
39. Walking in the dark at night, loneliness comes unexpectedly, but people who reach middle age have fewer and fewer friends, and they don't even make a phone call. Maybe this is loneliness.
40. The more a person knows the value of time, the more he feels the pain of losing time!
People lament the helplessness and feelings of middle age (Part III) 4 1. Don't calculate too much, let nature take its course. The fortune of life is interdependent, and you don't have to be too happy to get it. If you have some, you give up others, which is what you will get in the end. There is no need to suppress yourself, and there is no need to flatter. Maintaining the due strength of personality will win more opportunities and respect. Don't be particularly good to anyone, and don't be particularly bad to anyone. Never be used by a few people. Believing in yourself is more important than relying on others. It is better to do things calmly and do your best.
42. Life is wonderful because of sports, life is rich because of fun, learning is profound because of thinking, and making friends is sincere and lasting!
43. The less you ask your parents, the better. The less you ask of society, the better. The more you ask from books, the better. Ask wisdom as much as possible.
44. When people reach middle age, they are the backbone, including the old and the young. The old try their best to take care of them, and the young try their best to train them well, so they can't fall behind in their work. They can't stop all day. Fortunately, their attitude is good, so they won't make a fuss.
45. It's not easy for a woman to reach middle age, from the top to the bottom.
No matter where in the world, money is always the most effective and direct passport.
47. Looking at the sky, the clouds are floating quietly, the wind is blowing gently, and the wings of birds block a cold and salty rain.
48. Today is my birthday. Too soon. I am middle-aged and greasy.
49. Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifelong happiness; Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a heartbreak; Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a shortage. Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.
50. Love yourself well is the beginning of romance for the rest of your life. When people reach middle age, their skin will get worse and worse and wrinkles will increase, so you must learn to maintain it. Only in this way can you be more confident and experience the happiness of life.
5 1. Although the road of life is tortuous, it is beautiful. As long as you watch carefully, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way.
52. Middle-aged people are particularly tired. What is a foreign body? After the passion of youth disappears, everything is just a foreign object.
53. Love is patience and kindness ~ People often feel helpless in middle age, but because of the childishness in memory, they still hold the attitude of believing and persisting.
54. Many people are surprised to find that the reason why they can't achieve their goals is that their main goals are too small and vague, which makes them lose their motivation. If your main goal can't stimulate your imagination, then the realization of the goal will be in the foreseeable future. Therefore, what really motivates you to make progress is to set a grand and specific goal.
People are lovelorn, frustrated and even divorced all their lives, so that our suffering in love is just a springboard for you to grow up. On the springboard, the hardest thing for people is not the moment they jump, but the struggle, hesitation, helplessness and loss in their hearts before jumping, and they can't talk to others at all. We thought we couldn't jump, so we closed our eyes and got up the courage, but we skipped.
56. People don't know until middle age: there is no more arrogance of teenagers and romance of young people, but more understanding and perception of life!
57. Life is like this. If you are with sunny people, you won't feel gloomy. When you are with happy people, you often have a smile on your mouth; People who are enterprising will not lag behind in their actions; With generous people, you are not stingy; If you are with wise people, you will not be confused when you encounter difficulties; With smart people, you will become smart. Borrow people's wisdom to improve themselves; Learn from the best others and be the best yourself.
58. Life is tiring. I'm not tired now, but I'll be more tired later. Life is hard. It's not bitter now, but it will be more bitter in the future. Only when you are tired can you have leisure. Only when you are bitter will you know the sweetness.
59. Those who can stand failure are brave, and those who can stand ups and downs are omnipotent. It turns out that giving up is the biggest chance of winning. Smile and get friendship; Willing to tolerate, you get the atmosphere; Willing to be honest and get friends; Give up face and get reality.
60. When people reach middle age, even the background of happiness is no longer pure.
When people reach middle age, talk about the incisive opinions of friends who reach middle age.
1. When people reach middle age, there are three tragedies: baldness, obesity and wife loss.
When we were young, we all wanted to leave our parents and fly freely. When people reach middle age, when their parents are old and their legs and feet are no longer agile, we will return to them.
3. When people reach middle age, I voluntarily surrender myself and share my heart with all my needs and ideas. For the first time, I deeply understood the so-called spring silkworm to death. From the young people who are taken care of, they have officially entered the middle age of dedication.
Mid-Autumn Festival is when people reach middle age. What can a husband ask for? Sail on the water, watch the moon on the boat, and the moon shines on the river.
5. What's wrong with being young and frivolous? People will go into exile in middle age. Frivolous negative for frivolous, middle-aged efforts to go home!
6. Those who try to realize the hopes and wishes of youth in middle age must be deceiving themselves. Every decade of one's life has one's own luck, hopes and desires.
7. When people reach middle age, even the background color of happiness is no longer pure.
8. When flowers bloom, people will feel bored in middle age. If you don't hate late spring, it's better to use scented tea.
9. People don't understand until middle age. It turns out that many things have already been doomed.
10, autumn is the critical point in a year, just like a person reaches middle age.
1 1. People don't know how to own and cherish until they have experienced the ups and downs of life in middle age. When people reach middle age, they are the most tired, have the deepest feelings and have the heaviest responsibilities.
12, it was not until middle age that people discovered how complicated it is for adults to do seemingly simple things.
13, one of the signs of middle age: anxiety exists not only in the middle of the night, but all the time.
14, a sign of middle age is that mobile phone photo albums are no longer selfies and sand sculptures, but beautiful scenery presented by nature.
15, when people reach middle age, it's hard to hide their tenderness, so why wait for a clang?
16, middle-aged, two children, living under great pressure, said no, no job. I wish you better and better in the future.
17, middle-aged people, almost every day on weekdays is the same color, not worthy of flowers. I've been good at cleaning myself up since I was a child. Keep it up.
18, when people reach middle age, they can understand that everything goes with the flow, indicating that they have dreams, there may be right and wrong in the middle, but there will be no win or lose in the end!
19, middle-aged people can deeply understand the meaning, responsibility and problems of life and reflect on the value of life, so they feel deeply sad and happy.
20. When people reach middle age, they would rather pretend to be heartless than play ambiguous!
2 1. When you reach middle age, you find yourself from another family. Only by knowing what you are living for can you endure all the sufferings in the world.
22. I didn't know what true love was when I was young. When you reach middle age, it's too late to regret it!
23. When people reach middle age and get a little warmth, they should hold a magnifying glass to find their true feelings. Like swallowing a stupid candy.
24. When people reach middle age, they begin to feel that autumn is good. People everywhere don't sweep, just wait for the wind to fly.
25. Now that people are middle-aged and old, they can only stick to vulgarity until they die without dreams.
26. People should go to middle age and soak in a thermos cup.
27. Life occasionally gives you a deep sense of powerlessness. Stop at this time and see what the problem is. When people reach middle age, it is more and more important to be clear-headed.
28. When people reach middle age, they are the most tired, have the deepest feelings and have the heaviest responsibilities. Middle-aged people have mountains of morality and responsibility.
29. When people reach middle age, love is old, money is too little, and it is too early to talk about death.
30. When people reach middle age, they find things in life useful and interesting. Why can't something be both useful and interesting? I'm not even in the mood to look up at flowers. How do I know what poetry and distance are?
3 1, when people reach middle age, don't be sad or happy, just be calm.
32. I just don't know that "everything stops when people reach middle age." How can I waste the spring and autumn?
33. Why are there so few slim people in middle age? Among all kinds of desires in the world, only the realization of appetite is the easiest.
34. Middle age is the most tiring time in one's life. They are exhausted.
35, over the hill, only to find that no one is waiting; When people reach middle age, they can only move on.
36. Middle-aged people are addicted to idealism. Quietly watching the dribs and drabs of life. Stepping into middle age has also entered a stormy year. When people reach middle age, their hearts are on the journey. When they know what they have, they also know how to cherish it.
37. How cruel it is to yourself if you don't get scolded by a few people as scum when you reach middle age.
38. People take a lot of medicine in middle age, which is not easy to delay at all. I hate cold weather.
39, some suddenly and discerning, is the wisdom that people can only get in middle age. Some looking back and introspection are puzzles that can only be uncovered in middle age.
In the next three years, the lives of these five kinds of people will be miserable.
In the next three years, the lives of these five kinds of people will be miserable.
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1, people who don't know how to invest in themselves
When I call home, my mother often tells me not to spend money indiscriminately.
However, if I deposit 20,000 in 1 and 200,000 in 10, will I be great? !
No. Because when I use the 200,000 I saved in 10, other people's children may save this money in 1 0.
Without him, I knew how to invest in myself when I was young.
Money is dead, people are alive.
If you spend some money on yourself every month, go to class, go to fitness, make friends, travel and add value to yourself.
After many years, you will find that the money you spend can be doubled.
2. People who don't study after eight hours.
A foreign trade student realized that there were many Spanish customers in his first year of work, so he began to learn Spanish.
Go to class for two hours after work every day, rain or shine.
Three years later, because of the language advantage, the students met several big customers when they went overseas to participate in the exhibition, and their business expanded rapidly like a snowball.
In the seventh year, he even started his own company.
During the changes along the way, the students never stopped: studying for eight hours.
Modern society is a learning society, and knowledge is increasing at the rate of 10% every year.
Everyone must constantly learn and update their knowledge. If they refuse to study, they will not grow up and it will be difficult for them to make a difference.
3. People who care about their eyes and are nearsighted
Li Ting and Tan Sisi, college classmates, worked as interns in the same accounting firm after graduation.
After the internship, the company offered an opportunity to study in Hong Kong headquarters for two years, but the salary was halved and there was no commission.
Li Ting thought his salary was too low and he was unfamiliar with Hongkong, so he gave up.
Tan Sisi bravely and firmly chose to go to Hong Kong. In her opinion, it is a good deal to study and get paid.
Two years later, Tan Sisi returned to the company as the new project leader, and the company offered her an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, while Li Ting was still in her original post, and now her salary is less than one third of Tan Sisi's.
It is meaningful to accumulate a lot of money, and people who see far are often more able to hold their breath.
Don't care so much about the immediate gains and losses, and catch big fish for a long time, which is the really powerful person.
4. People who don't understand cooperation
A foreign company recruited six candidates 15 yuan to eat in the street.
Six people came to the restaurant together, but each meal cost at least 3 yuan. They didn't have enough money to eat one for everyone, so they went back in frustration.
Back to the company, the chairman shook his head after asking about the situation and said, sorry, none of you are suitable for our company.
That restaurant itself has a five-for-one discount. Even if there is no discount, you can take an extra bowl, buy five meals and divide them into six. But these six applicants never thought of getting together and forming a team.
Everyone only thinks of himself, so he can only go home empty-handed.
As the philosopher Ai Siqi said, a person is like a brick. If you throw it on the road, it is easy to be kicked off, but if you build it on the wall of the auditorium, no one can move it.
5. People who are slow to respond to new things
Two years ago, the second child policy was opened, and people who responded quickly seized business opportunities and invested in the entrepreneurship of maternal and child categories. In the past two years, my career has flourished.
Wechat appeared in 20xx. In 20xx, many people are still studying how to use it. People with a keen sense of smell discovered the bonus of the public platform and began to operate their own public accounts.
Now a lot of WeChat WeChat official account, Big V, have been done since then.
Eat small fish used to be a big fish, but now it is said that fast fish eat slow fish.
The emergence of new things is often accompanied by new undeveloped business opportunities, but the wind blows fast and people who are slow to respond to new things will never find a breakthrough.
In this era, we must always keep a sense of crisis and find and correct our own shortcomings in time, so that we can continue to develop in a better direction.
Otherwise, you will find yourself left behind by others in three years.
Bill Gates said: Change or be changed!
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