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Daughter-in-law is being tutored by a fitness instructor.
Hello, Uncle Tea: I'm a fitness instructor. I don't just exercise by myself, my job is more to help members reach their ideal figure, but my girlfriend just can't understand me. I often go to the gym to spy on me recently. Once I have physical contact with a woman, she will lose her temper and kick me. I think it is too sensitive for me.

When we had a one-on-one class with members in the gym, she kept staring at me and members with her arms around her. Her eyes are like censorship, and I am so nervous that I can't get rid of it. Most of my members are women, so it is inevitable that there will be some physical contact during training. She always thinks that I am stealing money, or that they are seducing me. Every time I come to the gym, I will definitely lose my temper, hit me and scold me for being unreasonable, leaving teeth marks on my arms.

There will always be classmates at home who invite me to class on WeChat, and she has to watch everything. Otherwise, she always thought that I was having an affair with my female classmates, and all the friends sent us photos. She said to let the female classmates know that I am married.

Once in our gym, every coach asked his members to go to the bar to play together. The manager said I could bring my relatives, but I knew my girlfriend's temper and dared to call her. When my girlfriend found out, she lost her temper again She said that I haven't taken a group of girls to the bar yet, so she must have done nothing good. As a result, she cried and made noise, and called me to relieve her anger. She pulled me at my 1.85 meters height. Although it doesn't hurt, men always want to save face and make her have no dignity at all.

Not only that, she always thinks that I have some problems with the opposite sex in her daily life. When I was on the bus, a woman in stockings came over. I just took one look, and she got out of the car by twisting my ear. I have to say, I've been staring at that woman's leg I don't know how to explain it to her.

I love my girlfriend very much, but her behavior always makes me helpless and doesn't give me any face. What should I do, Uncle Cha?

Uncle Cha's comments: Basically, I think your girlfriend is a savage girlfriend. She has great emotional needs. She needs to feel that you have always loved and cared for her. There is nothing wrong with this, but the big fear is to embarrass men in public. I think you are very cultured. Smart women give men face and respect in front of outsiders. This is really a smart man. I suggest that you avoid too much physical contact, look serious and don't giggle when teaching. No one is perfect. Since you love your girlfriend very much, try to explain things clearly. If there is any misunderstanding, you should sort things out carefully and let your girlfriend know that she is your favorite.