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Deep communication: Can a 28-year-old single woman meet an interesting and poisonous man for a long time?
Chen Qiqi is 28 years old. Her boyfriend of three years ran off with another woman, and Chen Qiqi was punished for it.

Being single is not difficult. The hard part is those who try their best to make her end, such as her mother.

Chen's mother thinks that a woman will have a home sooner or later anyway. While she is still young, she will soon find a man of the same age and family and get married.

Chen Qiqi listens to her mother very much.

So, this year, I went on blind dates again and again, but I can't remember whether I met Zhang on the fifth or sixth blind date.

Zhang is thin and thin, wearing a rose-shaped tremella nail with a black cotton silk shirt and narrow pants.

Chen Qiqi caught a glimpse of an old little dirty thing on the left breast of his shirt. He was disappointed, alas! It's okay to dress up as a girl It's still so sloppy on a date. Did you clearly show disrespect for the woman? !

A cold face, subconsciously snubbed Zhang, he said ten words before she lazily replied, looking forward to ending this blind date as soon as possible.

Zhang soon saw his disdain, and his self-esteem was seriously hurt. He said angrily, "beauty, even if you look down on me, there is no need to be cold-faced." The girl's cold face is Leng Yan's sexual feeling, and your cold face is evil. You should really ponder the meaning of the word' Leng Yan'. "

Was about to speak back, Zhang went on to say, "You women love to set all kinds of narrow aesthetic standards. You should be rich, calm, mature, tall and handsome, and ignore me. But handsome? Can I eat it as a meal? Can I stay with you forever? A woman like you who judges a book by its cover is fickle and snobbish and deserves to be dumped. "

Chen Qiqi was so angry that he saw stars and stamped his foot to leave.

Zhang stretched out his hand to stop: "Beauty, the dishes are all ready, or just to cater to your taste. It's a pity you don't eat! " I'd better go! "

Zhang took out his wallet, took out some bills and threw them on the table. He raised his feet and went out.

All of a sudden short circuit, looking at Zhang's back at a loss.

At this time, an elder sister (an elegant old woman) matchmaker that Chen's mother knew when she was dancing in the downtown square quickly sat down: "It's okay, it's okay, all adults, don't be too impulsive! Look, this boy will definitely go back later! "

The matchmaker put away the bill on the table and put it in front of Chen Qiqi, saying, "Kiki, my aunt used to work as a personnel officer in a public institution, and Yang Xuan is my nephew. My aunt can't be wrong about people. Yang Xuan is all right except that he can't talk, so he is 30 years old and has no girlfriend. Yang Xuan is a graduate student with a car and a house. Managing in a listed investment company has a bright future, and the only child has no burden. The conditions are quite good. Why don't you two get along and have a look? "

Chen Qiqi wry smile. Can't Zhang talk yet? It's just a poison tongue. She admitted that she was wrong just now. She shouldn't have joined the Appearance Association and snubbed Zhang, but Zhang's words went too far! Besides, how can we get along when people are gone?

The matchmaker smiled mysteriously and pointed behind Chen Qiqi.

Chen Qiqi looked back and got a fright.

Zhang scratched his head with a fake flower that seemed to be taken from somewhere in the hotel and apologized shyly: "I'm sorry, I was too impulsive just now." I just thought about it. Actually, I'm the one who deserves to be left behind. "

Chen Qiqi deadpans, but his heart is alive. On a blind date, she also met a man with a hard mouth, but that was used for sweet talk. I really haven't seen anyone like Zhang. Isn't it a little different to humiliate each other first and then please them? In other words, Zhang is a wonderful flower among men and has a special taste. Once men are interesting, they naturally arouse women's rarity and interest.

Chen Qiqi was thinking, the waiter served.

Steamed tofu with olives and vegetables, roasted goose, dry-fried anchovies, fried minced meat with green beans, steamed bass, sliced soup with pickles and snails.

Five dishes and one soup, the civilian price is not rude, are her favorite.

Obviously, Zhang asked the matchmaker about her diet. He still respects her and won't be as stingy as other blind date men.

At this time, Zhang Jian didn't say anything, so he said, "Well, in fact, every time I am rejected by a girl, I tell myself that blind date is always very bitter when I don't meet the right person. However, I believe blind date has its own true feelings, and you will always meet the right person. Please don't give up on yourself. Since we are both alone, why not look around? "

Moved in his heart, he found that he forgave Zhang: Although this man is ugly and malicious, on reflection, what he said is sincere and his family is good.

Hey! Anyway, it's an empty window of feelings. Is it okay to get along with such a different man? !

Chen Qiqi said bluntly, "All right. However, if you get along well, you get married; if you get along badly, you break up. During this period, we are free to associate with other opposite sex. How about it? "

Zhang repeatedly nodded: "Of course, of course, it is not appropriate to break up immediately, and I will never pester you. In short, whether it is successful or not, we must start from scratch and stick to it. "

Chen Qiqi smiled.

The experience of being dumped by her ex-boyfriend told her that couples who can end well from the beginning either don't love or are too melodramatic, and love from beginning to end is only for looking up, not for consumption.

But Chen Qiqi didn't say it. She just said, "Good."

The matchmaker clapped his hands with joy, which infected He Zhang.

The last three people smiled at each other and the blind date was complete.

Peach blossoms in Chen Qiqi are not prosperous, but the opposite sex is good.

After getting along for two months, Zhang began to complain a lot about his male friends: the slightly handsome ones were said to be plastic surgery, and the slightly ordinary ones were said to be Martians.

Once, in the QQ space, Zhang saw a group photo with several friends and couldn't help but comment on the young man next to him: "He looks like a weasel, and his eyes are not a gentleman."

Chen Qiqi cay way: "Zhang, what are you talking about? ! At least he looks better than you! I said, what's wrong with you recently? "

Zhang Yangxuan said wryly, "er ... well, to tell you the truth! I am jealous, jealous of your male friend, because I am in love with you! "

Chen Qiqi smiled: "What should I do? I'm not in love with you. "

Zhang said seriously, "Then let's get married. I believe you will fall in love with me after marriage. "

Chen Qiqi is very happy.

It is said that women in love are idiots, but here it is the other way around: men in love are idiots.

But she's also an idiot. At that time, she knew that her ex-boyfriend was having an affair, but she still wanted to marry him because she loved him so much. As a result, her ex-boyfriend not only didn't marry her, but also took her money and ran away with another woman.

It may be a good thing to find a man who loves you more than you love him! Moreover, Zhang's various conditions are ok ... After thinking about it, he smiled at Zhang.

Zhang gave a bear hug and screamed and jumped into his arms.