So these people are often those who are not so good-looking, get carried away with a little muscle and like to indulge themselves. These people are always very few. Of course, it is not excluded that they will hook up with the opposite sex when they are well trained. The probability is certainly lower. At least I've only heard of the legendary scum.
If you want to exercise, go ahead. At first, everyone has to go through a period of psychological and physical adaptation. Seeing others doing decent exercise makes them feel inferior and at a loss, and psychological pressure is often greater than physical pressure. At this time, you need to systematically learn some basic training movements, understand some fitness knowledge, and strengthen your brain first! Whether you are looking for a tutor or a friend to study, you must first standardize your actions. Whether it is to increase your muscle speed or the beauty of muscle shape, it is very important to do them in a standard way.
After getting used to it a few weeks ago, you will understand that there are bad guys and bad things in the gym, just like on the street, which has little to do with your own exercise. Grasping yourself is fundamental, whether it is internal or external, whether it is temperament or figure, how to operate is your choice!
Finally, a word of caution: Choose a decent gym with complete equipment, good atmosphere and close to home, and the locker room and bathroom must be cleaned frequently (otherwise the smell will be very strong), otherwise you can put your fitness card on the shelf for any excuse and wash away your fitness enthusiasm. It is recommended to consult the old fitness bird!