Whether you are disabled or not, there will be times when people will look at you with strange and discriminatory eyes, such as being too poor, not getting married, having acne on your face, not having children, and so on. Maybe you think your situation is not as serious as yours, but in fact, it makes no difference in everyone's eyes. As long as it doesn't conform to common sense, everyone can't help but express their feelings or eyes.
My father has Parkinson's disease, and he is afraid of other people's strange eyes. In fact, appearance is just a shell, beauty or integrity is just a kind of luck, but not everything. The most important thing is always our own heart. Whether healthy or unhealthy, paying too much attention to other people's ideas will hurt the spirit and soul. You should learn to let go and accept yourself. Now is the most painful time for you. Often it doesn't come from other people's eyes, but from the inconvenience caused by the lack of limbs. If you are fully recovered now, you might as well try some simple exercises. People who keep good exercise habits all the year round can get more health both physically and psychologically. If the country allows, you can try to do some voluntary service, and you don't have to join any organization. Picking up garbage while walking is also an excellent "volunteer". If there is still time to fish, don't read books, learn a skill or a new language. . . Happiness and pain are not given by others, but from the heart, although there will be many difficulties and the process is very difficult. Don't force yourself too much, and slowly adapt to the new state. If I have three days of sight, I recommend Helen Keller. There are also many inspirational videos of disabled people's fitness online, which are highly recommended! (If you exercise, it is recommended to ask a professional coach for guidance and learn more about yourself. )