When you can't let go of your former lover, try the following methods, which are very practical? First, don't dwell on the reasons, learn to let go of many people and lovers, and then try to find out the reasons? So hard pursuit can't get the answer, so I can't extricate myself and live a painful life. Actually, this is really unnecessary. The more you want to get to the bottom of many things, the more you will fall into the whirlpool of pain. As Dr Caraveliger once said, "They will find it difficult to accept the objective fact of divorce. Among the people I have explored, only one person can't find a statement. After years, he is still struggling. " In real life, there are really too many people like that. They are obsessed with why they broke up and have been asking themselves in pain. Not worth it. My friend Xiao Rong is such a girl. From the moment her boyfriend separated from her, he was in great pain. He has been obsessed with the reasons for breaking up, which has had a great impact on his work and life. Xiao Rong and her boyfriend have been in love for two years and have been gone for a year. Originally, they fell in love at first sight, but they still didn't withstand the hardships of different places. Just when Xiaorong wanted to leave her job to find a boyfriend, her boyfriend called her and suddenly wanted to break up with him. Xiao Rong hung up the phone and blacked her out without asking why. Such behavior made Xiao Rong deeply saddened. She really doesn't understand what's wrong with her.

So, she even went to her boyfriend's work unit to find him, but there was no information about her boyfriend, so she had to go home heartbroken. Since then, Xiao Rong has been very anxious, it is difficult to really learn to let go of her boyfriend, and she can't forget this relationship. It wasn't until one day later that Xiaorong saw that her boyfriend had several more girlfriends from her friend WeChat circle of friends, and she realized that her boyfriend had changed his mind long ago, if she didn't love him. So, she sent a WeChat circle of friends: "This ungrateful person will never be lonely in his life." Finally, Xiao Rong let go, found the reason to break up and gave himself an explanation. What would the girl look like if Xiao Rong didn't know that her boyfriend had changed his mind and was still obsessed with the past? It's hard to imagine that girls will really let go.

Therefore, I would like to remind everyone here that if a relationship can't reach the end, it's best not to pursue the reasons for breaking up, which is worthless. Maybe you are in pain in your past relationship, but the other person has a new lover. Fly with me. Everyone can't stop others from not liking it, but we can guarantee that we can learn to let go. Don't part with people who don't belong to me. He may not be worthy of your kindness. For example, Yi Shu wrote in "Thank you for leaving me": "One day, you can smile at the pain of the past. You can be grateful to the person who left you. He doesn't deserve your love, his love and your infatuation. After all, he is not the one who is meant to be. Fortunately, he is not. " Learn to let go of yourself and don't entangle with worthless people. This is a better explanation for yourself.

Second, accept new feelings again and start from scratch. If a relationship can't be forgotten, the best way is to start a new one. Accept new people, accept new things, accept new feelings, and let yourself grow in forgetfulness. This is the way to truly be worthy of yourself. If you always live in the shadow of the past, don't accept new things and reject new feelings, you will only close yourself up and your pain will increase day by day. MengMeng, a good friend, talked about her predecessor and sighed, but she also let go. She has been in love with her boyfriend for five years, and how many joys and sorrows she has experienced during this period is really inexhaustible. She has always loved her ex wholeheartedly, thinking that she can get married. Unexpectedly, on the eve of the upcoming engagement, her ex was in the same room with another woman. When he learned that, his heart was as cold as water for an instant. She slapped her predecessor and finally left heartbroken. Since then, MengMeng has gradually devoted himself to his work, actively charging for study, fitness, beauty and skin care, etc. Spend all the time lost in feelings on improving yourself.

Finally, MengMeng got a raise at work, and her weight dropped from 1 15 kg to 92 kg, becoming a delicate and delicate woman. Then she was pursued for perfection by an excellent man. They have only known each other for three months and have become lovers. After falling in love with her current boyfriend for half a year, they got together and the wedding reception was grand. After marriage, MengMeng lived a very happy life. MengMeng said, if separated, don't feel sorry for the past, try to improve yourself and accept new feelings, which is a good counterattack against rebellion and the best blessing for yourself. It's never too late to start from scratch. After an unsuccessful love affair, MengMeng knew this better. Therefore, we should not be trapped in the pain of the past, but face it positively and redouble our efforts to meet new feelings and start a new life. There is no lover who can't let go. If you can't forget, you just don't want to learn to let go. However, all this is meaningless. If we need to solve the past, we need to regain our confidence. When we meet the right person, you will have a wonderful gradual progress.