The circle of friends is actually a typical channel for self-presentation. Now everyone is used to chatting on WeChat and learning about a person's dynamics through a circle of friends.

So what do boys need to pay attention to in the maintenance of friends circle?

The avatar of WeChat is the first impression.

From an intuitive point of view, put a selfie you have taken seriously, or a photo of the place you have been, or your little pet, because these are stories;

In the same way, the background picture of a circle of friends must be a photo of one's own story, which can be one's favorite sports, idols, seen scenery and so on.

First, bask in talents or hobbies.

Now the circle of friends is full of information. If you want to attract the opposite sex in the first place, you must show your unique side.

Expose your talents, such as basketball, mountain climbing, hiking, dancing and movies, enlarge your advantages and tell others clearly what kind of image you are immediately.

Second, bask in your family.

Often basking in your family will give others a feeling of strong affinity. It will also make the other person feel that this is a very filial person and a partner who can walk hand in hand for a lifetime.

Third, travel in the sun.

Travel can best explain a person's living conditions and feelings. Especially in such a fast-paced era, you can arrange your work and life reasonably, which shows that you are a person with aspirations and are independent both spiritually and materially.

Fourth, work in the sun.

Working in the sun can show whether you are a self-motivated and independent person.

Girls take a fancy to boys' self-motivation, get proper sunshine, and even have dinner with colleagues after working overtime, which can also show whether your social circle is extensive and whether you are a gregarious person.

First, negative energy.

No one wants to get along with a negative person who is full of negative energy, uncomfortable and confused every day. Therefore, in the circle of friends, there must be less negative energy.

Second, less contact with the opposite sex with unknown relationship.

From a girl's point of view, it is very strange to see a picture of a strange woman in a circle of friends of a boy who likes him, and some misunderstandings will inevitably occur.

Third, complain less about low emotional intelligence.

The circle of friends is not a tool for you to vent your anger, but your whole image in front of others.

If a person always curses and criticizes others, it will first make people feel frivolous, and secondly make the whole person look low in emotional intelligence.

Fourth, vulgar hobbies

If a person's circle of friends is full of drinking, smoking, tattooing and smoky environment, I believe most girls will resent it, so such things should be sent as little as possible;

Many people will think that as long as they send a circle of friends, even if it is over, it is not. A benign social interaction must be interactive, and interaction often makes girls feel more valued.

Finally, you may have done all the above, but you still feel that the girl you are pursuing is very cold to you. Actually, it's because you haven't done enough. Try harder and show your love.

No one knows girls better than girls. This question is suitable for girls to answer.

Excuse me, which circle of friends pursues girls and boys, and girls will give you extra points in their hearts? I think it should be a boy with a heart who can ask such a question.

So how to be an excellent scheming boy and create an attractive circle of friends to seduce instead of attracting more girls?

1. Talk about the history of chicken soup in a circle of friends, delete it or lock it up for yourself to see. Because the people who can forward this kind of article have a relatively low level of education, we should be a smart boy who has developed in the tight-fitting era to attract those beautiful and thoughtful young girls. How can I show my superb "posture" level?

1. I changed the chicken soup to reading and brushing the questions in the library, and then I was photographed by my classmates "inadvertently". Imagine a sunny afternoon, a girl with a neat and clean image and a strong smell of androgen. The most important thing is that she likes reading, which makes all the girls fidget. I won't tell him this routine.

2. Don't always send a "straight man selfie" in the circle of friends. There are many boys who are actually very good-looking, but because of the level of self-portraits, they can't bear to look directly at them and make themselves messy.

Especially those boys who are generally unattractive, you can stop taking selfies and think about what you have to look at. For example, if your hands look good, just clap your hands.

Or you are tall, you can take a tall back without showing your face, or you can send some photos of yourself playing ball.

Better than taking selfies at home 100 times! Your life is interesting! !

Then you can have some parties with your friends and take photos with the girls around you, especially some beautiful girls. You don't need to take photos with girls. Colleagues, classmates and friends can take photos together.

Prove that you are an attractive and socially influential boy. Girls will think of so many beautiful opposite sex around this boy when they see you. He must have that kind of attraction, don't miss it ~ ~ ~

I won't say much. Ha ha ha ha. Wait, love rat is everywhere.

Although the circle of friends is the key to attracting girls, many boys still don't know the importance of this piece. The authenticity of the so-called avatar determines whether the girl wants to talk to you, while the circle of friends determines whether the girl wants to fall in love with you.

Imagine, if your circle of friends and avatar are not good-looking, while others are handsome, high-end and upscale, will you be eliminated by girls?

So send more friends like this, and girls will give you extra points.

First, it must be true and unpretentious.

You should post what you know, not those illusory things. For example, you can't play the piano at all, but you sent a high-end piano photo, which is different from your temperament. Why don't you send some real travel photos and scenery photos to let girls know that you are a traveler.

Don't send photos online, so people will know that it doesn't belong to you. Use your most handsome photo as your avatar, and girls will have the desire to chat with you when chatting with girls.

Second, photos at work

Friends circle not only shows life, but also shows photos of your work. Many times, girls are insecure about you because they don't know what you do. This is much better than checking accounts when you are chatting, and boys who are active in their work are actually the most attractive in the eyes of girls.

When you put these photos, you can also prove that you are not an idle diaosi. You may not be rich, but you must be an enterprising person.

You can also have dinner with colleagues, photos of the company, and show your work performance and status, which is much more real than ordinary chat.

Third, tempting food.

As long as it's a food photo, you don't have to do it yourself. If you go to a fancy restaurant, take more beautiful photos. If you can cook, you can send more photos of your food, such as crayfish. Girls are the least resistant to these.

When girls see these photos, they will be attracted to you unconsciously, and even ask you where to eat, and the topic will suddenly open.

4. I photographed some pets myself.

Girls will not only show maternal love for pets, but also have a good impression on boys who like to keep pets. After all, not everyone will be so gentle with small animals. This is actually to show your thoughtfulness and tenderness.

I used to know nothing about chasing girls. I fell in love with a girl and chatted with her every day. Even if I don't like staying up late, I will buy her anything she wants, including clothes and bags.

I spent almost five thousand yuan, but all I got was her words: "That's very kind of you. Let's be friends."

One of her suitors went on a date with her, then went to eat a meal not exceeding 100, and took her down. I really didn't understand at that time.

Almost collapsed and was completely labeled as a spare tire man. It's ironic.

In this way, after a few days in a daze, isn't there an official WeChat account on WeChat?

I just paid attention to "Xi Shi Jianghu" and saw what my tutor analyzed for me: "Chasing girls is not by kneeling, but by attracting them and letting them take the initiative."

The brothers in it all ask their sisters to come over and ask you out, willingly, instead of you chasing them.

I began to watch its video, and gradually changed myself, image, temperament, chat technology, attitude towards girls, how to attract, make statements, show value and so on.

It turned out that I didn't get the girl, but what I lost in front of the girl.

What is lost is actually a man's posture, which should have become a kneeling state in the process of pursuit.

Brothers who want to watch can go to WeChat to search for the official WeChat account: Xishi Jianghu (remember to pay attention after searching, otherwise you can't see the video).

I'll tell you from the experience of an experienced person, why can you find a girlfriend?

Fans who are familiar with me must know my situation. I am short, 158, below average, and my family is poorer. So how did I find a girlfriend? Just show your advantages to the girls around you, let them know that you are a potential stock, and let them deeply realize that what is concentrated is the essence.

Then, I also posted about my running, my part-time job, my poor lobbying, and so on. Life is particularly rich and people are particularly interesting. How many girls don't like such a man?

Running, part-time job, poetry, talking about screen shots, and then finding a girlfriend by sticking to these things.