For most industries, the age of 39 should be regarded as a young adult, a backbone connecting the preceding with the following, and a key member of the company. However, for programmers, 39 years old is definitely old. Programmers' daily work pressure and long working hours, coupled with the rapid development of science and technology, many programmers have experienced physical degradation after the age of 35, and their technical level has gradually failed to keep up with the requirements of the times, and they have to face the reality of being eliminated by the industry.

I don't know if Mr. Gu in the news is also a programmer on the verge of retirement, and I don't know what his plans are for the future. Is he going to retire at the age of 39?

Mr. Gu in the news suffers from leg disease, which looks quite serious. However, before entering the nursing home, he couldn't spare any time to maintain his health. This also reflects that many young people in sub-health state in today's society have to work hard in a high-intensity and high-tempo working environment for a long time because of life reasons.

If this happens in the whole society, I think this is the problem of this society. Many times, we blindly pursue high-speed economic development, but ignore the basic concept of people-oriented.

Compared with other residents in nursing homes, Mr. Gu is definitely a young man. In addition, he is engaged in the network industry and is very proficient in modern communication tools such as mobile phones and computers. Living with Mr. Gu is also a help and improvement for the old people. Teacher Gu can also enjoy this slow-paced life, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.

I think this is also an inspiration for the operators of nursing homes. Nursing homes do not have to be open to the elderly, and eligible young people can be allowed to live in nursing homes if necessary.

A helpless move has become the envy of everyone. Recently, both parents died. Mr. Gu, a 39-year-old programmer, is still single. He fell at home two years ago and caused synovitis. Because there was no one to take care of at home, I lived in a nursing home at my aunt's suggestion.

What Mr. Gu did not expect was that his helpless move was seriously "blessed" by many people. He envied that he was still "playing for years" and escaped the overtime life in 996. He also resumed his healthy work and rest from 6: 00 to 9: 00, basking in the sun and exercising every day. When you are free, follow the drama and play the dragon gate array.

Some friends even said that when they saw Mr. Gu's experience, tears of envy unwillingly flowed down from the corners of their mouths. Regular work and rest, regular eating, and no need to wash dishes, what else can I ask for in this life?

Others said that Teacher Gu's Happy Life undoubtedly pointed out a wise choice for young single dog people who can't afford to buy a house and live by renting a house, that is, instead of spending money on renting a house, it is better to spend money on nursing homes. Three meals a day are taken care of and the room is cleaned. Playing cards in the sun with those 70-and 80-year-olds is also fast! In the future, there may be a magical phenomenon that old people in nursing homes are unwilling to enter and young people are crushed.

There are deep-seated reasons behind the popularity of "nursing home life". I believe many people still remember the recent abnormal deaths of two young employees in Pinduoduo 10 days.

In the early morning of February 29th, 65438, 23-year-old Zhang Xfei and his colleagues died suddenly on their way home from work.

On October 9th, 65438/KLOC-0, Tan Yu, who had just completed the probation period, jumped from his home on the 27th floor of Changsha at around noon on October 9th, 65438/KLOC-0.

Why did Tan Moulin suddenly take time off? Why did you jump off a building just one day after you got home? What happened to him that made him so afraid?

The media loudly appealed to this: refuse to "exchange your life for money"! Reject inefficient overtime!

This may indirectly prove why so many young people envy 39-year-old programmers living in nursing homes!

Life is not easy, everyone is like a clockwork alarm clock that can't stop for a moment.

Because you are young, old and young, you have car loans and mortgages to pay back, your children have to go to kindergarten training classes to get tutors, and older children have to pay tuition and living expenses when they go to college. All this determines that you can't stop.

When your tired eyes see this happy 39-year-old brother who lives in a nursing home, is there any reason not to envy him?

The youngest single programmer, living in a nursing home in Chongqing, is 39 years old and still single. After his father died of cancer, he went to a nursing home to recuperate. Sunbathing without stress every day, using fitness equipment, watching TV, chatting, playing cards, sunbathing with uncles and aunts. Behind this joy is the sadness of a programmer.

First of all, the 39-year-old body entered the nursing home, which shows the great intensity of work. The high salary of internet wages is only an illusion, and many people use it for two or three people. Programmers spend their youth day after day, year after year in shifts and overtime. When some programmers just joined the job, they will also hear some glorious deeds of old comrades, such as who entered the ICU and was rescued. Some employees have related rescue calls on their badges.

The sudden death of a programmer has basically become a tacit fact. As for why no one made trouble, I can only say that there are brave people under the four rewards. The related benefits, even the salary, are really generous. But nowadays, with the increasing saturation of the industry, any profession is not so easy to do. It can only be said that taking care of your health is more important than anything else.

Let's look at the nature of Internet companies. Most of them work in shifts. Working overtime until the early hours of the morning, taxi and black car drivers are most enthusiastic about you. Even if you are in love, the other person will consider: "What are you doing? Why don't you reply to my message? " If you have a home, your career will be delayed. A career does not necessarily mean a home. Feelings these days, once there is less communication, will break up in discord everywhere.

Working in a high-pressure environment for a long time, the endocrine market, the decline of male function, and sometimes even self-doubt is a kind of "impotence." Money is earned, but without health, no woman wants to spend her life with such a man. When you reach a certain age, you will face elimination. It is said that the middle-aged crisis, programmers start to work overtime at a certain age, will be eliminated by the industry, or transfer to middle and low positions, and their wages will plummet.

At the same time, it also reminds other industries that programmers are still like this, especially other industries with higher substitution. They may have begun to reject you at the age of 30. In addition to the stability of the system, institutions and state-owned enterprises, the rest can only constantly improve themselves. Don't be afraid of the dismissal of the enterprise, and don't be afraid of the closure of the enterprise. As long as you have the ability, you can still have a bite to eat wherever you go.

With the epidemic, young people are facing the most difficult employment season. College students in the last century were really popular. Nowadays, with the expansion of colleges and universities, college students are becoming more and more common. Many college students have studied for four years, and many people have gone out to change careers. In the first year of graduation, it is obvious that people have been divided, and some people have entered large enterprises with generous benefits. Some people can only work in small and medium-sized enterprises in this way. After three to five years, the gap between people will be even greater.

I hope this programmer can cheer up, stay healthy and wave to him for a better tomorrow. Come on, migrant workers, migrant workers, migrant workers are all talents!

A 39-year-old IT guy from Chongqing limped into a nursing home because of synovitis. Sunbathing every day, chatting with grandparents and catching up with the drama "Raising Life". I am in a good mood, optimistic, fat and comfortable.

As soon as the news came out, there were different opinions. Unfriendly netizens said: Decadence, depravity, cowardice, mixed eating and waiting for death. This is a bit extreme. Judging from the boy's behavior, it's not that serious.

On the one hand, it feels cheaper than living in a hospital and the environment is good. There is an "epidemic" now, so hospitals can't just go in and can't cure "COVID-19".

Second, if you are tired of walking, just have a rest. The grandparents here are all old "immortals" who can give their life experience.

There used to be a "cart shop" near my home, which was very cheap and even free. The day before or in the middle of the night, many peasant brothers rushed to the city from home to sell vegetables. They all want to go into the store to have a rest, and then go into town in high spirits.

They said, people are tired after walking all night. Let's have a rest. After drinking the horse, I will eat and rest, so that I can go to town to sell vegetables.

In fact, the peasant brothers regard the "car shop" as a "post station" on the journey, cultivate self-cultivation and move on. I think this "little old man" must be the same.

It's true that my leg is ill. There must be reasons: tired work, complicated interpersonal relationships, loneliness when parents are away, and loneliness when living alone. Nursing home for him, there is no competition, no interpersonal relationship combing. Parents and grandfathers witnessed their calmness, listened to their teachings and felt their feelings. What's the matter?

Wait, I believe, young man, have a good rest, maybe a lively raptor will be born.

Don't stop me, I want to go. But there must be someone who doesn't want to go, or really can't.

I have a colleague who studies relationship strategies. What leaders come, just two words "cozy". What about him? I also enjoy this kind of comfort that makes leaders feel comfortable, and I enjoy the pleasure of promotion in the workplace. Of course, such people can't go to nursing homes, and going there is equivalent to suffering.

I have a classmate who is a master of poetry and distance. Cosplay and exotic customs are irresistible to him. Staying up late is the norm, and a fat house is suicide. Such people can't go to nursing homes, and going there is equivalent to suffering.

I have a teacher, a layman, who is obsessed with trivial things in life. There are old people in the world, so be filial to them; Be strict with children, whether they are young or old. He found responsibility and meaning in the troubles of trivial matters in life. Such people can't go to nursing homes. He has too many important things to do.

At the same time, there are people around me who are enlightened enough.

An old comrade can write hundreds of thousands of words in his reading notes every year (the writing is really good and can be published); A young man spent five years writing a novel of more than 2 million words (the writing was so bad that no one paid anyone to read it); A middle-aged man can pull 30 pull-ups in one breath.

Of course, some people already have great personalities.

An old man obsessed with Buddhism recently divorced his daughter-in-law, not because of bad feelings, but because he wanted to stay away from the world of mortals as much as possible. But the husband and wife are still together, because the mage needs the support of the laity, and in short, someone has to cook.

Older people will never get married. The reason is that staying with a person for a long time has three results: one is that he thinks there is something wrong with his brain; One is that people think there is something wrong with his brain; The other is that they think each other is crazy.

There is also an older young woman, a single young woman who just entered the unit and chased the unit. No one can catch up. He is not ugly, but he can't find a boyfriend. So, there is no reason. The original reason is that it has nothing to do with falling in love.

Another wonderful work is a leader. What he enjoys most is playing politics, and he is well versed in larded and imperial techniques, but there are always more than a dozen people in a unit, so his skill of killing dragons is really useless. The result of beating the dragon in the pond is not that all the fish are killed, but that there are no fish to be friends with him.

I have reached middle age. So most of these people are middle-aged or above. This statistical sample is not universal because it is concentrated in the middle-aged circle. But there should be many similar situations with this 39-year-old programmer.

It is an escape to say that entering a nursing home is discrimination against the elderly.

As long as people are alive, they can create deals. I can't get out of bed, but I can still order takeout on my mobile phone, which is also a contribution to society. The era we live in is no longer a relative shortage of material, but a relative surplus of material. Therefore, as long as he is still alive, he can create a deal, which is good for society. Entering a nursing home created a huge deal. Therefore, entering the nursing home itself is a contribution.

Different lifestyles, which is better? See if you like it. Since it is a question of liking or not, it is a question of value. The problem of value cannot be rationally deduced to seek truth. Because being realistic is meaningless, it is not a question of truth or falsehood, but a question of quality. Which is better, to go to a nursing home for the elderly, to write poems in a distant place, or to live in a fat house at home? As long as you like it, reason can't give an answer.

There is nothing wrong with nursing homes, and there is no need to belittle this lifestyle.

If you keep asking, it's not a question of not being able to enter a nursing home, but a question of how to live after middle age.

Or, ask further, this is not a question of defining age, but a question of finding meaning and setting goals for yourself.

The Napoli Tetralogy has two protagonists, Anabel and Elena.

Elena has been climbing. In primary school, she wanted to be the first in the exam. In middle school, she will work harder; After going to college and squeezing into the city, she will try to enter the upper-class world. She has been in school all her life. The content is competition and the experience is customs clearance. She is proud to be admitted to the university, and she is proud to be among the upper class.

What about Anabel? Anabel is smarter and more creative. Everything she does is so different. However, due to family reasons, she dropped out of school to work in a shoe store and lived an ordinary life. However, ordinary life gave Anabel more creativity. She doesn't need to reconcile with the world, compromise with life, and experience this rich world with her genius wisdom.

Elena, who squeezed into the upper class, saw Anabel again. Elena thinks she can finally beat Anabel. However, she was wrong. Because she still can't compete with Anabel.

On one occasion, Elena took Anabel to a gathering of upper-class intellectuals. When she was talking with upper-class people, she deliberately pulled Lila aside to embarrass her. Elena thought she could beat Anabel, but she was wrong again. After the party, Anabel said to Elena, "You two talk to each other about things that no one can understand." . Are you satisfied with them?

Lena disappeared at the age of 66. She only lives for herself. Elena used Lena's inspiration to write one novel after another and became famous in one fell swoop. However, the triumphant Elena, why is she always in a state of shame in front of ordinary Anabel?

Because they have different meanings and different goals. There are two mountains in life. The first mountain is Elena. She goes to the best university, does the best job and leads an enviable life. The second mountain is Anabel, who approaches the world with his own talent, finds pleasure in learning and happiness in the world.

The second mountain is higher than the first one. It is the meaning you seek for yourself and the goal you set after climbing the first mountain. However, Anabel either disdained the first mountain or had no chance to climb it, so she chose the second mountain directly. On the other hand, Elena has been climbing the first mountain.

What if we treat Elena and Anabel as one person? In the first half of my life, we were Elena; For the rest of our lives, we should switch to Lila. However, it is a great pity that we either made Elena and climbed the first mountain until we died. Either after Elena, I was at a loss and didn't know where the second mountain was.

This is the problem of middle age. So, what is the second mountain?

Whatever it is!

People don't understand Lin Chongxin until middle age. Why is Lin Chong so timid? Lu has always lived for himself, and his second mountain is a happy life. Lin Chong's second mountain is his wife, marriage and family. The teacher who finds meaning in the triviality of my life is Arlene Chung. Family is their mission.

This old comrade who takes notes of hundreds of thousands of words every year was also young and used to be a diligent Elena. However, he found happiness in his study. This kind of happiness became his second mountain. Learning became his territory.

American writer Jack? London, I went to a rich man's house when I was young. He saw the bookshelves of the rich and their daughters. He studies hard for the rich man's daughter. However, in the end, he realized that the rich daughter didn't like reading, so she didn't get married. However, he found the pleasure of reading. He discovered the second mountain of life. Reading and writing have become the mountains he has been able to climb.

Ask the climber, why do you want to climb the mountain? The climber replied: Because the mountain is there. Not because the mountain is there, but because the mountain needs me. It is not that climbers need mountains, but that mountains need climbers. Climbers must devote themselves to the great cause for which they can devote themselves. This is a delivery of "entrusting quality as a minister".

But the problem is that many of us haven't found our second mountain yet.

Someone climbed the first mountain, but couldn't find the second one. After Elena left, they didn't know where Anabel was, so they were at a loss.

Some people look at life and find it boring to climb down like this. They want to climb another mountain, but they don't know where to find it, so they are at a loss.

Some people climbed the first mountain and found the second mountain, but the second mountain was so simple that they were at a loss halfway up.

We don't need to find the second mountain too early to achieve Anabel; But you can't miss the second mountain and continue to be Elena. We should start thinking about the second mountain on the way to the first mountain. This mountain should be serious enough, like an oath; Noble enough to like the mission; If it's complicated enough, you may never have to climb.

When I saw this sentence when I was young, I felt that Paul was too bitter; When people reach middle age and read this sentence again, they think Paul is so happy. People don't understand Lin Chong's cowardice until middle age, and people don't understand Paul Le until middle age. They all found their second mountain.

A 39-year-old single programmer in Chongqing lived in a nursing home to recuperate, which attracted the envy of many peers. Many old people don't want to live in a nursing home. Why did this 39-year-old boy choose to go to a nursing home for recuperation?

As we all know, the job as a programmer is enviable and the salary is quite high. My nephew is a programmer. Some people won't believe it. My nephew didn't graduate from a famous university, but he was admitted to Beida Jade Bird. I wonder what school that school belongs to. After graduation, my nephew found a job in Beijing. He has no background, it doesn't matter. He only submits his resume online every day. Three months later, he was admitted to an internet company.

My nephew was promoted to supervisor after working for three months. The programmers in that company all graduated from famous universities, but his business ability is not worse than theirs. My nephew has a specialty: he can drink well. Every time the company leader goes out to talk about business, he takes his nephew with him.

In a few years, my nephew bought his own house and paid off all the debts he owed when he was in college. For a time, people thought that being a programmer was very promising.

39-year-old Chongqing programmer, not very old. It turns out that the young programmer, whose parents are long gone, is single now. Two years ago, he accidentally slipped at home and hurt his knee. After going to the hospital for a period of time, although the injury has improved, the programmer still can't walk independently. In this way, he needs someone to look after him. His aunt suggested that programmers go to nursing homes. At first, programmers were somewhat resistant and felt so young.

If I don't go, there is nothing I can do. Finally, the programmer lived in a nursing home. After living in a nursing home, the programmer dispelled his original doubts. The uncles and aunts there are very enthusiastic. Soon, the programmers became one with them. He listened to his uncles and aunts telling his life experience and struggle history. Programmers live happily and regularly every day.

There are many people of the same age as programmers who are busy working overtime at work every day. I can't help admiring the programmer's carefree life every day after living in a nursing home.

Programmers are temporarily unemployed because of leg disease, but after full recovery, finding a job is naturally not a problem.

Many netizens lamented after knowing this: after the programmer lived in the nursing home, someone cared, someone chatted with him, someone took care of three meals a day, and the room was cleaned, so he didn't have to rent a house or cook, which easily solved his life. Programmers living in nursing homes are really "earning".

For this young programmer, living in a nursing home is also a wise choice because of the needs of life. If he doesn't live in a nursing home, he will hire a full-time nanny himself, plus the cost of blocking the house, how much will it cost a month? He lives in a nursing home, and all this is easy to solve.

Thanks to the nursing home, otherwise the young programmer really doesn't know what to do. A lot of people will think so. Nursing homes are places for the elderly. In real life, nursing homes not only accept the elderly, but also people with difficulties in life can live in them, which is convenient for others and themselves.

First of all, people really need to rest, knee synovitis, and life in a nursing home is more suitable for him at present. Regular life and more fireworks. The programmer's parents are gone, and he is single. Living alone for a long time is more dangerous if it is inconvenient, and there is nothing wrong with someone taking care of it and recovering slowly.

Second, the elderly are a great asset. The report said that he got along well with his grandparents around him. He taught the old people to use mobile phones, and the old people told him about their feelings about life and "love at that time." I believe that after he leaves the nursing home in the future, this period of experience will be a great asset for his life.

Third, rethink life. Before, the programmer's life was very tense, which also brought psychological depression. This nine-to-six day can make this programmer rethink his life. Maybe in the future, I will design a pension system, build a homestay, open an online shop myself, change my lifestyle and make myself a win-win home for health and wealth.

I suddenly felt relieved when I saw this problem, because my son once told me that he wanted to retire at the age of 40 and start a life of providing for the aged. The man who entered the nursing home at the age of 39 proved that my son's idea is not shocking, and if it is true, it is not eccentric.

Everything happens for a reason. When my son had this idea, he was still in college, like a sophomore. My son has never been a well-behaved boy. He played truant, indulged in games, fought, fell in love, and finally dropped out of school. He can do anything. At that time, he had just passed the rebellious period of youth, re-entered the campus and regained his youthful state. I used to be the president of a ten thousand-person game guild, and I met all kinds of people through this guild. He talked to me most about people who are older than him and have no achievements in their careers, as well as some students from famous universities. These people used to be executives of his guild, so apart from games, they also talked about life and ideals.

These are the people who have the greatest influence on my son in the guild. First, a few self-made people live an ideal life in their thirties and forties. They can spend a lot of time playing games, challenging their skills, or engaging in extreme sports, crossing deserts, climbing snow-capped mountains and so on. The lives of these people made him envy. Second, people with very special experiences and backgrounds. One of them is a young man in his mid-twenties, who has great wealth. However, due to hereditary premature aging in his family, his parents died, leaving only one dying aunt among all his relatives, and finally the only aunt left. According to his son, the man finally sold his company, left the guild and disappeared from the scene, which was equivalent to retirement or retirement. This kind of life has taught him to cherish life and be kind to himself.

At that time, his thoughts may have just flashed through his mind, and he was not sure. Recently, he suddenly said that when the company came out of the epidemic and came back to life, he had to resign and recuperate first. This idea is very likely to be translated into concrete actions, and I support it with both hands, because before the outbreak of the epidemic, his company had just started less than a year, and he and his two partners spent almost a whole year on the start-up work, and there was no good guarantee for eating or sleeping. Since the outbreak of the epidemic, the company has been struggling, and so far everyone has been very hard and heartbroken. Work and psychological stress are too great, and my son has many problems such as stomach and joints, so he really needs to rest.

It can be seen that the pressure on young people may have exceeded what we have endured for half a lifetime. They are only in their twenties, but their work intensity is too high, and it is an indisputable fact that their energy and brain are overdrawn. Working and living step by step, it is a common phenomenon to retire at the age of 50 or 60, and it is even more rare to retire at the age of 40, but it is really reasonable for some people, because they are still young and consume the energy of ordinary people for half their lives, and they also need to retire.

Of course, my son won't go to a nursing home. He may just relax himself for a while and then devote himself to high-intensity work. But his situation can also explain or prove that the behavior of a 39-year-old retired programmer is extremely reasonable. Great changes in fate, unbearable heavy work and great pressure may make people take the initiative to choose a living method that is being mentioned now-social death.

Existence is reasonable and reasonable. If he needs it, each of us should respect his lifestyle, because his pain is only known to him, and we don't have his feelings. We should first choose understanding and blessing, and criticism is not the first thing we should do.

Although the nursing home is a special place to take care of the elderly with weakened living ability, the 39-year-old programmer has already had physical problems and caused a lot of inconvenience in real life. There is nothing wrong with the nursing home being the best place for him. First of all, there are several reasons:

The programmer's parents have passed away. Although only 39 years old, he is physically disabled and needs long-term rehabilitation training and someone to take care of him. His aunt advised him to go to a nursing home, and thought her advice was good and wise.

After all, in this society, except for the elderly in nursing homes, people who can work a little are busy with real life, and nursing homes are the best for him.

Anyone who has had synovitis of the knee joint knows that this disease can't be more active, and even the basic self-care ability needs others to serve.

If you hire a nanny at home, it will cost at least 4000 yuan a month. Moreover, it does not include the money for buying food and rice flour oil, which is not a small expense.

The salary of a programmer is also in direct proportion to the value he creates for the company. If he is an ordinary programmer with an average salary of around 5,000, it is more suitable for him to live in a nursing home from an economic point of view.

On the one hand, I didn't spend much money and got a good life care. Another point is that nursing homes and medical institutions are now combined. It will help the physical recovery of programmers more comprehensively.

Although his nature of work is freedom, he can solve his work problems by computer without going to the company, but people are social animals, and most of them still need someone to chat and talk with to ease the loneliness in life.

Generally, the elderly in nursing homes are people who have experienced hardships. They turn a blind eye to electronic products, can't use smart phones and can't surf the Internet.

Programmers give full play to their unique network skills, and let the old people know more about the human world and the wider world outside. For the elderly with good conditions, it is also a good choice to learn to shop and buy what they need.

Nothing to chat with the elderly in nursing homes, playing cards and chess, going out to bask in the sun and enjoying the beauty endowed by nature!

Life is not so boring, and it is wise for programmers to go to nursing homes.

The programmer played a role in the nursing home, enjoying the satisfaction of the stars holding the moon. It is said that he has a good time every day, and he is very pleased and willing to explain some high-tech and intelligent knowledge to the elderly around him!

It also provides a new opportunity for some young people with physical inconvenience in society and creates a precedent for young people to live in nursing homes. I think this is a very good thing.

The world is desolate, desperate, without desire, without desire, and with an old heart.