Many children can't bear hardships and have poor psychological quality. Parents should give their children a strong psychological quality and help them build up their self-awareness. Can children know themselves correctly? . People who see their own shortcomings and know their own strengths are more secure, less susceptible to external influences, have a comprehensive understanding of their own abilities and potentials, and have a certain sense of control over what they can and cannot do, which is conducive to cultivating children's self-confidence. ?
Is it suitable? Poor support? Kid. Children arrange tasks within their power, cultivate their sense of responsibility and exercise their ability. ? If children are not allowed to do anything and get into the habit of reaching for food with clothes, it is difficult for children to be grateful to their parents and difficult to understand. Responsibility? With what? Take responsibility? When he encounters setbacks, he may think of flinching. Effective implementation? Frustration? Education. Frustration education is not to create difficulties for children, but to deliberately make things difficult for children. ? In the process of growing up, children will encounter all kinds of setbacks and hardships, such as children who just learned to walk unsteadily and wrestle, quarreling with their classmates at school, breaking their newly bought pencil case, failing in math exams and so on. These are the setbacks that children must face. Accept setbacks and solve them, and children will grow up. ?
When a child faces setbacks, don't rush to solve them for him, but give him emotional support. Let the children speak their thoughts, understand the children and give them a hug, and the children will feel the love and companionship of their parents. Encourage children to face setbacks and realize that there are failures in life besides success, and there are pains besides happiness. ? If you are born imperfect, you will make mistakes. It is even more valuable to learn some lessons from mistakes and setbacks. ?
Solve problems with children. The problem has already happened. Avoidance can't solve the problem. Why not face it with a positive attitude, think about children's problems from multiple dimensions, make comprehensive analysis and propose solutions. ? One-armed boy? Zhang Jiacheng needs to accept the fact that he has lost a precious arm and only one arm is left. Through deliberate practice and unremitting determination, he can still pursue his basketball dream. No different from others, even better. ?