First, the scope of application: most girls use: 5 stars to catch keywords. In short, when chatting with a girl, find out the key words in her words. However, this method can be very good through extension and supplement. Speak according to girls' ideas and change their straight thinking. After all, the key words a girl said must be of interest to her. If you continue to extend them, you will definitely find the topic she is interested in, and this method can also make girls feel that topic connection is natural, and she can easily pick up what you say. For example: 1, "I just woke up" Reply: I am often like you. I stayed up late, and then got up late. Sleeping late is especially satisfying. Of course, I have to sleep in on weekends, so do I, and then go to the gym. 2. "I think the hangzhou dishes I ate tonight is particularly light." Girls generally like light food. In fact, many cuisines are biased towards the list, such as Cantonese cuisine and Shanghai cuisine. Let's eat together next time. Second, the scope of application of sharing scenes: a lively and curious girl is easy to use: 4-star sharing scenes are commonly used chat skills. Simply put, take a photo of her, then add some simple descriptions of yourself, and then start to extend the topic. Girls are curious, especially those who are lively, and it is easier for them to question your dynamics and become curious, especially some particularly interesting things. You can share your story and status with her, which can not only show your value, but also avoid being treated as a straight man and talk to girls for a few more days. For example: 1, a photo of you at work or a file on your desk+I was so busy today that I almost talked to you (the implicit communication of this sentence is): I am busy at work+but I will still remember you +2, a photo of eating in a restaurant+the things here are really good, well decorated and special. It's an online celebrity store, and it's worth waiting in line. Take you next time (topics that can be expanded are: food+beautiful decoration+queuing+vague invitation) 3. A pet photo+hi! I say hello to you for my cat! This sentence can be extended downward: pets+boys with pets+show your love) Third, the scope of application of cold reading: the degree to which relatively cold girls are easy to get started: the four-star cold reading method is actually to mix the above two methods together and then explore the inner world of girls, which is a higher level of' communication'. Sister leng, her inner world is rarely understood, but it is precisely because few people understand their ideas that they are more eager for someone to enter their hearts. For example: male: "Ah, you are XXX, so you are that kind of girl!" " "Woman:" What kind? "M:" Sisters in XX generally look very independent, but sometimes they want to be taken care of by others. Occasionally, I will appear extroverted and have a few close friends, but when I calm down, I will still be careful and make my own decisions, and I will not listen to other people's suggestions easily. However, I hope others will recognize and affirm them. If it is right, you can say, "Of course, I have a lot of fate with XX constellation. Have I guessed all your ideas right? " If you guess wrong, it doesn't matter at all You can say, "Then you are special, a girl with a story." When using cold reading, you must pay attention. You'd better come up with a way to balance the best of both worlds in advance, so that everything looks natural and won't be embarrassed. Then you can slowly find out the girl's inner world and her story through these in-depth topics. There are still many skills in chatting with girls. Today these three skills are the easiest to learn and the most practical. As long as it can be used reasonably, it will definitely bid farewell to the label of straight men. Change the chat style of straight men 2 Cancer people who are willing to change straight men must first understand the behavior of straight men: the word "straight men's cancer" originated from the Internet, and it is a netizen's spit on these narcissistic, arrogant, a little male chauvinistic and feminine boys. Straight male cancer lives in his own outlook on life, value orientation and aesthetic concept, and always reveals to others that he doesn't like and is not full of each other, which is a bit male chauvinism. The key to straight male cancer is the following personality characteristics: 1, male chauvinism and stubbornness. 2. Women are born weak and must be maintained. Love and hate are completely different. Narcissism often leads to the mentality that others can't stand on their own feet without me. 5, not brilliant. 6. Do everything and pretend to be the leader. 7, care about image temperament, poor clothing taste but good personal feeling. 8, demanding others. 9, strong, controlling, love to fool people. 10, decisive, simple and direct. 1 1, reasonable, too proud to do great things. 12, commenting on women, all the women you meet will be graded in the street, and the grading range is very wide and harsh. 13, arrogant decision-making and women's association, subjectively feel that the lady loves him deeply. 14, the antonym of male god. "Emotional information 15, full of gender pride. According to the left-right analysis and the object of straight male cancer, how should people change? If I don't want to compromise in his obvious' male chauvinism' temperament, then you must have firm confidence to completely fight straight male cancer and recreate this new relationship on the original basis. If you are willing to change or reject the patient with moderate or severe straight male cancer, sometimes you have to treat the old saying very unkindly. In a love relationship, simply refusing or even refusing to answer is your half-hearted teasing way. Straight male cancer thinks that if a girl dresses too sexy and charming, that is to say, an indecent person is seducing a man, and straight male cancer also has the mentality of "girls all over the world love me". Therefore, only a strict refusal without leaving a retreat will let the straight man Cancer unlock his imagination.