The key to coordinating the relationship between individuals and society lies in grasping the position of individuals in society. 1, correctly understand the unified relationship between individuality and sociality. Individuality and sociality are dialectical unity and complement each other. People exist in the form of individuals and at the same time in the form of society. In biological instinct, only in society can people obtain the conditions for the survival and continuation of life, and only in social relations can they find ways and possibilities to realize their own values. 2. Correctly understand the unified relationship between personal needs and social needs. As an independent individual, human beings have the basic needs to maintain individual survival and development. However, people's needs are different from those of animals. Even people's instinctive needs are deeply branded with social history and become a social demand. The satisfaction of people's needs can only be achieved through society, certain social relations and certain social ways. 3. Correctly understand the unified relationship between personal interests and social interests. The relationship between individuals and society is, in the final analysis, the relationship between individual interests and the overall interests of society. In socialist society, individual interests are basically consistent with the overall interests of society, and social interests cannot be separated from individual interests, and personal interests cannot be separated from social interests. The overall interests of society reflect the fundamental interests and long-term interests of individuals as members of society, and are the premise and foundation for the realization of personal interests, as well as the guarantee for the realization of personal interests. 4. Correctly understand the unified relationship between enjoying individual rights and freedoms and assuming social responsibilities and obligations. Individual rights and freedoms are acquired in society, and without society, individual rights and freedoms cannot be discussed. Therefore, the enjoyment of individual rights and freedoms is unified with the commitment of social responsibilities and obligations. Only when everyone undertakes his due responsibilities and obligations and makes more contributions to society can the wealth of society increase continuously and provide a solid foundation for people to enjoy their rights and freedoms. Only by assuming social responsibilities and fulfilling social obligations can people have a sound personality and noble moral character.