First, how to start a blind date chat 1, boys should pay attention to the tone and speed of speech. Be sure to pay attention to your tone of voice when dating, because this is the respect of two people, not in front of subordinates or superiors. You should speak in a gentle tone and slow down so that the other person can understand you. 2. Find the right topic and behave gently. Before the blind date, it's best to get the information of the blind date girl ready and look through it. You can learn about it first, and then find the topic of * * *. It's not embarrassing and gentle, which makes the girls moved. 3. Humorous, but not funny. Speak humorlessly, without losing your attitude. Girls prefer humorous people, because they always make girls laugh, even if there are small contradictions, they disappear in laughter. Not funny, although funny, but not funny. 4. Reject cliches and learn to innovate sentences. Don't talk nonsense about those old questions. On the basis of old problems, you can change some original sentence patterns and change the outside without changing the inside. If you ask for it, you must be innovative in order to arouse the interest of the other girls, have a little affection for you and cultivate them slowly. Second, the precautions in the initial stage of blind date chat are summarized as courtesy+try to avoid uniformity in Qian Fan+no privacy involved. It's best to show that you have carefully understood the idea of blind date. 1, avoid auditing. Avoiding auditing here doesn't mean that blind date doesn't need to know each other's information, just don't get to the bottom of it as soon as you start. I should introduce myself first and ask politely. What should I do if I want to know some private information about each other in a blind date? Show yourself before asking the other person again, so that your blind date can say it naturally if she wants to say it, and it is not appropriate to continue asking questions if she doesn't want to say it. If you think you don't want to tell each other about this private matter, don't ask, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. 2. Avoid boredom and repeatedly ask "Hello, are you there?" What are you still doing? Have you eaten? Repeated questions are even more boring. Asking the other person what's delicious nearby, whether the recent movies seem to be good or not, and whether there is a shortage of songs to recommend, is better than "Hello, are you there?" ! 3. Control the frequency of chatting. Normal people don't have that much time to chat. They always have their own things to do. So at the beginning, don't reply with a blind date such as a mobile phone from morning till night. You should stop chatting at any time. After all, people don't have so much time to chat with you, and everything will be fine. Third, the opening remarks of the blind date chat 1, chat * * * The same couple is like this. Before we met, everyone was a stranger. As long as we meet, everyone will get to know each other. The most important thing between two people on a blind date is to establish a sense of identity. The shallowest expression of identity is the same hobby between you. Talking about some hobbies will definitely shorten the distance between you. 2. Talk about their personalities. It is important to know each other's personalities and make plans for future contacts (if you are interested in him/her). Moreover, blind dates are all about getting married. Finding a gregarious personality is the key. Ask him/her what his/her hobbies are, and you can talk a lot. After knowing his/her hobbies, you can also weigh what kind of person he/she is. Of course, it would be better if you have the same hobbies as him/her. It is easy and not embarrassing to discuss some popular TV programs. After all, young people nowadays still like variety shows very much. Singers, talent shows, blind dates, you name it. Warm up the chat atmosphere first, and the blind date will be easier to go on. Work can be discussed as long as you know what he/she does. Don't ask about level and income. If both sides feel good, you can leave these questions for later. Knowing that the job has at least a bottom can guess how much his/her income is. 6. Introduce ourselves to play. After opening the topic, we can introduce ourselves in more detail. Besides the work and hobbies mentioned above, we can also talk about our usual personality, our emotional history and so on. Anything will do. 7. What do you want to know most? After introducing ourselves, we can also ask each other what we want to know most, such as unbearable shortcomings and prospects for the future. Don't be too stressed, just relax and chat with friends you haven't seen for a long time. How to chat with blind date from the beginning II. It is best to chat on WeChat 1 for blind date. First, the choice of chat time is particularly important, and then the consideration of content, because before embarking on the road of blind date, there may not be much time to go out and meet others, so when chatting, try to choose the free time for both parties to chat. You can ask politely when you add WeChat, and you can also observe each other's circle of friends. When you find that he has just updated his circle of friends, you can take the initiative to chat with him on WeChat. Because the other party has time to send a circle of friends, it means that the other party has a high probability of having time. It is a better choice to chat when both parties are free, so as not to make the other party feel embarrassed or bored. So, how to choose the opening remarks? Generally speaking, the opening remarks should be polite. You shouldn't use casual words and sentences like chatting with your brother or girlfriend. You should generally choose "Hello!" Just "Are you busy?" . 3. After that, you can ask names and answer questions with your mouth open, but you can't ask too many questions or ask too private questions, such as "Do you have a room at home?" "How old are you?" "What is your education?" This kind of question will leave a bad impression on people. Generally, you can stop by asking the basic situation clearly. 4. It is frivolous to ask the other party for photos before meeting, so try not to expose the photos directly to the other party. You can observe each other's circle of friends or take the initiative to send photos to see when they will return photos. It is easier to start a topic through the other person's hobby. You can check each other's personal data and the activities of friends circle to get information, but the range of choices and interests should not be too wide. Grasping some of them to start a topic can get good results. But try to avoid what you are not good at, so as not to cause embarrassment and misunderstanding. Second, how to chat on blind date 1, learn to introduce yourself. Compared with hello, "hey" is a more relaxed tone, which also makes girls put down their guard. Don't be too official when introducing yourself. You want to make friends, not an interview. You can say, "My name is Yang, just call me Xiao Yang, but remember to add a handsome word." . This kind of prologue can make girls happy instantly. "2. Pay attention to the small details at the beginning of communication, because they are not familiar with each other, so the opening remarks of the chat may wish to start from the other party's circle of friends and nicknames. For example, which city she has been to recently, you can mention your story in that city and so on. It is more important to let the other person feel "* * *" when chatting. 3. Make fun of yourself. I don't know if you have seen the tucao conference. Every guest must accept everyone's spit and self-spit. If used properly, it is a good way. For example, when a girl teases you, "You don't even want to invite guests, are you still a man?" You can answer "Wait a minute, let me see my ID card. "Many times, girls' complaints or anger are a kind of coquetry, which can be easily resolved with humor. 4, praise is very important, I don't know what to say, then praise her more! " Why is it different from what it looks like in the photo? "At this time, the other party will be unhappy, and then you can add" You look much better than the photo! "The other party will turn cloudy and sunny. How to chat with blind date from the beginning 3 1 Introduce the object with WeChat prologue 1 and expression 1. If you say hello, sometimes you can use expressions instead of some humorous emotions. If the other person is interested in you, he will reply to you. 2. Humorous opening remarks Girls will not refuse to use my boys. You can use some humorous words to attract each other's attention, which will also leave a good impression on each other. 3. Praise the opening remarks People like to listen to good words. Knowing how to praise each other will leave a good impression on each other from the beginning. When introducing the object, you may want to add WeChat. When you see the other person's head, you can praise him, which will make him willing to chat with you. How to chat with blind date 4 seconds, the first sentence with blind date WeChat is 1. Say hello politely. 1 The first sentence is nothing special. You can briefly introduce yourself and the basic situation. By chatting, you will make the other person willing to chat with you, and then slowly let the other person have no sense of distance from you. 2. Chat with the blind date from the circle of friends. After each other has WeChat, look at each other's circle of friends, so that there are topics to communicate with each other. 3. Express yourself and attract the attention of the other party. If you just say hello, there is nothing new. You can exercise your own things to attract each other's attention. For example, "I just came out of the gym, which is so cool. Do you like fitness? " "Just finished eating, Chili Chili chicken is so delicious. Do you like spicy food? "What should I prepare for chatting with blind date? When chatting with a blind date, you must be prepared in advance, and don't fight unprepared. We can start from the following aspects: 1. Clean up your circle of friends. After adding the girl's WeChat, we will observe her WeChat circle of friends and get a basic understanding. The same is true for girls. Many boys often only care about girls, and it is easy to ignore things that should be deleted from their circle of friends, for example, so be sure to organize your circle of friends in advance before adding girl friends. 2. Have a general understanding of girls. After adding girls' WeChat, the first thing you have to do is to browse each other's circle of friends, so as to get a general understanding of each other's preferences and basic information, such as work/life circles/recent frequent activities/places to play. Then you have a general direction: what can I talk to her about? 3. Still introduce yourself and communicate with girls, such as what name/age/job, etc. You can laugh at yourself and make the other person think you are funny;