What happened to those who fell in love for a long time and separated?

0 1 ? Yule

Fall in love for 6 years, from college to graduate school for 2 years.

I didn't know until I was broken up.

My boyfriend broke up after cheating for half a year, but it took half a year to know the truth.

A bolt from the blue I can't believe it. I've always denied it.

In the first month of breaking up, I was in a trance and exhausted. I don't understand. I don't believe it. I want to save it.

The next month, I began to hate myself for not seeing it earlier, for letting him break up at such a low price, and for ruining my youth.

In the third month, I began to feel sad. Bitches appear in my dreams from time to time. I think of them when I listen to songs, walk and watch TV, but they are all sad memories.

In the fourth month, sort out the past photos, or delete them or not. I also began to sort out my mood and let my sadness be completely released.

In the fifth month, I began to be afraid of facing the difficulties of life alone, but I was very calm and could talk about the failed relationship indifferently.

In the sixth month, I slowly found my own happiness and liked myself more than before.

Now, he has long since left my sight.

02 ? Hao ping

Fall in love for 8 years

High school classmates, once for him, were admitted to graduate schools and civil servants.

Unexpectedly, he married his hometown girl like lightning.

Super nostalgic, after hell's pain,

Turning grief into strength after death, I was admitted to the best unit in a first-tier city and became rich, confident and powerful.

I bought my own house, and now the person I like is pampered and ready to get married.

Never wronged yourself again.

03 corsage

Be in love for 2 years

We argued before we broke up, Lacrimosa.

When I was in class, when I went to the library and when I went to KTV, I would unconsciously think of the good memories I had with him, which I would never forget.

There is no news, but after a long time, I will still be hurt and cry.

I found that I still can't talk about another love.

Relations with many friends have weakened.

04 Xiaofeng

Fall in love 10 years, 19 years old to 29 years old, freshman to graduate with a doctorate.

Never thought about being apart,

But he is free again.

In the first month, I couldn't bear to look back and dare not recall anything in the past.

In the second month, in order not to worry my family, I pretended that nothing had happened every day and that I was lovelorn.

In the third month, I worked crazy, wrote a fund to do projects, tossed myself, and occasionally thought of turning into a sigh, raising my hand to wipe my tears, and continued to work.

In the fourth month, I began to sort out the things of these nine years and return what belongs to him.

The fifth month, starting from the fourth month, came out one after another.

In the sixth month, I finally became an old girl in the eyes of my family and was forced to embark on the road of blind date, but I still couldn't get through it.

Later, I deleted my ex-boyfriend's WeChat while it was hot. Fuck the horizon, fuck the freedom and fearlessness, and fuck the unwillingness to return to China for development.

Since then, rivers and lakes are far away, and there will be no future!

It took nearly nine months to get out of the haze.

Know how to love hard and be decent if you don't love.

05 ? soul

Love for 8 years, from 18 to 27 years old.

From ignorance to maturity, love is vigorous.

Eight years of slapstick, scolding, breaking up, almost dying, laughing and warmth are all weaknesses and armor of the other side.

Before we got married, we had a bitter quarrel and broke up.

Shortly after breaking up, he quickly started a new relationship and broke up.

After breaking up, I complained, I regretted, I hated, I saved myself,

Finally, I met a very touched person, and I began to forget.

Weibo was tricked into crying when he saw the phrase "One thousand years, ten thousand years" and his silhouette.

Deleted all Baidu cloud photos, and emptied these 8 years of youth.

I haven't seen you so far and I won't see you again.

Now I finally have no nostalgia and love for him. ?

Eight years, good or bad, is an experience.

06 ? With the wind

10 years, officially together for 8 years.

I felt relieved and free when I first broke up.

A few days later, the sequelae came out, and I found that she had been integrated into every bit of my life, and I would think of her in everything I did.

Until one day after a long time, I did what I did with her, and I finally got over it in retrospect.

In fact, it's nothing. It's all a wonderful stop in life, but life goes on.

Now they are well. Although they are like relatives, they have never met again.

07 ? June

For five years.

My ex-girlfriend and I went to high school together. When we confirmed the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, my girlfriend secretly loved me for 5 years and fell in love for 5 years.

Planning to get married. But in the end, she fell in love with a rich married man.

At that time, I was full of hope, bought a wedding ring and proposed to her. I broke up for a year and finally broke up.

After breaking up, I met another person, and I still contacted her in the first year. When I knew I couldn't go back to the original point, I gave up completely.

Then I got married and gradually forgot about her.

Maybe I never saw it again!

08 ? Ningning

Be in love for three and a half years

Separate from each other

Occasionally I feel stuffy in my chest, some roads I don't want to go in my life, and some people don't want to see each other again, but they are mean.

I tried to live with a person with a split personality. I was normal during the day and covered with scars at night, so I was too fragile to handle my emotions.

The first person to forget his own voice,

Change the original living habits, exercise, read books, practice calligraphy, go to bed early and get up early, and live like ordinary people.

Slowly get a real sense of satisfaction and accomplishment.

Love is not a savior. What you are is the person you love. Love shows you who you really are,

Everyone who leaves can live a good life. We will always be ourselves.

Breaking up is a disaster, but it is also a new hope.

We have learned to be strong and remain unmoved in the face of stormy waves.

We have learned to be brave and still believe in love through vicissitudes.

We learned to be alone, the world is noisy, and our hearts are calm.

We have learned to love, and when love comes, we have the ability to hug.

We have found our true selves and will not stumble in love.

We learned a lot of things that we couldn't believe before and found the bright spot of life.