0 1 healthy! No matter what you want to do, your health should come first. If you have a lot of problems that you can't solve, you might as well put them down first, go out for a walk, go out for a run, don't think about anything, look back and see if there is no problem at all!
If you have suffered a lot of grievances, but now you have to bear them, I advise you to forget it. Since it can't be changed, it's better to let nature take its course and think about the bright side. Your child is going to college, and your husband still loves you. The knot of the past will naturally be untied. Don't worry about people who have nothing to do, because your liver needs happiness!
It seems that the fitness card is not very expensive, but the annual swimming card is ok. You can play badminton if you like, and sign up for a class if you like piano. I know an elder sister who is in her forties. Her child went to high school and spent 8 thousand yuan doing nothing to sign up for a piano class. She said that she would live for herself in the next life!
Happy! I don't know what happiness is since I got married. It seems to be the report card that the child got back, and it seems to be the husband's year-end award. It has something to do with me, but it seems to have nothing to do with me!
Busy for more than ten years, the child is going to college. I have never dared to be willful for so many years. Children have to make up lessons, I can't go home to see my parents, my husband has to eat, I can't leave home, my mother-in-law needs to be taken care of, and I have to be guarded 24 hours a day. What about me?
So in my forties, I want to be happy, just want to be simple and happy, even if I calm down and read a book, even if I watch a whole TV series!
03 happiness! Some people say that happiness is given by others, and some people say that happiness is found by themselves. If no one can give you happiness, then you can find it yourself. I love milk tea. I think milk tea is so expensive that I don't want to give it up. Think about it. When you buy beef, you don't feel bad for hundreds of dollars. A cup of milk tea is nothing. Twenty dollars can buy happiness, it's worth it!
I think not working overtime is happiness, so tell your boss that I don't want to work overtime. At this age, if I can't be fired, I will be willful once. But this is really a conversation. Many post-70 s are supported by the elderly for their families and children, and they are willful after 90 s. It seems that only people born after 70 are conscientious when they go to work, because he can't be willful. He is old and young.
Conclusion: This is the most part of my life. Do what you can, do what you like, but don't regret it. I know a leader who came down from a state-owned enterprise in his fifties. His lifelong dream is to open a restaurant. Then he used his savings to open a hot pot restaurant and became the boss. Isn't it booming? Don't be afraid, go ahead, this life has gone two-thirds, and there are not many days left. You should be willful and presumptuous!