The distortion of human nature is that the more domineering and emboldened you are, the more people respect you. The more polite and kind you are, the less people will take you seriously.
2, thankless
You can be enthusiastic, but don't be diligent. You can be kind, but you should also be sharp-edged and habitually please. After a long time, others take everything for granted!
3. Not in the mood
Whether you are wronged or under great pressure, don't go around looking for someone to talk to. No one will really sympathize with you. Calm down and do what you have to do. Your heart can be broken, but your hand can't stop.
4. Know how to shut up
Different positions, less words are more valuable, different cognition, indisputable, inconsistent views, wasting your breath, different ways, and no common goal.
5. There is a bottom line
A bottom line is a principle. A gentleman who knows how to choose and advance and retreat will not be influenced by others.
6. Dare to refuse
Don't want to borrow money, refuse. Don't want to socialize, refuse. Do not like each other, refuse. Rejecting this matter, the simpler and more simply, is good for both sides.
7. Not anxious
Worry about the present and uncertainty about the future are the sources of anxiety, while ruthless people have clear goals, know what they want, know how to fight for it, and never spend time on internal friction.
8. Very self-disciplined
Go to bed early and get up early, stick to fitness, not greedy for milk tea, hot pot, beer and fried chicken, knowing very well that health is the capital of revolution and always full of energy.
9. Don't care
Really cruel people only care about their own present and future, and others' eyes and comments don't matter. They worry about broken things and don't waste time on them.
10, unexpected
If you have expectations, you will be disappointed. Buy what you like and give what you want. If you don't build your happiness in an unstable external environment, you won't have expectations, but there will be surprises everywhere.
1 1, decisive enough.
He can endure things, but he will be aggressive and resolute. Chang Huai Buddha heart, line emperor Wang Zhidao.
12, good at waiting
The life creed of a malicious person is by no means to get drunk tomorrow after drinking today. They are long-term loners who are willing to wait and endure for long-term benefits.
13, dare to turn your face
Only the strong can gain the respect of others, and the weak can only submit to humiliation and live boldly. It's time to lift the table, it's time to tear your face off! 14, no delay
A truly cruel person never procrastinates, just does it, and acts immediately within 5 minutes, completing it first, then perfecting it, and not being a giant in thought or a dwarf in action.
15, dare to struggle
Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are conflicts. Conflict is a game. The more timid you are, the more people dare to bully you. Victory must be a struggle.