"Let's be friends."

"You are a good man, but I am not suitable for you."

"I don't want to fall in love yet, let's talk about it later."

If you have ever encountered this type of rejection, then you must have made a common sense mistake about chasing girls. Especially when confessing, men are most likely to make the following three mistakes, which makes girls feel that you are very low:

1. Cut to the chase. They have only known each other for a few days, so they said to the girl, I love you, be my girlfriend and we will get married. Please, this will only make you hungry, not infatuated.

2. Confess regularly. Once a boy asked me a question. I think what if a girl has been rejected for three times? Remember, after the first refusal, there is no actual progress in your interaction, and the game ends directly. Women will not accept you because of your repeated confession. Even if they accept you, it is not love, but sympathy.

2. Pursue girls in public and let everyone know. This confession will have two consequences. Girls who like you will be ashamed to accept you, and girls who hate you will hate you even more.

Then, under what circumstances can you express your confession, and in what way is it best?

Then please welcome the old emotional driver I introduced to you today-"Cold Love", a legendary emotional expert for men and women. (You can reply to the confession in the background of cold love and read the correct way to pick up girls)

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Hello, everyone, I'm Leng Ai. I have many titles, but I am still called an emotional expert. Being an emotional expert is a long story.

I was a rebel when I was in college. I am a cynical hacker. I spend all my time fiddling with things related to heavy metals, such as playing guitar and forming a band.

At that time, it kept the hairstyle of Taiwan Province idol drama, and with the height of 180cm, it was very popular with girls. I didn't mean to brag. At that time, I was courted by the beauty queen, which caused her to be resisted by all the girls in the department and almost couldn't bear to drop out of school.

Perhaps because of my interest, I began to like to think about girls' psychology and began to give advice to straight boyfriends. They all praised me as a "half-emotional expert".

As a bloody man, how can you believe in "half an emotional expert"! So I began to read all the books on psychology in the school library, crammed them into the theory of emotions, and slowly explored my own emotional system.

Since 2008, I have shared my analysis and emotional opinions online, but I didn't expect to be reprinted crazily and received rave reviews.

14 is a turning point in my life. At that time, I got a malignant tumor, and I began to think: If I die, what will I leave in this world? Is it a meager deposit, several well-known titles or the copyright of two books?

After the operation, I began to devote myself to the emotional industry. In order to make more people, especially straight boyfriends, pay attention to their feelings, change their cognition of emotions and catch up with their favorite girls.

14 I specially opened the official WeChat account of the same name "Cold Love" to answer emotional questions for free. Although most of the people who asked questions were girls, they also helped many male friends to spy out the real thoughts of girls from the side.

Unlike the "chicken soup" of most emotional official WeChat accounts, my answer is more rational and realistic.

I think writing has a basic horizontal line, and the art below the horizontal line is bad art. My ideal is simple: to turn emotion into an art.

For everyone who comes to our office to ask questions, male or female, all I can do is not to wake them up. Abuse is only the last struggle of the incompetent. All I have to do is analyze their problems and give the consequences of different choices. As for how to choose, I think they already have the answer in their hearts.

I don't think I am a very mainstream person, and people often scoff at my behavior. But I think everyone has the right to choose. If everyone believes, then I am God.

I am not a god, I prefer to be an emotional mentor.

During my three years in the official WeChat account, I answered 6 questions with more than 4,000 words every day, rain or shine, and so far I have answered nearly 3,000 cases. Although most girls ask questions, there are also many boys.

Most straight boyfriends are concerned about how to pursue a girl quickly, what posture to express, what to do after being rejected, how to hook up with a rich woman, how to make an appointment to solve physical problems, how to solve problems with his girlfriend and how to solve problems with his mother-in-law. .....

I won't shy away from these questions, I will try my best to help them answer them.

I saw a male fan leave a message at the bottom of my article: Cold love. I used to think that emotional experts are liars, but your major impressed me deeply. I wish I had met you earlier.

Actually, it's not too late to meet now if you like.

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