Who is the most important in a man's heart? Every woman wants to be the unique self she loves, the one she loves most, but she has never been able to fathom a man's heart. So let's take a look at the most important information about men.

Who is the most important in a man's heart 1 1, first love

Everyone knows the man's first love complex, and it should be right to rank first.

2. The person who didn't get it

Men still have a deep memory of women who have been fooling around but have never had them.

3. madam

Although his wife is usually dull, she is a woman that men can't get rid of all their lives.

4. bosom friend

When a man is tired and hurt, a woman can speak her mind just like her sister or mother.

5. The woman who broke his heart

The woman who has fallen in love with him always feels that he can't let go. Why was he so sad at first?

6. A woman who has a crush after marriage

I met a woman I like after marriage, but because I already have a wife, I am pressed in my heart.

Second, how to make men be dead set on you?

1, dress yourself up

Men are visual animals. No matter how old men are, they also like women's youth and beauty. Therefore, women must remember to dress beautifully. Never, just because two people are together, a man will only look at your inner side and ignore your outer side. If you think so, you will be abandoned by a man sooner or later.

Many women know how to keep fit and dress themselves before they get married. Married, busy with housework, busy with children, out of shape, became a yellow-faced woman. At this time, the man changed his mind, and the woman regretted it too late. Never think that the inside is more important than the outside. In men's eyes, the inside is very important, but the outside is also very important. Men love beautiful women just as women love small fresh meat. It's natural.

Step 2 stay independent

This is very important. Independent women are men's helpers. Only when two people work together to support their families can their status be equal and their marriage last. Men will regard you as an unattainable partner, and when they see beautiful women outside, they dare not entertain foolish ideas. If a woman is completely dependent on a man, she needs a man to support her.

In men's eyes, women have become pets. Since you can keep it, you can also discard it and replace it with a younger and more beautiful one. Besides, women raised by men have no status and no right to speak. Men will feel that they are masters, can control everything, can dominate everything, and of course can have sex, but you dare not say anything anyway. Therefore, women must be independent, and men will cherish you and be good to you only if they feel that women who leave themselves are more sought after.

3. Stay yourself.

Good things come too easily, so you won't cherish them. Love is the same. If a woman loves a man wholeheartedly and forgets herself, men will not cherish it too much, and feel that love is natural. Therefore, smart women know how to control the rhythm and maintain the degree.

Men like equal love. Give him 80 points of love first and be equal to him. Then, as their feelings deepened, he always gave him more surprises and gratitude bit by bit. If you gave him the best from the beginning, what can you do to satisfy him later? Only by keeping yourself and keeping a sense of proportion can men always be interested in you.

Who is the most important in a man's heart? 2 0 1, myself.

Studies have shown that men are overcoming their sense of failure all their lives, that is, the most important pursuit of a man's life is his own success.

So when he is young, the boy will show off by catching up with that beautiful girl, because he defines this as success;

At the same time, many people who give up relationships in pursuit of good jobs after graduation are also men.

Because successful career is also one of the main signs to measure a man's success; In their pursuit of universal success, the success of love can't be compared with the success of career in their thinking.

I met such an ex, and the reason for breaking up was to find a good job far away from me.

At that time, I accused him of "thinking only of himself and ignoring our feelings."

After many years, I have been deeply impressed by his answer. He said, "I don't see anything wrong with thinking for myself."

At that moment, I was speechless. Yes, there is nothing wrong with thinking for yourself. The mistake is that I love a person who only thinks of himself.

It is said that adult men are more realistic than women in love. The essential reason is that the most important thing in a man's life is his own success, including honor, money, status, achievement, love, family and so on. Love is only a small part of it, and the sense of accomplishment brought by other parts can make up for his frustration in love.

Therefore, after breaking up or divorce, men are more likely to get rid of bad emotions. That's the reason. Although love is unsuccessful, I am successful in other aspects, and life is by no means a failure.

So matchmaking has a cruel but realistic record. After the divorce, 80% of the registered partners are men, while only 20% are women.

Judging from the criteria of mate selection, men pay more attention to whether they can take care of their families and whether they are gentle. In fact, they are all to satisfy their desire for family and get along comfortably after marriage. As for the common points of personality hobbies, women consider more.

It can be seen that men value feelings more than love, so in their hearts, the most important thing is themselves.

I just want to tell the majority of women that they should not attach too much importance to their position in other people's hearts, nor be unique in their own hearts, but should pay more attention to themselves, praise and cherish themselves, and don't blindly sacrifice and pay.

Good love is not exactly the same, without reservation, but seeking common ground while reserving differences, having happiness together, and each has its own wonderful things.

02. Madam

For a truly mature man, he may have had many relationships and many girlfriends before he got married. But as long as he is mature and marries a woman, it is a commitment to his life. Isn't there a saying on the Internet: "Adult love is to transfer money to marry you." It's simple, but it's the most real.

The first love I met was wonderful. That boy takes good care of me. I wanted to confess, but I was turned down. The result was a misunderstanding.

Later, I was extremely uncertain about love. Repeated confession and "I love you" can't give me a sense of security at all Only when this person begins to plan our future will I feel that this is true love.

Therefore, apart from himself, a man cares most about his wife, who is a partner who is searched, repeatedly identified and accompanied for life. Because marriage is not love, but a contract protected by law, which means that he will have countless complicated contacts with you and even your family all his life.

This is a responsibility and a commitment. I believe that every mature man has done serious thinking before getting married. If he chooses to get married, he must be eager to have a future with this woman.

I hope that women don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss in ordinary marriage, because no matter how brilliant love is, it will eventually return to ordinary life. We can't live in the fantasy of affection and water every day.

Don't doubt your other half easily. After all, the person who brought you the ring is really going to walk with you for a lifetime, so that you can experience this life with yourself in the name of your wife.

03. Parents and children

Parents and children are inevitable blood relatives of men. As the saying goes, blood is thicker than water. Now some men seem to put their parents before their wives, commonly known as "Ma Baonan".

In fact, this phenomenon does not mean that parents are more important to a man than his wife, but that this man's naivety and immaturity show that he only knows how to rely on and take, but not how to understand and pay.

A truly mature man, while pursuing his own success, will definitely put his wife before his parents and children, because parents bring us life, but it is impossible to participate in most of our lives. Although children are our blood, they will have their own lives one day.

The only people who really accompany us for the longest time are our partners. Running a good life with your partner means running your own half life. Only a really smart person can understand this and achieve the unity of knowledge and action.

So we see many leaders or celebrities, even if their careers are successful, even if their children are successful in school, they still only pursue harmony with their wives, harmony between piano and instrument. As the great director Ang Lee once said, "The happiest thing in my day is to see my wife smiling at me."

Many middle-aged people feel that they do not envy lovers who love each other, but only the old couple who hold hands in the evening. That's probably how it feels.

Finally, I want to tell you not to expect too much to be the love or the only one in anyone's heart. People are naturally willing to think more about themselves. As long as they don't meet a person who only thinks about themselves, it is worthwhile to treat life and marriage well. Be kind to yourself, sunflower always faces the sun, because the sun gives people warmth; If you live as the sun, why should you be afraid of a bleak life, not to mention your ranking in others' hearts?

You are very good, and I am not bad; You love yourself, and I love myself; You love me, I love myself more, and I deserve your love.

Who is the most important in a man's heart? In a man's heart, which is more important, love or sex!

Mr. Huang, aged 34.

Men can sleep with someone they don't love at all, because men are all lower-body animals and have sexual needs. But in men's eyes, sex and love can be completely separated. We pursue all kinds of women in order to meet our physiological needs! But physical happiness is only comfortable at that moment, and then men will forget that feeling. When a man really falls in love with a woman, he will respect her wishes and will not sleep with her easily.

Mr. Zheng, aged 38.

I married my wife to meet my physiological needs, because I like quiet women and don't like those who fool around outside. But I have no feelings for my wife. I don't love her. This does not prevent me from carrying her to bed at night. A man looking for a woman is simply a matter of sleeping. Although I don't love my wife. But I will give her money and be good to her.

Mr. Chen is 40 years old this year.

Men certainly separate sex from love. If men are as emotional as women, how can men who can't find true love all their lives solve their physiological needs? Love is one thing, sex is another. In the eyes of men, these are clearly divided. After all, it is most important for a man to make money and do business. The existence of women is often just to solve the loneliness of the body.