Nowadays, many people fall in love for the purpose of getting married. There is also a saying, "Love that does not aim at marriage is hooliganism". I envy those people who have been walking into the marriage hall hand in hand since their school days. The real life only loves one person, and the first love is a lifelong companion.

My own avatar is Curry, and he is such a man. I met my wife Aisha from high school and joined hands in the marriage hall. Now he is also a well-known national star, and his life makes me want to copy. But everyone's experience is different. Love and marriage are extremely precious and rare in life.

It's not that you want to marry someone else. Everyone has different ideas. When we fall in love with a girl, we don't say that we must get married in the future at the beginning, but many people have planned this idea in their hearts. When we get along with each other to a certain extent, we will make this appeal to each other. Some people will accept it gladly, while others don't want to get married yet.

This is one thing that everyone is in a different state. Many people don't want to meet their parents and talk about marriage. In our tradition, taking the initiative to meet each other's parents means that your relationship has entered the next more intimate stage, and it is time to talk about marriage. Many people will consider their own situation, for example, he may be in the rising period of his career and don't want to enter the next stage so early, or he is still in the tense stage of his studies. Some of them are unwilling to get married, or they may be afraid of getting married.

Every couple's situation is different, so we can't generalize. But we need to pay attention to each other's feelings and try to respect each other's ideas on the premise of satisfying our own demands.

If you insist on meeting your parents, but the other party doesn't want to, which leads to the breakdown of your relationship, then don't slander others, it's just that you have different ideas.