1. Hobbies: Ask a girl what music, movies, books, sports and so on she likes. She likes it, knowing her hobbies can make chatting more interesting and relaxed.

2. Travel: Talk about your travel experiences and plans, and share your views and feelings about different places, so that girls can feel your adventurous spirit and independent thinking ability.

3. Food: Talking about favorite food and restaurants and asking girls if they have any delicious recommendations can enhance mutual understanding and have common topics.

4. Work and study: Understanding girls' careers and studies and sharing their own work and study experiences can help each other better understand each other's lives and values.

5. Family and friends: Ask a girl about her family and friends and learn about her family background and circle of friends, so as to establish a closer relationship.

6. Hobbies and dreams: Understanding girls' hobbies and dreams and encouraging them to pursue their own goals and dreams can make girls feel your support and encouragement and enhance their feelings.