Men are actually easy to mess with. As long as you can do the following seven things, you can make this man belong to you!

1, * * * degrees for a period of time to increase good memories.

It is also important to spend high-quality time together, so that our feelings will become deeper and richer. In marriage, time seems to be filled with all kinds of things, and even when two people are alone, it seems that they don't pay so much attention to ceremonies.

At this time, try to create some surprises for each other, or do something unexpected to make them relax.

A. on special days, increase the sense of ceremony.

B. buy each other a small gift from time to time.

C plan a holiday tour every six months and put souvenirs at home.

2. express your love with your body

Psychologically speaking, people can express their emotions and thoughts through appropriate body language when they get along. Expressing love by holding hands or hugging warmly can make both sides feel closer. You can try to do the following things with your lover:

A. kiss instead of thank you.

B. Give a hug while praising.

C. Walk hand in hand for half an hour after dinner every day.

D. Go to bed at the same time and hug each other to sleep.

E. watch TV together and follow the drama together.

F. Take the opportunity to do some teasing behaviors, such as pulling each other's chin.

G. Pat his PP from behind when passing by.

3. Take care of yourself

Self-care is the key to harmony between husband and wife. If we can take good care of our emotions, then we can have a positive impact on our partners emotionally. On the contrary, it will have a negative impact on your partner.

When you take care of yourself, you share happiness, love, ambition and dreams. When you don't take good care of yourself, you share some negative things such as troubles, depression and complaints. You can make a list of things that can make you feel calm and happy, such as fitness, yoga, running, flower arranging, gardening, reading and so on.

4. Improve communication methods

Words have great power. When we feel angry and disappointed, we may say something mean or unfriendly to hurt each other.

However, when our brains are affected by emotions, they fail to realize that our language is aggressive in time.

State the facts+your feelings+expectations. For example, your husband is late for dinner with his colleagues. At this time, you are alone at home with your baby and miss him very much.

You can say: honey, it's already 10:30, and you haven't come home yet. I'm a little tired of taking care of the children at home alone. I hope you can come back and help me.

This kind of communication will not make the other person disgusted, but also let him know your feelings and expectations.

5. Respect each other's preferences and be a companion.

From love to marriage, two people and two families will have various minor problems because of various contradictions. These small problems are not taken seriously, but delayed in an evasive way. The problem is snowballing and it is difficult to clean up.

For example, husband and wife have different interests. Husband likes to go out for a walk, while wife likes to stay at home.

At first, both husband and wife thought it was a minor problem. For a long time, the husband felt that his wife didn't understand him. Every time he quarrels, he will talk about it and say that his wife is too boring. At this time, we need to pay attention to these problems and actively face and solve them.

A. respect each other's interests and values.

B. To be a bosom friend, you can not recognize it, but you can't stay away.

C. make your own activity plan.

6. Leave room for the other person's "self"

In addition to the above-mentioned need for calm space when quarreling, you also need to allow you and your partner to have their own space and time.

Allow you the right to choose and respect your choice. After marriage, it is easy for women to forget that they and their partners have another identity, that is, themselves. After marriage, I forget myself for my family, for the elderly, for my children and for my partner.

When you forget yourself, you should also ask your partner to be like yourself. Remember that in addition to the identity of wife, mother, daughter-in-law and children, we also have a "self" identity, and so does our partner. We need to leave our own space for each other.

7. Learn to listen

Many times when there are problems in marriage, we will talk about one thing, that is, lack of communication. Communication, in addition to expression, it is also important to learn to listen.

If you can understand what your partner is saying, you can understand and love him. Communication is effective at this time. When you can effectively listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings, it means that you can think from his standpoint, which is more tolerant, understanding and accepting of him. Replace quarrels with effective dialogues. Try to communicate with "his feelings";

Okay, I understand how you feel. You don't like the plan, but I still hope we can achieve the expected result. Any better suggestions?