1, don't be too opposed, you need to be gentle.
Most adolescent children are rebellious. If you are too opposed to their behavior, children will easily be dissatisfied and do crazier and more rebellious things, which will make you even more annoyed.
So you can give a small amount of support to children who support idols. If their idolization behavior guarantees that it will not affect their study, they should be given appropriate rewards to improve their children's enthusiasm for learning, give consideration to their study while supporting their idols, and avoid criticizing their idolization.
2. Guide children to support idols correctly.
Children need to know that the real support should be the inner quality of idols, not the appearance. Idolization is more about imposing your own desires on idols and making yourself work hard. Idolization is not about wanting to be an idol, but more about yourself. So idolize's method is not to fight with others online to protect his idol.
3. It is important to accompany children.
If you can, try to get to know your child's idol. Through their own opinions, guide children to distinguish right from wrong, help children understand the diligence and hard work under the gorgeous appearance of idols, and let children have a correct pursuit of life. At the same time, we have more topics with children in this process, build a bridge between parents and children, and become good friends who accompany children to grow up. It can also stop the irrational behavior of children in time, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
Therefore, children's idolization is not terrible, but blind idolization is the most deadly. Parents should learn to guide and accompany their children, let them learn the excellent qualities of idols and become better people.