The first impression is very important, which determines whether they are willing to continue to associate with you and thus ignore you.
There are a lot of social software now, and everyone must be familiar with WeChat. As a frequently used dating and chatting software, it is loved by many young men and women.
You need to know how to make him curious about you, and then let the other person develop with you.
Xiao Huang knows this best. I have known him for a long time. He changes girlfriends almost every two or three weeks, although he is a playboy.
However, we have to admire his ability to strike up a conversation and make friends Last time, I drank with him. I asked him curiously where he learned his skills. He can have so many girlfriends. Do you have any skills in hitting on people?
A friend next to me also said, why can't I talk to them every time, and then they ignore me? We have never met. How does she know what I look like?
Xiao Huang proudly told us that it is really not easy to chat with beautiful women. This is a trick. Let me tell you how to strike up a conversation in the first sentence of WeChat.
Xiao Huang told me that he used to be a diaosi who didn't understand amorous feelings and couldn't chase girls. It was not until he accidentally read the book "The Manipulation of Love" that his life was changed. The book explains all kinds of knowledge about picking up girls in a simple way. After reading it, he understands why girls always ignore him when chatting with him, why he has been unable to ask out, and so on. I strongly recommend it to everyone here. There is an electronic version online.
First, you should get to know her when you are close to her, and the only place you can know her is some articles and words she usually reprints. You can take the time to know the general direction of what she likes, so that you can know what she likes in future contacts.
There are many ways to say the first sentence. It's impossible for people to have a good impression on you just by saying a word, but we can try to move closer in that direction so that we can continue to chat with others.
Usually hello, are you there? As the beginning of the first sentence, these are common, featureless and meaningless.
But if you want others to let their guard down, tell others about yourself first. There is no need to be careful and cumbersome. You can say your name, how to add it to others, and briefly introduce your work, so that others will not be malicious to you.
In addition, it is a more active way. In your circle of friends, you can learn about his hobbies, so that you can vote for what you like, you can say what you like, or ask her some questions to create a topic between you, and finally you can develop naturally.
The last one is playing cards with routines, which can create opportunities for you to know each other. As long as you say you are * * at ordinary times, she will definitely deny that you have the wrong person.
So you can say it's all wrong anyway, just make one more friend! There seems to be no reason to refuse this request. There are many routines you can use, but don't use those rotten streets, or it will be counterproductive.
An example of a beautiful woman who knows nothing:
I want to decorate your pale world.
B, your head looks good, so I want to talk to you.
C, I was just passing through the middle of heaven and hell, and I stopped by to see you.
D. People who are not confident usually don't have any introduction. I don't think you do!
At the beginning of the conversation, women often use tricks:
Who are you?
I am a free fish.
B, a person who makes your life more colorful.
C, I'm your distant uncle's neighbor's cousin's brother and aunt's grandson's uncle.
I'm the handsome guy across from your house. They envy my beauty, so they call me handsome.
E I am a handsome guy in the universe with a demon tower and a diamond ring.
Do you know me?
A, I know you now!
B, I happened to pass through the middle of heaven and hell, and I met you.
C, I'm your uncle's distant uncle's neighbor's cousin's brother and aunt's grandson's uncle!
D, I passed by thousands of times in my last life in exchange for today's meeting. You are Wukong that I lost hundreds of years ago.
I'm lucky to meet you. I believe you will be glad to know me, because time will tell. ......
What have you been up to recently?
A, I am busy during the day and at night.
B, I take building my motherland as my responsibility!
C, boldly go to pick up shit with the neighboring village king.
D, I'm going to pick up broken cardboard. Beauty, I have cardboard to sell!