Recently, a new hot word "lying wins parents" appeared on the Internet. And an article about the post-90 s parents bringing their babies has also attracted the attention of many netizens. Many parents sit in the right position according to the article and think about whether they are "lying parents" or "model parents". Many netizens are very surprised. How did the baby win? Compared with the traditional education method, where does this new education method win? Don't worry, let's have a look.

In the past few years, most parents have adopted the "tiger mother and wolf father" education method and advocated strict education methods. I have to say that under this "stick education", many children have indeed achieved results.

However, in recent years, many parents are increasingly concerned about their children's education. These parents always think that their children's happiness is the most important thing, and they are unwilling to suppress their children's nature and hope that their children can develop freely.

What exactly does "lying parents" mean?

The so-called "lying down to win" is easy to understand, even lying down can win.

The so-called "lying wins parents" means that parents do not pay attention to comparison and pursue results excessively in the process of educating their children. These parents educate their children in a Buddhist way, but in the end they always get better results than expected.

Children who grew up in "Buddhist education" also have these characteristics: stronger happiness, healthier psychology, stronger independence, and more right to speak in the family, which shows that children who receive this education have advantages.

Do you also want to be a parent who can win with a Buddhist baby? Let's take a look at the characteristics of lying to win parents!

What are the characteristics of lying to win over parents?

1. Don't worry too much about your child's study.

Such parents will not deliberately pursue their children's high scores. They treat their children's learning and nature more naturally and boldly let them try and choose freely.

2. Encourage children to explore the unknown world

Think that children's happiness is paramount, encourage children to explore the unknown world and pay attention to their inner feelings.

3. Care about the feelings of you and your family.

Such parents will not change their original lifestyle or reduce their quality of life because they have one more child.

4. Be better at borrowing external forces to guide children.

Such parents will skillfully use smart products to guide their children to learn and explore. For example, using sweeping robots and a small degree to ease the pressure of housework and taking care of children, using remote monitoring to accompany children and so on.

Nowadays, there are more and more parents after 90, and the lying-win parenting style is gradually adopted and used for reference.

So why on earth are "lying parents" becoming more and more popular?

In fact, this is because most of the parents who lie down and win are after 80 s and 90 s. All of them were born in relatively wealthy families, and most of them were only children. They are generally highly educated, used to breaking the rules, want to abandon the traditional education methods, and pay more attention to becoming friends with children.

In addition, with the rapid development of the Internet, better parenting ideas can be found conveniently and quickly through the Internet, thus changing the original parenting style.

Although the parenting concept of "lying to win parents" has certain benefits for children, in fact, there is no absolute right or wrong in education, nor can it completely copy other people's parenting methods. It is mainly based on the actual situation of children, in constant exploration and practice, to find the most suitable educational methods for children.