When I saw this sentence, how many people wondered in their hearts whether they had embarked on the road of "boring middle age"; How many people don't want to be what they used to hate the most?

When you are young, whoever has never seen the flash of youth will always have some moments, which will make you have flowers and applause and make you feel brilliant and promising.

However, times have changed, and the power of youth and frivolous has long been polished by life.

Everyone's life is not easy, especially middle-aged people.

It's not that we are greasy and vulgar in nature. Who is not a literary youth, an athlete or something? If you download the photos of Shen Teng when he was young, you will be amazed.

But time is too cruel. Nowadays, what we have to face every day is high mortgage, bottomless children's education expenditure, the needs of four old people for the aged, dangerous workplace and bank deposits that can't withstand any storms. The heavy responsibility is still on the shoulders, and there is no spare capacity to pursue poetry and distance.

But after all, there is still a small fire in my heart. I think many people, like Luo Ying, are trapped in debris, but they are unwilling to be mediocre and bid farewell to their inner girls.

There is no antidote to this kind of dissatisfaction and contradiction with life and oneself, so we can only poke a hole in the gray days and slowly expand our sky.

For this reason, I have made many attempts, such as learning English, textual research, skin care and beauty, baking, exercise and fitness, etc. But most of them have tasted it and know more.

Only one thing persisted, and that was reading.

I haven't read much in recent years, but fortunately I haven't stopped. I read at least one or two books every month, and I don't like writing reading notes. I know this reading volume is actually very small, but the average reading volume of China people is 4.66, which is not bad compared with reading 20 books a year. The most important thing is that I can keep my enthusiasm and interest in reading and writing for a long time, which shows that this is what I really like to do.

At the end of this year 10, I signed up for the reading realization course of Shuai Xiao Bing. It opened a new world. The course is done with great care and is the best online course I have ever bought.

What I like best is the process of doing homework after class. Every time I do my homework, I feel that time flies, and that state of concentration really makes me very happy. The difficulty of homework is actually not small, and most of the students who apply for this course are people who really love books. Just watching other people's excellent homework in the community, I feel very rewarding. Homework is corrected and commented by handsome Xiao Bing himself. If there are any problems, they will be pointed out and requested to be revised. At present, more than 4,000 people have taken part in this course, and Xiao Bing is still insisting on correcting every assignment. Her seriousness and sincerity in the course can be imagined.

At present, Luo Ying has handed in three assignments, the third of which is the most difficult and takes the longest time, and it is also the content I want to share with you today-the ten-month growth list.

The contents of the book list mainly include reading and writing, parenting education (which the old mother focuses on), communication management, and investment and financial management. These are several key areas of concern, and it is planned to focus on thematic reading in these areas.

If you are also interested in these fields, start a ten-month reading tour with me!

Writer Green once said: Reading is the cheapest aristocrat. After studying for ten months, I think we will all become better ourselves.

20 18 1 1 cooperated with the courses in Xiao Bing, mainly reading and writing books.

Douban scored 8.4, recommended by Xiao Bing. Reading can improve your comprehension.

Douban scored 7.9. Learning how to tell a non-fiction story well is a must-read reference for freelance writers.

3, "Golden Pagoda Principle" Author: [America] barbara minto

Douban score 8. 1, disassembling writing logic and thinking logic.

Douban scored 8.8, which taught China traditional knowledge by telling stories.

5, "Inferiority and Transcendence" Author: [Austrian] alfred adler

Douban scored 7.7. A famous psychologist like Freud systematically expounded his psychological thoughts with the clue of "inferiority complex".

20 18 12 began to read the parent-child theme, learn to understand children, listen to children, and communicate effectively with children.

6, "Children: Challenge" Author: Rudolph Drex/Vicky Salz

Douban score 9. 1. While respecting children and giving them equality and freedom, let them respect the rules, take responsibility and win cooperation.

7, "Positive Discipline" Author: [America] jane nelsen

Douban score 9.0, how to discipline children effectively, without punishment or connivance.

Douban scored 8.4, extracting 98 typical family education problems from 220,000 cases.

9, "Children's Universe" Author: [Japan] Hehe Falcon Bear

Douban score 8.6, every child's heart, there is a universe, it exists with infinite breadth and depth, full of spirituality and magic.

10, "Give me your hand, son" by [America] Heimke Gino.

Douban score is 8.8, which completely changes the way parents communicate with their children.

1 1, Listening to Children by Patty Weaver [America]

Douban score 8.8, be a good parent who will listen, and relieve children's troubles and their own troubles.

20 19 19 Continue reading the parent-child theme and add a writing class to consolidate the course knowledge.

12, The Secret of Childhood by [Italian] maria montessori.

Douban score is 8. 1, which records Montessori's educational research work in preschool children and expounds the principles and methods of Montessori's education.

13, Parents' Effectiveness Training Manual by Thomas Gordon

Douban score is 9.2, and the P.E.T course, which is not limited by the times, will make parent-child communication have an immediate effect.

14, The Power of Games by Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen.

Douban score is 8.6, which "translates" the needs behind children's superficial behaviors, and then "translates" parents' love and expectations into a language that children can easily understand and accept.

15, "Children will listen to what they say, and children will say what they listen to" by Adele? Faber/Elaine? Mazlisch

Douban score is 9. 1, which helps you learn a magical language to make children obey, end parent-child conflicts and bring parent-child cooperation.

16, ladder: [America] Bruce D. Perry/[America] Maya Serawitz

Douban score is 9.8, a diagnosis and treatment note of a child psychological counselor. One reader commented that "it is painful to read, shocking to read and heartbreaking to read".

17, complete writing guide by [America] Laura Brown

Douban scored 7. 1, which is a practical writing book tempered by 30 years' teaching experience of Columbia University teachers, with more than 200 writing templates, which can be used at any time.

On February 20 19, I studied children's psychology during the Spring Festival holiday, focusing on how to stimulate children's learning ability.

18, Child Educational Psychology Author: [Austria] alfred adler

Douban score 8.4, to cultivate children's sense of responsibility, cooperation and self-confidence from an early age.

19, Adler's Children's Personality Education

Douban score is 8.3, and helping children form a normal and healthy personality is the primary and core issue in educating children.

20. The formation and cultivation of children's personality Author: [Austrian] alfred adler

Douban scored 8.2, another Adler book. Read through his views.

2 1, Child Development Psychology Author: (USA) Robert S.Feldman

Douban score is 9.5. Teacher Xiao Bing said in class that to be a parent-child reading product, you should know something about developmental psychology.

22, "Harvard Family Instructions" Author: William? Baynard

Douban scored 7.9 points, from the list of excellent students. This is a teaching material for teachers and a self-cultivation guide for adults.

23, "How to Say Children Willing to Learn" Author: Adele Farber/Elaine Mazlisch

Douban scored 8.6, so I chose this book, because I don't want to destroy children's interest in learning in a mandatory way.

24. Reading Manual Author: Jim Trelease

Douban score 8.4, learn the method of parent-child reading, and let children become lifelong book lovers.

A year's plan starts with spring. Choose three personal growth classes other than parent-child classes to increase positive energy.

25, "From Action" Author: [Japan] Ishida Chun

Douban score is 7.3. I have many ideas, but I don't have enough motivation. My reading goal is to learn simple and effective self-management methods.

26, "Heterogeneous" Author: [Canadian] Malcolm Gladwell

Douban score of 8.0, let us find the root of success and find a deeper chance of success.

27, "The Road Few People Walk" Author: [America] scott parker

Douban 7.7 points, find your true self and move towards mental maturity.

28, "How to Cultivate Children's Social Competence" Author: Mona R Schur

Douban score is 8. 1. Social ability is a child's ability to solve contradictions and get along with others. Man is a gregarious animal. Cultivate children's social skills and bring them closer to success.

29, "Whole Brain Education Law" Author: Daniel Siegel

Douban score is 8.5. Instead of blindly giving expensive whole-brain lessons to children, it is better to read this book first to understand what whole-brain education is.

30, "Education from the Inside Out" Author: Daniel? Daniel J. Siegel)/Mary? Hartzel

(mary hart Zell)

Douban scores 7.9, so that parents can avoid mental trauma that was not properly handled in their early years, create a healthy and warm parent-child relationship with a healthy attitude, and avoid the pain of their parents' childhood from generation to generation.

On April 20 19, parent-child theme reading came to an end and began to manage theme reading.

3 1, Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Cohen

Douban scored 8.6. Take this book as the last book on parent-child theme. Raising children is unconditional, and never control children in the name of love.

32. Know yourself and accept yourself. Author: [America] Martin seliger.

Douban score is 7.6. Douban comments summary: be brave in changing what you can change, accept what you can't change frankly, and have the wisdom to distinguish the two.

33, "Amoeba Management" Author: [Japan] kazuo inamori

Douban score is 7.7. I was deeply moved by kazuo inamori's To Be Alive, so I chose this book.

34, "Grove's First Lesson for Professional Managers" Author: [America] Andy Grove

Douban score is 8.6, which helps you to increase the value of the workplace and improve management productivity with the most easy-to-understand and easy-to-learn methods.

35, "Cut the crap" Author: [America] Josh? Josh Benov

Douban score is 7.8, which is a professional business writing guide for today's social writing style, so that your writing can directly meet the needs of readers.

36, "Enterprise Evolution" Author: [America] Geoffrey Moore

Douban scored 8.0, which is an excellent work about enterprise innovation.

May 20 19, as the project manager, I listed the following books.

37, "Let's Talk: Harvard Winning Negotiation Course" Author: [America] Grand Lum

Douban score is 8.6, and people in business society should know something about negotiation.

38. Non-violent communication Author: [America] Marshall Luxembourg

Douban scores 8.5, and verbal violence is sometimes more hurtful than physical violence. Learning nonviolent communication makes people's communication more harmonious and beautiful.

39. The biblical author of introvert communication: [America] Jennifer Canweiler

Douban score is 7.2. As an introvert, just reading the title of a book interests me.

40, "Agile Revolution: A New Cooperation Mode to Enhance Individual Creativity and Enterprise Efficiency" Author: [America] Jeff Sutherland

Douban score is 8.3, and agile management is a new project management technology that adapts to the rapid change and iteration of products. Learn more about this new thing in the software industry and think about how agile methods will help the innovation of traditional industries.

4 1, "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by [America] Steven Covey

Douban scored 8.2, an enduring bestseller, which some companies will require employees to read.

42, "Effective Managers" Author: [America] peter drucker

Douban score is 8.7, and Drucker, a master of management, focuses on how a manager can achieve fruitful results.

2065438+June 2009 Project Manager's Book List.

Johanna Rothman's Method of Practical Project Management

Douban score is 8.3, which is a practical manual for project managers. Easy to understand and practical, you can learn agile practice.

44, "Target" Author: Avery Godras/Jeff Coe

Douban scored 8.7, and expounded the author's original "TOC restriction method" by washing and practicing the novel brushwork.

45, "Critical Chain" Author: [Israel] Eli Goldrat

Douban scored 8.4, which deeply described the critical chain, an important method of project management, in the form of novels.

46, "Horizontal Leadership" Author: [America] Roger Fisher)/Alan Sharp

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Douban scored 8.0, which grasped the pain point of team communication, especially the difficulty of cross-departmental communication, so that you can lead a good team without being a supervisor.

47, "Crisis Leadership" Author: [America] Dennis ·N·T· Perkins/[America] Gillian B Murphy

Douban score is 7.9. Through the study of sailing project, this paper analyzes ten methods to lead the team to solve the crisis and help the team survive and develop in adversity.

48. Competitive Strategy Author: [America] Michael Porter

Douban scored 8.6, which is a book explaining the industry analysis and the company's competitive strategy in detail.

From July 2065438 to July 2009, I read two books on marketing recommended by Xiao Bing, and then began to read about investment and financial management.

49. Confessions of an Advertiser by Ogilvy & Mather [America]

Douban scored 8.4, recommended by Xiao Bing, a legendary master of modern advertising.

50, "Why do customers buy" Author: [America] underhill

Douban score is 8. 1. Understand the relationship between consumer psychology and buying behavior. Teacher Xiao Bing recommended books.

5 1, Buffett's letter to shareholders: [America] Warren Buffett

Douban score is 9.2. Buffett doesn't write books, but he writes an eloquent letter to shareholders every year. Buffett himself said, "This book is better than any biography about me."

Douban score is 8.3. The main content of this book has been learned in the official WeChat account and video course. Reread it again to consolidate and improve.

53, "Poor Charlie Collection" Author: [America] Peter Kaufman

Douban scored 9.0, which included the main public speeches of Charlie Munger, Buffett's most important partner, in the past 20 years.

54, "Stable Stock Market Income" Author: Joel Greenblatt

Douban score is 7.8. Although it was signed with the suspicion of the title party, it was seen on the recommendation list of Wealth Management V more than once. The famous "magic formula" comes from this book.

2065438+August 2009 Accounting and Psychology are compulsory courses for value investors.

55, "Influence" Author: [America] Robert Siodini

Douban score is 8.6, which explains why some people are very convincing and we are always easily deceived from a psychological point of view.

56. "Successful Investment in Peter Lynch" Author: [America] Peter Lynch/john ross Childe

Douban scored 8.7, which is also recommended by many financial managers. Suitable for small and medium investors to learn investment analysis methods.

57. David A. Moss's "Understanding Macroeconomics in Seven Days"

Douban score is 8.6, and macroeconomics is something that must be learned from the perspective of management and investment.

58. Reasons for listening to stories.

Douban score is 8.8. To analyze the investment value of a company, it is not feasible without the knowledge base of accounting. This book explains the basic knowledge of accounting through easy-to-understand stories, so that novices can learn it at once.

59, "Mob" Author: (France) Le Pen

Douban scored 8.3, putting a psychological book together with investment and financial management, because the failure of investment is often psychological, and the herd mentality makes people unable to judge independently, and finally lost to inner fear and greed.

60, "The Real Rules of the Stock Market" Author: [America] Pat Dorsey

Douban score of 8.9 is the real investment experience of Morningstar, the world's top rating agency, and systematically expounds the value investment method advocated by Buffett.

6 1, "Buffett's moat" [America] Pat Dorsey

Douban score is 8.5. The writer is the head of the securities analysis department of Morningstar Company. This book is another masterpiece after The Real Rules of the Stock Market. The concept of "moat", whether it is investment or life, is worth studying.