These instinctive reactions will only appear when you really like someone. If you don't like TA so much, these reactions will definitely not appear, because you don't have that concern in your heart. This is probably the difference between love and not love. So sometimes it's a very simple way to tell someone how much they love you. You can look at these reactions of TA, whether TA will be happy to listen to you when you are here, and whether TA will think of you anytime and anywhere when you are away. Love is hidden in these subtle details. If you love someone, there must be some instinctive reactions. If you look closely, you will find that the joys and sorrows of TA are all around you.
At a dinner party, I found Jiayi's eyes always inadvertently looking at a boy. Although she didn't deliberately stare, everyone in the room found her secret. After the party, we went home together. When talking about this matter, Jiayi denied that "you think too much about it", but her face turned red with a hint of sweetness. Anyone who has seen it can understand that this is also the feeling of love. This is probably the most practical reaction to really like someone. Her eyes will follow him, saying that his face is full of sweetness.
When she finally caught up with that boy, three sentences could not be separated from him. Every little detail of them was told to everyone over and over again. Even I can recite it, but she still can't stop. Since she was with that boy, her face is full of smiles. As long as she is around him, she will become more and more talkative and have little trouble. Most natural topics are discussed for him. These changes are nothing more than that she really fell in love with someone. If you really like TA, it goes without saying that many instinctive reactions expose your thoughts, and you can't escape if you want to.
In fact, when two people are together, these "instinctive reactions" will only happen if they really like each other: First, when two people are together, there are always endless words. Only when you really like someone will you want to sTAy with ta all the time. Even if two people do their own things, they will not feel bored, but feel warm. If you can't see the above, two people will send WeChat and talk on the phone, usually for several hours, until you have to stop the voice call or miss each other. Even if you die, you will still have endless memories of the happiness you just talked about, and then laugh all by yourself. This is the actual reaction to loving someone.
Needless to say, when we are together, two people always have endless words, about TA's past, about TA's present and about your future, all of which will be told to you one by one. Who ever said that loving someone would turn you into a chatterbox, so, ah, there is no one who doesn't like to talk, only you haven't met that person.
Second: when you are with each other, you can't help but get closer to TA. If you really like each other, when two people are together, they can't help getting closer to TA. As the distance increases, their hearts seem to be getting closer and closer. In addition to the approach of the human body, the heart will also approach him, which is called heterosexual attraction. For example, because the other person loves reading, you gradually like learning and training, and because the other person has been exercising for a long time, you gradually exercise.
Song Xiaoxiao in Ode to Joy was originally an uneducated rich second generation, but when she met Dr. Zhao, she chose to change herself and even bought a bunch of thick books to eat at home. In fact, she doesn't like reading these books, but because she likes Dr. Zhao, she wants to be more worthy of him and want two people to have more topics. She still chooses to be close to him, which is actually when she likes a person.
Third: when you are with each other, you can't help thinking about them. Missing is the most wonderful thing. You don't know when it will appear. Every time I think it's calm, I can't help but think of TA gradually. Really like a person, and that's it. There will be so many people who can't help kissing you, touching you and missing you. And this unintentional missing mentality will only appear when you love someone. You will remember to see TA as soon as possible, you will remember when you can sTAy with TA all the time, and you will remember never to leave ta again.
Conclusion: Love is an instinct. Because of love, I am willing. The simplest and most direct love is to look at TA's instinctive reaction, see if TA will have endless words with you, see if TA will want to touch you more, and see if TA will miss you involuntarily.
According to these points, you can also roughly judge whether this person really loves you. If you meet someone who really loves you, don't let go of TA's hand and go on happily. And if that person's feelings are clear, don't be stubborn. It is also a kind of courage to start from scratch after the pain.