Text/Su Mu
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This is the most sacred and noble church wedding I have ever attended. The whole wedding was dominated by holy white, and champagne roses were neatly placed on both sides of the bench.
The groom is dressed in a tuxedo and a red bow tie, gentle and personable. He is a gentleman, supporting the bride tenderly, just like a prince.
The bride wore a white wedding dress with a long tail and a waist-high veil, and gold high heels were faintly visible. The wedding dress naturally shakes with the bride's pace.
Sue, will you marry Zhang, live with him according to the teaching of the Bible, be one with her before God, love her, comfort her, respect her and protect him as yourself? Whether she is sick or healthy, whether she is rich or poor, she will always be loyal to her until her death.
I do.
Zhang: Would you like to marry Sue, live with him according to the teaching of the Bible, be one with him before God, love him, comfort him, respect him, and protect him as yourself? Whether he is sick or healthy, whether he is rich or poor, he will always be loyal to him until his death?
I do.
Three words, touching, sincere, earnest, full of responsibility and love, completely burst my lacrimal gland.
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Zhang, a graduate student of Beijing Jiaotong University, has been a civil servant in Beijing for one year. Su, a doctoral student at Beijing Jiaotong University, graduated this year.
Zhang is my junior high school classmate. She is not the particularly clever girl, but she can see behind her desk. After graduating from high school, I was admitted to an undergraduate college.
Later, I lost contact with her. When I saw her again, she introduced me that her boyfriend was a graduate student.
I asked Zhang, "Why do you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination?"
She said, "I want to know him better. Well, you see, I met him. " Zhang and his boyfriend smiled at each other.
When Zhang was in middle school, he also liked reading and learning, knowing what he needed and pursued. After taking the postgraduate exam, he met Sue, who was studying for a doctorate. The two met, knew each other and fell in love in college.
In the circle of friends, I saw a friend traveling around. She was reading in the library. I saw a friend shopping while she was studying in a coffee shop. When I saw a friend complaining that the world was unfair, she had been admitted to the civil service in Beijing.
Zhang's result is unexpected and reasonable; Zhang's experience, everything seems so smooth, but full of blood and sweat.
I am one of the few friends I admire, not one of them.
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My uncle is another person I admire, with a slightly introverted personality and a poor family. Houses living in the country are yards surrounded by sticks and mustard greens.
He has been a graduate student at Tianjin University of Science and Technology for more than eight years. At that time, Tianjin University of Science and Technology did not have its current name. After graduation, I successfully signed a contract with a German company in Shenzhen.
Married my first aunt at marriageable age, graduated from high school, unemployed.
Fitness and continuous learning are the rhythm of my uncle's life. I set aside an hour to learn English every night, and spend one day playing table tennis and one day swimming on weekends.
Differences in outlook on life, values and outlook on life, the two broke up peacefully, and my uncle gave the house and property to the first aunt and went out clean.
My uncle's perseverance and extraordinary efforts soon became the manager of the company. At the same time, I met my aunt, an exquisite and capable successful professional woman.
My uncle had his first child at the age of 35, my family of three immigrated to Germany, my aunt became a full-time wife, and they began to have a second child plan. I envy happiness and sweetness.
I received their photos a few days ago. At the top of Brandenburg Gate, there is a bronze sculpture of the goddess of victory. The goddess spread her wings behind her and drove a four-horse two-wheeled chariot to the east of Berlin, holding a scepter inlaid with oak garlands in her right hand. There is an iron cross on the wreath. On the garland stood an eagle spreading its wings, wearing the crown of Prussia.
It's a sunny day and the sky is blue. Under the aura of the goddess of victory, my uncle holds the baby in his left hand and the daughter-in-law in his right hand, which is super loving.
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People in their thirties are forced by the environment, and many friends are labeled as "blind date". Of course, they also have the label of blind date in their hearts.
A divorced boy, with a high school education and a mediocre job, labeled the other party as "white".
Girls with average looks, average figure and average salary label their other half as "Gao Fushuai".
Is my worldview subverted, or are you all crazy? Please tell me where your confidence comes from.
Many friends around me get married. Tsinghua's graduate brother married the graduate sister of Minzu University of China, and the city's civil servants got the first and second place. Birds of a feather flock together. It's not groundless
The stronger a person is, the harder he works, because he is surrounded by such people and knows that the premise of realizing spiritual freedom is financial freedom and freedom of migration; The less motivated people are, the lazier they are, because when they are frogs at the bottom of a well, everyone looks at me and I look at you, which is almost the same, and they feel that they are doing well.
If you can't meet the person you need, then you have to turn yourself into what you need.
You should taste the pain, and you should enjoy it. You can't live without yourself. Good love starts with good self, then meets good you, and then becomes better us.
When you become a better person, you are bound to meet better people. Who you are, you will meet them.
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