First add you as a friend, slowly capture your heart through her angel-like face, devil-like figure and croaking voice, then become a boyfriend and girlfriend, then slowly talk about your experiences, ask you for money bit by bit, and slowly lead you to the abyss. When you find yourself cheated, maybe people are drinking beer with a group of old people on the side of the road with bare arms. So, don't worry about it, don't always fantasize about falling pie in the sky, or work hard honestly.