1. Make yourself a popular boy.
So do boys. They always avoid dissatisfied girls, but they will try their best to get close to the girls they like. Girls are emotional, jealous and curious, and they are always curious in the face of boys who care about themselves, which gives boys an opportunity. Talk about topics of interest according to the occasion, and you can open a dialog box to increase your understanding. In fact, unpopular boys are lonely and indifferent, and they all want to be in a lively atmosphere and be welcomed by everyone. This requires boys to be confident first. Only by believing in themselves can girls feel safe. How to become a popular boy, the most important thing is self-confidence, talkativeness and elegance.
2. Create more opportunities and go deep into her heart step by step.
Determining the relationship is the first step. After the girl agrees to be your girlfriend, many people always want to further enhance each other's feelings, but there is nothing they can do. In fact, there is nothing I can do, because I missed too many opportunities to enhance my feelings. Girls pay great attention to details and care about helping them with their coats and bags. When these details are done, there is no need to deliberately improve the relationship, but it will rise to a higher level. However, it should be noted that considerate actions must be made according to the specific situation, otherwise it will be self-defeating.
3. Meet by chance.
Compared with the boys introduced by blind date, the boys you meet are more attractive to girls. If you meet each other by chance many times in a period of time, girls usually think that this is God's arrangement and you are meant to be. So, how can there be so many accidental encounters? In fact, as long as you can use good skills. For example, if you want to know a girl, you must first know her transportation route to and from work, and often take the same bus or route with her. She will notice you within ten times. This experience will make girls interested and curious about you. Once she is curious about you, you can strike up a conversation with her, because she probably won't refuse your conversation.
4. Routine, don't give in to girls' words and attitudes.
Every girl is fickle, cute and scary. Girls are all double-faced. They look weak and gentle on the outside, but they are stubborn and strong-willed on the inside. Many boys will succumb to girls' words and attitudes and think they love her. Boys who are too docile may be accepted as maternal meal tickets, but most of them will not be regarded as lifelong partners by girls.
5, routines, occasionally coquetry
Not only boys need girls to spoil him, but girls also need boys to spoil her. It is easy to touch her heart and greatly satisfy her self-esteem. But you can't spoil a girl intentionally or often. It's not worth the candle.
6. Show your compassion.
Smile at flowers and small animals often to show your closeness, which will make girls think that you are a loving and lovely boy. She will think you are gentle, safe and trustworthy.
7. Be a responsible boy.
Why use the word "appear" here? Because not all boys are as responsible as I am, you have no sense of responsibility and are not afraid for the time being. You have to pretend to be very responsible and let the girls feel this, otherwise no one wants to associate with an irresponsible boy. If you act like one, congratulations, you will get used to being a responsible boy in the near future. Because you will find that responsible boys will always be favored by girls!
8. Routine, definitely be a generous boy.
The generosity of boys is not only reflected in treating people, but also in treating girls' friends of the opposite sex. Don't ask questions nervously, and don't provoke jealousy. Knowing that a girl is being chased shows that she is a good person and interesting, and it is interesting to have an opponent. Love gained with wisdom will be more cherished! As for generosity, you have to do it when you have to. As the saying goes, "children can't trap wolves." If you don't even want to buy mineral water for others on a date, do you still want to have a second chance to meet? Of course, you can't just give gifts to girls' homes. You know, giving gifts casually is disrespectful to others, and you have no feelings for it. If you give gifts before you start, it will make girls feel better!
9. Don't be impatient in the pursuit process.
There is a saying that "you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient." Running after people all day, everyone will get bored. So remember my eight-character motto "Hot and cold, playing hard to get". Don't be too enthusiastic about a girl, or she will think your love is too easy. So, disappear for two days, and she will remember your kindness. In addition, learn how to create opportunities. One sentence is very applicable: "There is no difficulty, we should create difficulties." If there is no opportunity, we will create it. Even if you wait and wait, turn it into a beautiful romantic encounter. Of course, this requires some technical content, and those who are interested can trust my suggestion privately.
Routine 10. Follow the curve, follow the route.
In other words, at the beginning, we don't have to appear as suitors. We can appear beside her as ordinary friends, and then find opportunities to become good friends, and then be her confidante or something. Anyway, let's not mention the word "chase" for the time being. You know, we didn't say the word "chase". How could she refuse your pursuit? The consequence of this is that it will not cause psychological pressure on girls, and everything will develop naturally until it finally wins their hearts! It is also a good idea for girls to pursue facts rather than promises, and not to give her the name of their best friend easily. Even if you kiss her or even go to bed, don't say "please be my girlfriend" to her, because the hazy situation is beneficial to boys, so it is easy to win the hearts of girls!
The real provocation is to pretend that you don't care about the source, but you need to work hard to provoke! See how those crazy girls on the Internet are aroused.
Woman: "Do you want sugar in your coffee?"
Man: "No, you just smiled at me, which is enough for my sweet day."
Woman: "If you do this again, I will hack you ~"
Man: "Even if you delete all my contact information, I can still find you, because I have always lived in your heart."
Man: "I want to see you later."
Woman: "Why? . . . . . "
Man: "when I become more mature and steady, I can protect you better." I will give you the rest of my life. "
While she was laughing, she suddenly said to her with a serious face, "Would you stop laughing like that outside?" If she argues, you can say it again, "because any man will fall in love with you when he sees it."