Lang Ping is a 76th graduate of Chen Jinglun Middle School. At that time, this school was also called Chaoyang Middle School. "When I first arrived at school, Lang Ping did not practice volleyball, but practiced track and field with Teacher Shen." Yan introduced. It is said that although Lang Ping looked weak and shy at that time, Teacher Shen took a fancy to her head and long arms and began to befriend her. Later, Lang Ping studied volleyball with teacher Meng Jinhua, who was also a member of China women's volleyball team in the early days of liberation.

In the photo album of middle school history museum, we can see many photos of Lang Ping with Mr. Shen and Mr. Meng when he returned to school in different periods.

It should be said that in that year's middle school, Lang Ping got a good physical education enlightenment.

"Now this society is impetuous, and everyone wants to see the results soon." Mou said, however, the profession of teachers should not be affected by impetuousness.

If we attach importance to physical education class, now the state pays more attention to school physical education, hardware investment, policies and regulations on courses and class hours, and even sports scores are included in the total score of the senior high school entrance examination. However, the physical quality of primary and secondary school students has not been fundamentally improved.

In addition to physical education, there are many famous teachers in other disciplines, most of whom are from mathematics, Chinese and English. Many famous teachers are famous for their "fast grades", but there are very few people who used to think that "there are no students with poor education" and look for the bright spots in their children bit by bit.

On the contrary, in the era of Lang Ping middle school, although physical education class paid no attention to it now, many "experienced people" laid a good foundation in that era. Mr. Shen, who has always been regarded as the first teacher by Lang Ping, has always insisted on "starting from teenagers and selecting and cultivating sports talents who win glory for our country". 1987165438+1October, the International Olympic Committee Athletics Federation awarded Mr. Shen the International Olympic Medal of Honor.

It is precisely because the teacher Lang Ping met was not so eager for quick success and instant benefit that Lang Ping, who was weak and not very interested in sports, entered the door of sports and finally reached the peak of volleyball career.

Lang Ping succeeded. When we read many interviews with Lang Ping and her women's volleyball team, we can find that Lang Ping leads the team in a similar way to the teacher who leads her.

This time, besides Lang Ping, another high-profile women's volleyball champion is Zhu Ting.

However, it is said that when Lang Ping first wrote Zhu Ting's name on the list, the director Lai had never heard of the child. Zhu Ting has obvious advantages and outstanding talent, but she also has obvious weaknesses: her feet are weak.

Not everyone is ideal when they come up. "Education means training. She leads the team and the teacher teaches the students. The principle is the same. Can't rush to do education. " Mou said that when training her team members, Lang Ping should know everyone's advantages and disadvantages, give everyone the most suitable training, give full play to everyone's strengths, and finally let everyone play their strengths in a group. To do education, we should respect the process of life. Some students will reach the finish line earlier, while others will be later. "But please believe that every child will eventually reach the finish line. Sometimes what we can do is to guide students to give full play to their advantages. "

"Teachers can only continue this obsession." Mou said that although the teacher's work is very hard and his salary is not high, he has such an obsession that when he meets every child, he can respect every life process and be "stable" and "anxious".

Second, you can't just want to succeed but also suffer.

For Mou, who is the principal of a middle school, there is no doubt that Lang Ping's words touched her most: the spirit of women's volleyball has always been there, but only spirit can't win, and excellent skills are needed.

After Lang Ping led the women's volleyball team to the highest podium in the Olympic Games again, the spirit of the women's volleyball team, which was deeply hidden in the heart decades ago and swept the country overnight, was suddenly awakened.

But Lang Ping's wisdom lies in her timely reminding people that excellent technology is as important as spirit. And excellent technology can only be bought through hard work. In an interview with CCTV, the girl of women's volleyball team once said that she should watch her opponent's videos every morning, noon and evening after training, and even "watching videos is disgusting". Lang Ping, in particular, sometimes sleeps only three hours at night in order to study her opponents.

What really supports the success of women's volleyball team is hard study and training, but "many of our students just want to succeed now and don't want to eat at all." Yan said.

Today's children really lack the spirit of suffering. The reporter met such a child, 12-year-old Da Zhuang.

Da Zhuang began to learn clarinet from grade one. The work of Da Zhuang's mother has a certain connection with children's variety show. In order to increase children's interest, big and strong mothers often look for opportunities for their children to perform. Therefore, in the early stage of learning, strong learning motivation is quite sufficient. But a year later, with the increasing difficulty of learning and the longer time of practice, practicing clarinet became a "chore", and Dazhuang could not persist. "If only I could perform on the stage without practicing." This is a sentence that Da Zhuang often says.

In order to continue to inspire her son, Da Zhuang's mother keeps looking for opportunities for her son to perform on stage. However, with the growth of her children's age, the performance skills of many programs are getting higher and higher, and the competition on the stage is becoming more and more fierce. Although my mother can still find various opportunities, Dazhuang rarely occupies the center of the stage.

Mou said that children's unwillingness to suffer hardships has a lot to do with their parents. At present, the world is full of books or articles such as "getting full marks easily" and "mastering English in half a month". The prevalence of these books and articles coincides with parents' psychology of "wanting their children to succeed, not wanting their children to suffer" to some extent.

In fact, in the process of learning, children sometimes don't necessarily feel that learning is a chore, because the joy of solving a difficult problem or improving their grades can often resolve the hard work they have paid before, but sometimes some words and deeds of parents unconsciously discourage their children.

Whenever children encounter bottlenecks in their studies, parents will start to attack the education system. "No matter which society, it is difficult to become a social elite without hard work." Mou said that there is no harm in letting children suffer properly.

Third, today's children are not without spirit. They need an opportunity for education.

Although Lang Ping said, without excellent technology, you can't win by spirit alone. But people are still eager for spirit, because many adults grew up inspired by Chen Jingrun, Hua and the women's volleyball team, and they realized the powerful power of spirit. Today's children "even the favorite male stars are so soft, what strength is there in their hearts?" ! "

However, Mou still has his own opinion.

When the new high school first entered school, it just happened to catch up with the end of the Olympic Games. Speaking of women's volleyball and Lang Ping, the children are very excited.

Mou wanted to know what moved these children, so he asked: China also won the championship in table tennis, badminton and many other events, and won the Olympic champion many times! Why don't you get so excited about them? )

The children replied, "This is different", "This is a team project", "This is more difficult" and "This is more exciting" ...

"Lang Ping and the spirit of the women's volleyball team touched the hearts of the children." Mou said that in fact, today's children are the same as those in the past, and their growth also needs spiritual support, but their growth environment is already very diverse. Moreover, the information is developed, which gives children more opportunities to get in touch with the complexity and dark side of society and dilutes those positive things. In this case, children need spiritual strength more. "It's just that they need an opportunity to get an education, an opportunity for them to have a certain spirit."

Many people think that the spirit of women's volleyball belongs to the post-80s generation, and belongs to people above the post-80s generation. But when the opportunity was right, the women's volleyball spirit represented by Lang Ping and her players was immediately accepted by the post-00 generation.

In Mou's view, the most important role of educators is to find opportunities and make good use of them. Now the school will systematically tell the freshmen about the history of the school, the founders of the school, outstanding alumni and so on every year. But the effect of this narration is certainly not as profound as every thrilling women's volleyball match they have experienced. "Look for opportunities for education in children's personal experiences," Yan said.

"After the 2008 Olympic Games, what are we left with? Is it dozens of gold medals? No, it is the habit of more people starting to exercise. " Mou said that this is similar to education. There are too many educational opportunities in life, but they are always fleeting. If you seize the opportunity, you will leave wealth for your children and then accumulate it slowly. This is the power of education.