My daughter is almost four years old. As an experienced person, if I have another confinement, I will definitely choose Yue Yue or Confucius Center. My sister-in-law is going to give birth in a few months, so I also suggest that they set up a confinement center as soon as possible.

The main question is whether it is worth it. Let's see what the new moon can bring.

1. Yue Yue can take full charge of the children, which can make pregnant women have a better rest in the next month. We know that the second month's newborn eats milk every two hours, and the mother will be very weak just after giving birth. If a mother still needs to nurse and take care of her children, poor rest will also affect her physical recovery. Usually, only the children look for their mothers when they are breastfeeding, and the rest of the time is taken care of by Yueyue.

2. Yue Yue has more professional knowledge, which can make the baby get better care. As a novice mother, although she has learned a lot of parenting knowledge, she has no experience after all, so many novice mothers are eager to take care of their children. With the help of Yue Yue, mothers can also learn more about parenting in the face of their babies' various conditions.

3. Come and cook the moon meal in the next month, so that mothers can eat healthier. Yue Yue is responsible for taking care of babies and parturients. After professional training, the monthly diet will be healthier and more reasonable.

4. The appearance of the new moon will reduce many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. We say that the real relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is after giving birth to children. The disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often caused by different parenting concepts. With the help of Yue Yue, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be avoided. You can also teach parenting knowledge to your elders through professionals.

However, I have to say that the lunar new year market is also a mixed bag, and many lunar new years are irregular, so I will give you some ways to choose the lunar new year. First, look at the documents to see if there is a New Year's card; Second, look at experience and see if it is rich; Third, it is best to introduce through acquaintances, and it is best to know the roots.

So in my opinion, the monthly salary of 8000 yuan is a little expensive, but it is still worth it.

Now I have backache, leg pain and aches all over, especially on cloudy days. On the first day, I knew that the weather would change the next day. I couldn't eat cold food and felt uncomfortable after eating. Alas, this is the disease of the moon, saying that it is a lifetime, and it is the pain of my life!

When I gave birth to my daughter in 2004, because the heating in the countryside was inconvenient, the old quadrangle where I lived leaked air everywhere and I couldn't see the sun all day. It's cold and humid. Although I bought an air conditioner at that time, it was not hot at all. I have a good mother-in-law who can take care of me, but my life is not spread out. At that time, my mother-in-law was over 50 years old and hated having girls in all aspects. She doesn't cook well and makes a face, let alone take care of the children. Regardless, I don't know anything about parenting. What should I do? While calling my parents (coincidentally, my sister-in-law just gave birth to a little niece), I learned to do it and took care of it carefully. Get up countless times every day for fear of problems. I just want to sleep here, where the baby wakes up. I just picked up chopsticks and wanted to feed the children. Children cry when they pee when they are hungry. ) I have a restless heart. Sit and lie down every day and let her mother-in-law take care of her. I refused several times. I didn't know I cried.

Ten days after her daughter was born, her stomach became inflamed, her face turned yellow, her eyes turned yellow, and she only gained one catty. My husband and I were in a hurry and took her to the hospital. At that time, there was no car at home, so we had to ride a tricycle without a hood. It was a cold day in the twelfth month, and I set off with my skinny daughter wrapped in a quilt, shivering with cold. The doctor said that the child's jaundice is serious and needs to be hospitalized for a week. When the baby is born, he has to drink more water or drink more water. Worried and scared, we rushed to the hospital according to the instructions of the hospital, because the child's small blood vessels were hard to find, and sometimes seven or eight stitches were needed a day, and the child cried, my heart was bleeding and my daughter cried. I am very distressed (my mother-in-law didn't take care of it all day), and my daughter can always tie it. How painful! Finally, the jaundice disappeared and we were discharged from the hospital. At home, we simply finished drinking Happy Face (when drinking Happy Face, my mother-in-law took care of her daughter-in-law and children at home, but her mother-in-law went to the restaurant early to report the gift. It seems that we have nothing to do with her. In the end, I didn't see the gift, so I accepted it, full of grievances. What should I do? I suffered ...). After the happy face, I take care of my daughter as usual. A month has passed, and mine has passed.

I think I owe my daughter too much. I didn't take good care of her, took care of myself carefully, and didn't want my daughter to suffer any more. But a month after birth, we were admitted to the hospital again. This time, because my daughter had a cold and turned to pneumonia, she stayed for another week and was tortured again. I have been blaming myself, hunger strike, depression, not wanting to communicate, staring at her all the time, fantasizing, and then I have no milk. What should I do? Give milk, look after the poor daughter, learn to be strong, self-mediate, and comfort yourself, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable, and the daughter has left a nightmare shadow. Now she is very scared to see a doctor.

I hate my ignorance and my panic. I should learn parenting knowledge as soon as possible so that my daughter will not get jaundice, get sick and suffer. I owe this to my daughter. I really don't know how to make up for it. I can only try my best to satisfy my daughter, and I only hope that my daughter will be healthy and happy forever!

To sum up, I think some things can't be measured by money. People who can take good care of you will not suffer a lot, but will leave more regrets. I think pre-pregnancy education is very important. Babies can get warm care and grow up healthily. Pregnant women are very important, not only from the diet mentality, but also from nutrition and fitness. On that day, my colleague also said that if you want another child, you will definitely choose the Moon Center or ask for a new moon. No matter how much money she spends, health is the most important thing, and children are more important.

The above is my personal opinion. I've been there, too. I've been through this. I hope that young women who are not married or have no children must pay attention. If 8000 yuan can make me live a comfortable and healthy month, I think it is worth it.

This is not a question of value, but a question of need!

Spending money on health, will 8,000 yuan be more? I am a second-born baby mother, and my due date is July. In the second month, it was agreed that my mother living in the same community would take care of my diet and life, and my mother-in-law would take care of Dabao and take care of the effective two treasures.

It is said that the disease of Yuezi can only be cured in the second month, and it is not well regulated, and the root cause of the disease is lifelong. After giving birth to the second child, there will basically be no third child, so the whole family will try their best to ensure that I have a good life. If my mother doesn't take care of my diet, I will definitely ask for a new moon.

After all, the moon meal given by my mother-in-law is not for your needs. She thinks that children need you to eat whatever you want!

8000 yuan should be the price of an ordinary month. First of all, from the analysis of market economy, you didn't waste money. Compared with the health of your generation, it is certainly worthwhile.

Health is the capital of revolution. With the help of Yueyue, you can make more money and take care of your baby. Our generation, with poor living conditions, is branded with various kinds of moon diseases. Not only have they suffered all their lives, but they have to work hard to take care of their children.

Compared with the dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is better to buy a clean house for 8000 yuan. You know, confinement is also the peak of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many mothers-in-law promised to take care of their daughter-in-law, but how many mothers-in-law can take care of their daughter-in-law when young babies also need to be taken care of?

Mother-in-law may have a good attitude towards care, but she is too slow to do things. When Dabao was born, I didn't know why I spent a day taking care of a doll who slept for more than ten or twenty hours every day. I waited for her to cook for the next month, which was the end of time.

Moreover, she has brought three grandchildren, and the concept of parenting is very authoritative. I even suppressed internal injuries!

Therefore, I think it is better to ask for a new moon next month. When there is a disagreement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, listening to this professional's opinion can avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Moreover, when the new baby arrives, the mother-in-law may be inexperienced, and the novice parents will be even more panicked. It is also necessary to invite the whole family to spend the novice period next month.

Earning money for so long, saving money is a lifetime thing. Therefore, at the most critical time for yourself and your baby, it is more important to take care of yourself and your child and handle your own needs!

If you want a professional confinement, it's certainly worth my confinement. At that time, I really regretted not asking for a month.

It was my mother who took care of me at that time, but because my mother was old, I didn't let the children sleep beside her, and I took care of them at night.

At these times, when I came home after surgery and felt particularly cold, I especially wanted to have a new moon. I really want to go to the Moon Club.

In the middle of the night, the pot is cold and the stove is cold. I want to drink a hot soup but I can't wake my family. I really want a new moon.

When I am sleepy in the middle of the night, I really miss a new moon, when I am strong enough to breast-feed my child.

I fell asleep while feeding, and suddenly I woke up with a tingle. I really want a new moon when I am afraid of crushing my child.

Mom's cooking is not particularly appetizing. Although she needs all kinds of soup and water in the month, she really wants a month when she can't drink.

Children can only drink milk powder when the milk is not enough, and then the breast milk is getting less and less. He really wants a new moon that can guide him.

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Whether it is worth it depends on where it is used. I feel that if it is a professional month, it is still worthwhile. After all, life can't be locked up several times, which can make you more comfortable. Why not?

Money can be earned again, but the body is your own.

Yue Yue must undergo professional knowledge training and skills training before taking up his post. Maternal and child care is very professional.

Whether it is vaginal delivery or cesarean section, after a long period of labor pains and childbirth, physical strength and energy have been seriously overdrawn. Therefore, on the day of delivery, the first task of the new mother is to seize the time to rest and restore physical strength.

With Yue Yue, new mothers don't have to worry. Yue Yue will take care of the baby, let the baby suck when the breast milk is golden, care about the baby's jaundice peak, umbilical cord care, prevent heat rash and diaper rash, and know the baby's bath water temperature and indoor temperature. Baby's touch, massage, passive exercise. A baby's clothes cover.

Nursing care of new mother in the second month. Scrubbing the body, changing clothes, helping mother massage breasts, dredging mammary glands, opening milk early and sucking early to promote smooth milk secretion.

Responsible for the new mother's moon meal, light first, then nutrition. According to the new mother's own situation, in a period of time, such as a few days or a week, you can refer to the dietary pagoda to balance the average recommended amount of various foods, and similar foods can be interchanged to ensure rich varieties and good appetite. It is important to gradually develop good eating habits and stick to them for a long time after delivery. Instruct new mothers to do postpartum exercise after delivery. Let the new mother have a good rest and get well soon.

Every night, Lunar New Year not only lacks sleep, but also the limited sleep is divided into fragments of about half an hour, making it difficult to enter deep sleep. This situation is more difficult than any night shift. During the day, she still has to be busy.

What do you mean? It cost 8,000 yuan for a new moon. Is it worth it?

That depends on where your coordinates are. A few days ago, it was said that a young couple in Beijing wanted a new moon. I didn't expect the market of Yueyue to be quite hot. The slightly experienced Yueyue was decided as early as six months ago. Moreover, the price of asking for a new moon is not cheap: 8800 yuan for a junior moon, 800 yuan for an intermediate moon1800-15800 yuan for an advanced moon 15800- 19800 yuan for a special moon19800 yuan.

If you are in Beijing, 8000 yuan can get a novice, and the price is actually quite cheap. The average monthly rental price in Zhejiang Province starts from 10,000 yuan.

Why is the new moon so "expensive"?

1. Yue Yue is more professional.

Yue Yue is generally a professionally trained person who has rich experience in nursing mothers and newborn babies and is more professional than the elderly at home.

2. Asking for a new moon is beneficial to family harmony.

Many families will have family conflicts because of how to take care of their children, especially the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so taking a new moon can avoid this very well.

Asking for a new moon is conducive to the new mother's physical recovery.

The new moon can give the baby a bath, touch and change diapers, so that the new mother can rest better; In addition, the Lunar New Year will prepare a moon meal for pregnant women, and a scientific and nutritious moon meal can promote the recovery of pregnant women more quickly.

It can be seen that having a new moon is of great benefit to babies, mothers and families. If you have the conditions, you must ask for a new moon.

You think it's worth it, because you spent money.

If you hire a professional, it's worth it. Parallel lunar new year's eve will block your heart and spend money. A friend of a friend introduced me to one, 26 days old, 12 thousand, in her early 50 s, unprofessional and irresponsible. She sleeps alone in a room every day. Every time the doll is noisy, she asks my husband to knock on the door and ask her out. She thinks that no one in our family can rely on her. Cooking is average. My mother found that the noodles were not cooked and gave them to me! The old traditional concept of confinement is unscientific, and babies are not allowed to take a bath and wash their hair. Besides, she kept saying nothing. After going to the hospital, I didn't eat or sleep, and the index was too high. The hospital took a blue light for five days. 15 days later, I settled with her and told her to fuck off. Arrive at three o'clock in the afternoon on the first day and leave at eight o'clock in the morning on the last day. I also paid her two days' salary. Therefore, if you can go to the Confucius Center or a formal intermediary to ask for a new moon, if you don't do well, you can at least complain. This kind of so-called good introduction is a matter of opinion.

Hello, I'm David's mother. I'm glad to accept the invitation.

I am a novice mother who spent more than 2,000 yuan and 8,000 yuan that month.

Desperate choices are still common in this city, and many good friends around me are asking Yue Yue to help take care of Zi Yue.

This choice is really helpless. The specific situation of each family is different.

My mother is in poor health, so my husband and I discussed not to let her suffer. We originally planned to take care of the children by ourselves and have a confinement by ourselves.

Later, the day before the due date, I was admitted to the hospital. In the delivery room of the hospital, three couples who are going to be parents are chatting.

I know from experience that confinement is not as simple as I thought. So, we overturned our idea of being confined.

Before leaving the hospital, the doctor recommended a new moon in a hospital. It is said that she had a tight schedule and went to another novice mother's house.

I listened to the doctor and went home with Yue Yue after discharge.

The role of the new moon begins from this moment. She helped me hold my baby, went home to help me decorate my room, and measured the humidity and temperature. Teach me to bathe my baby myself and watch my baby enjoy a new life comfortably. I dare not think about what kind of experience I will have with Xiaobai.

The Value of Career Achievement Seeing Yue Yue's professional skills and skills, I learn a lot from her every day. I thought that my husband and I could get started quickly when the new moon expired and left.

Moreover, she taught me to eat fruit roasted with slow fire and told me how to arrange my own diet. Which foods are not fat, and which ingredients have been improved to retain nutrition to the maximum extent.

Through this month's study, I feel the importance of scientific parenting, and it is precisely because of the company of Yueyue that I will not be at a loss when facing a new life.

If you have a young mother to help you read more books on scientific parenting, you may not have to spend this money.

Still have to look at your own situation and do what you can. I belong to the helpless way.

Of course it's worth it. The confinement is for pregnant women to have a good rest and recuperate. Asking for a new moon can make them relax a lot and make their bodies recover better.

When I gave birth to my big treasure. I didn't ask for a new moon, but I came by myself. Really tired, really tired. I don't get enough sleep every day Sleep only four or five hours a day, and wake up once every hour or two. I have to change the diaper bag, feed or spit milk. Feeding and changing the urine bag makes my back ache and I often can't stand up. The baby still spits milk from time to time. He has to scrub the baby himself and change the bedding of the baby's bed. I feel sick all over. Really busy, almost collapsed.

Although the mother-in-law helps you, she will cook you three meals and help the baby bathe. Other times, if you don't help at all, you have to do it yourself. My mother-in-law also complains from time to time, which is really tiring and hectic for a novice mother. I lost a lot of weight in a whole month.

And many novice mothers have postpartum depression, so tired and busy. Will collapse many times.

Asking for a new moon can really make the mother recover better after confinement. After all, Yueyue has the experience of taking care of the parturient and the newborn, so she won't let herself be in a hurry or be too tired. You can also have less unpleasant friction with your in-laws. You can still make money after spending it, which really causes postpartum depression and takes a long time to recover. Because the contradiction between confinement and mother-in-law will also affect the relationship between husband and wife, it is worthwhile to confinement and ask for confinement.