1, * * * Same topic: You are also interested in fitness. You can start chatting with him from the aspect of fitness, which will make him feel that you have the same interests and hobbies, thus increasing his goodwill towards you.

2, give praise: Because straight men who like fitness usually pay great attention to the change of body shape, you can give him some specific compliments, such as praising his muscle lines and body shape.

3. Respect his choice: This straight man is interested in you, but you are not his first choice. You should also respect his choice.

4. Communication of non-judgmental issues: In your communication with him, don't talk about negative elements such as belittling, criticizing and attacking. You might as well communicate from your understanding and feelings about him.