2065438+June 25th 02: 02: 53.
Source: Yangzi Evening News
Will you go back to town tomorrow? Oh, come here. Dad has something to tell you.
Remember to come back late and say hello to everyone who meets the villagers. It doesn't matter if you can't remember your name, people will remember you!
Your master gave you a cigarette the day before yesterday. Tell me, don't smoke. Why do you have to smoke your own? It's just your cigarette, okay. Where do you want his old man's face to go?
On the day you came back, my second aunt asked when you came back. Why not just say "this morning" and "today"? What are you talking about? I've only been out for a few days and my tongue won't bend. Before you speak, think about what the villagers say!
Your uncle was drinking with you that day. Why don't you do this? Who does not know that drinking is uncomfortable? Didn't you see your uncle's happiness that day? What? Bad wine? Dry sweet potato wine, you can't even buy it in the city!
Yesterday, you and your mother went to the south slope to weed. How many meters did you hoe? Look at your mother's pain. Are you still laughing?
When you come back from weeding, sit there after dinner. Can't you help your mother wash the dishes? Where do you think your mother spends a little time a day? Where did all your diligence go when you were a child? Are you going back to town, too
Take off your clothes at home! No one knows whether you are a city dweller or a cadre without a suit. There is no shame in wearing big underpants. Didn't you run around the village naked when you were a child? Why don't you work hard?
What did you throw away from that pack of snacks yesterday? What? Expired? What is the expiration date of the cultivator? That dessert was brought to your mother by your cousin in the bank. You have no idea how stressful her life is. Can you be excited to throw it away like this?
Don't you care that little bastard is picky about food? Don't eat fat, don't eat vegetables, eat that instant noodles all day. Can that thing be more nutritious than eating a steamed bun? I can't say it in front of your wife. Are you hurting children?
Don't steal your mother's money next time. I guess your daughter-in-law doesn't know either. We are still strong, we can eat and drink. If you two want to make trouble for this again, leave us alone!
Call more when you go back, so that your grandson and your mother can talk more. Don't make a phone call, it's very expensive. Remember!
Why do you sigh? Dad told you this for your own good. Dad, I'm afraid you'll hear too many good things and forget your roots! If it were anyone else, no one would tell you that. If you really say that, you are also worried that your heart will drift and you will be planted in the future! You should also listen to these people and get on well with them, because they are the ones who really worry about you and love you. People who say nice things all day have no good intentions!
What are you sighing about? Put out your cigarette!
[Comment] The words "worry" and "love" can hardly be seen in the full text, or anger, resentment, accusation or reminder, but between the lines, a loving father is deeply moved by his children's "worry" and "love". The language is simple and the conception is exquisite, which can be described as seeing love in clumsiness and showing love in cleverness. (Gu Guinan)
Worry and love
The meeting of tea and water is really a fate in previous lives.
I opened the lid of the tea box, pinched a handful of tea with my fingertips and sprinkled it in the round teapot. The slender and hard tea leaves hit the bottom of the white porcelain pot and fell into the deep stream like broken jade. Boiling water is poured into the teapot one by one, as if eager to embrace an already doomed oath. Tea leaves are spinning and dancing in an almost crazy way, which instantly fills the world in the teapot.
Love tea, not just drinking tea. New tea, old tea, seemingly sacred and pious tea ceremony, everything about tea.
The love of tea probably stems from the universality of tea. Dark and stout men quench their thirst with a big bowl of tea; Friends who have known each other for many years get together to drink a pot, and those unnecessary feelings or feelings of life are brewed into a small cup; An uncontested and elegant scholar, living in the deep palace, savoring tea and tea, a cup of green tea can attract people all over the world.
I carefully removed the lid of the teapot, and the tea leaves spread out completely, and the foam floated on the green water. When all was silent, I seemed to hear a thin sigh.
Who is sighing? Who is holding a warm cup in his hand and sighing sadly?
Love, how can you not worry?
Whether it is the tea ceremony in China or the Japanese tea ceremony, four words are emphasized: harmony, quietness, purity and silence. It's just that today, with thousands of years of ancient tea rhyme, who can give up the basics, close the door and make another cup of tea for himself?
They show off each other, show off the dignity of their tea and show off the exquisiteness of the tea set. They took out tea drinks in plastic bottles from the refrigerator. I can't help worrying about how the tea culture with a long history can keep its purity full of ancient meanings.
I think of what Hong Yingming wrote in "Caigen Tan": "The tea is not refined but the pot is not dry, the wine is not empty but the bottle is not empty, the pipa is often tuned without strings, and the piccolo is adaptive. Even if it is difficult to meet Emperor Xi, it can be kept secret." Really, "tea is not refined", as long as "the pot is not dry", tea tasting is life, how can it not be worrying? Exaggeration and glitz polluted the pot of green tea, and finally covered up the real life that I had longed for.
Love tea, also worry about tea. That clear love will never change, and that heavy sadness is also true. No matter how sad and love are intertwined, they all melt in the cup, take a sip and savor the bitterness and sweetness in tea.
I picked up the teacup on the table, and the tea was cold. Half a roll of tea was half sunk and half floated in the middle, like an old legend frozen in the heavy air, revealing half love and half sadness.
[Brief Comment] It is quite difficult to tell the worries and love of a culture in light and lyrical words. The author's exquisite description is permeated with deep feelings, and there is an echo from beginning to end, full of energy. Beauty lies in the twists and turns of the process. Can write simple complex, can write feelings implicitly, long, strong, this is the wonderful use of literature. Generalization, vigilance and not being disturbed by words are the essence of this article. (Luo) According to
Worry and love
People say that society is harmonious, so Lu Xun, who "does not forgive anyone", is going to retire; People say that society has love, so Du Fu, who is depressed and frustrated, needs to be deconstructed again. It seems that those eternal troubles are the harsh noise of great love between heaven and earth.
However, what we often see is that superficial people weave a brilliant but fragile brilliant picture with a magnificent golden thread of "love", while sages write such a huge and heavy word of "love" with gloomy eyes.
Unfortunately, people are so enthusiastic about the pursuit of "love" that they want to cover up everything that is contrary to the theme of love. It's just Fu, who is "very busy recently". He is always a sad figure, and he obviously doesn't conform to the main theme of society. People naturally know that the "poet saint" does have great love in his heart, but they still feel bad about his extreme attitude. So after some wonderful graffiti, the poet's image is more "close to the people". This kind of entertainment has inherent advantages in communication, but the more it spreads, the more people feel the lack of rationality and the hopelessness of communication. As herta mueller said: Appreciating witty and almost perfect humor also means beautifying one's digression. Du Fu has lost the essence of anxiety. Where will his love rest in peace?
History has long told us that under the harmonious Qingming situation, what is permeated is false love, and what is really hidden is malicious evil. Without that worrying rumor, the status of love will fall sooner or later. Naturally, we will think of Peng who cheered for the people. His iron demeanor and rational nature seemed to disturb the prosperity of the Great Leap Forward, but his annoying suggestions really brought New China back to the edge. In discordant worries, it is gentle as water.
However, when the victory or defeat became clear, the times drifted away, and the blood of war was washed away by rain and dew, people thought that the previous world was peaceful. The expression of love can no longer be a heavy worry. Just like Pleasant Goat always beats Big Big Wolf, there is only one way to interpret love, and that is love.
It is understandable that people are warm and cold, and they like the new and hate the old. But I think that "worry" should always be an immortal spirit of the times. It is bound to love by nature. In the language of mathematics, worry is a necessary condition for the establishment of love. "A gentleman is ill in the last days, but he is not famous in the world", but in the last days, even in the prosperous age of enlightenment, there must be a few people who are ill with others, worry about the world, dare to establish heaven and earth, make a life for the people, carry forward the past and make peace for the world. And they are the treasures of the times.
Carefree love is like a piece of cloth with no weft and only warp, which will split in half when pulled.
[Brief Comment] Profound thoughts and sophisticated language reveal the false beauty of the world and the vanity of carefree love. The discussion is concise and penetrating, highlighting the value of worrying about love and the view that great love can only be revealed in great worry. In one go, it is magnificent and exciting. (Pan Dachun)
Worry and love
Lao Wang squatted in the corner with his hands in his sleeves and finally spat impatiently.
Recently, the community has begun to be green again. Just behind the apartment where Lao Wang lives, the rumbling machine keeps ringing all day. Take a bite here, spit there, and a row of evergreen plants are lying on the roadside.
Lao Wang has been in town for more than a year, but he is still not used to this strange place. Seeing these small trees, he couldn't help thinking of his hometown.
"Hey, two long ridges of beans! Such a good place! " He looked at the flower bed and sighed.
Lao Wang used to be a good farmer, and his calluses are still thick and hard.
The year before last, Lao Wang had no choice but to live in a high-rise building. There was no place to put the rake, flatbed and shovel, so he had to throw them away as rags, leaving only a hoe under the wall.
Leaving the land, Pharaoh is like a collapsed pit, and only the grass driven crazy by loneliness grows upward.
He went back to see the land several times. Hanging there like dried tofu, nothing happened.
He felt distressed, which was tied up by a smile like a crutch. Lao Wang is a clown, and he can't refine the concept of "family poverty". He's just worried.
It's like worrying about an acre of crops left in the autumn field, a bag of bran thrown in the corner, or a naked old yellow dog.
He abandoned them and was forced to do so.
I always put it down. Life can change overnight, but how to break the endless love for the land?
Trouble and love are sharp arrows that pierce the skin because they are deep and painful.
Lao Wang is eager to return to his native land, even if he carries another hoe.
However, as a farmer, a farmer who has lost his roots, how should he resist? The only thing I can comfort myself is a hoe.
"Lift-look ahead-"Lao Wang demonstrated in front of a group of elderly men and women with a hoe. "Good, retreat-close!" The old man with glasses picked up a slightly rusty hoe.
Old Solo spat on his hand, remembering the coach who invited him to do "hoe aerobics" the other day, he hesitated a little and agreed.
Because when he has a hoe on his shoulder, the emptiness in his heart will be lighter, and a dry heart will be like a long drought.
Recently, Lao Wang started a new research-"shovel officer aerobics".
He is addicted to this because he doesn't know how to solve his troubles, just as he doesn't know how to let go of his love.
[Brief Comment] A short story that can be called a warning. On the contrary, the worries contained in the speech are more prominent. The author is good at sketching out the details, pouring emotion into the details and containing deep thoughts; The full text also starts from the details, and the small hoe carries a broad reflection on the distant demise of agricultural civilization. Because it is implemented in the feelings of farmers, the anxiety of rural "desolation" presented in the article is particularly touching. (Luo) According to
Worry and love
I think there are two smells in the world: one is the smell of plants, and the other is the smell of meat and fish.
The times are also divided into two parts: rural character and urban character.
In rural times, the smell of plants is rich; In urban times, the smell of meat is choking.
Shen Congwen sighed: There are too few country people!
A trace of sadness grows slowly like weeds. Yes, where did they go?
The so-called countryman is obviously not a geographical concept. Let's talk about my childhood country.
Every spring, "chicken on credit, chicken on credit" swings around the door, leisurely and fluttering, like a song. Chicken on credit, that is, buying a newborn chicken by paying back the money first. The seller is a mobile peddler. He wrote down how many chickens you bought in a small book. He will come back next spring, and you can pay with eggs. At that time, my little brain was still thinking, what if the debtor moved or died, or the notebook was lost? Is it not a big loss?
Later, I suddenly understood that this is the love of the country people, a kind of trust love.
No bent ideas, the simplest agreement, the simplest business, all redeemable ideas.
It turned out that there were only country people and city people-where did this new product come from? They know arithmetic and strategy, and every time they deal with each other, the country people always suffer. As a result, more and more people are entering cities, and the worries of rural people are not limited to this. The mountains burn bricks, chop them into stones, cut trees into plates, and boil them into pulp ... The fertile land extends to the city.
The city is getting more and more fertile, and the countryside is getting thinner and thinner, like an evacuated packaging bag.
Not all the people in the city gate are from the city.
Before the 20th century, although there were already city walls and markets, city people were still country people, and their bones still smelled of vegetation.
Early in the morning, the ancient shop put forward two excuses: one said that the child was innocent, the other said that there was no other price, and one was hot and the other was cold. I still like the temper in the second picture, which is a bit awesome, but it is convincing to confuse the fake with the real. Now the streets are full of discount cards and coupons, jumping off buildings for sale, and smiling faces everywhere. On the contrary, people feel that the knife is hidden in the smile, and they are up to no good. The former loves the latter but worries.
One year, Zhang Zhongxing went to Tianjin and passed by Yangcun. As soon as he heard that there was a famous cake, he rushed to Tianjin, but he didn't sell it. Why? Because good rice was confiscated. Mr. Wang wondered, can't ordinary rice be used It's better than bankruptcy! Dude, it's simple. No, our ancestors had rules.
I think this rule, this stubbornness, is the love of the country people.
Think about the disappearance of rural people in this decade. On midsummer night, I never met fireflies again, which is also a matter of recent years. This is the trouble of the country people and the country.
Interwoven together, I really hope to see a countryman carrying a burden and carrying a basket full of chickens one day.
[Brief Comment] There are three wonders in this article: First, the strangeness lies in the clever and incisive language, which hits the nail on the head and makes people think. Second, the novelty lies in the original insights. Through the gradual disappearance of "country people", the author expressed his regret for the decline of human beauty. Third, the novelty lies in the ingenious conception. First, highlight the characteristics of rural people through comparison, then confirm the simplicity of rural people who can't turn corners through "crediting chickens", then compare with urban people and compare with ancient and modern times. In contrast, without saying a word, sorrows and joys are clear. (thunderstorm)
Worry and love
"The spring water is brighter than the sky, and the painting boat listens to the sound of rain". Is this well-loved water town in the south of the Yangtze River still emitting unique charm?
The sound of leisurely oars and the crisp sound of drizzle falling on the bluestone board ... This unique paradise is exactly what people in the reinforced concrete world yearn for and pursue. Travel agencies are well aware of this truth, and bring travel-stained urbanites to this charming place every week like cows, regardless of the harm to this pure world.
Just when I was thinking about how shy Zhouzhuang would be to me, whether it would make me intoxicated or even linger, the huge arched "Zhouzhuang" stood in front of me. Our party rushed into this world like devils entering the village. She is no longer like that shy little girl, but has become sophisticated and smooth. The "ticket office" is bustling and crowded with tourists. The flag of the travel agency is flying, the tourists are twittering, the voice of the assembly password is shouted from the speaker of the tour guide, and the hawking in the street seems to set each other off. I can't help but be speechless: Is this Zhouzhuang in my imagination?
There was a song not far away. It was indeed a woman swimming in the river. Because of her many performances, her voice is no longer crisp and mellow, but more and more rough. She is not that white and tender young woman, but a yellow-faced woman with a weather-beaten and empty face. The boat rolled to the shore, and even if it cost 70 yuan at a time, tourists rushed to board. I shook my hand and didn't want to experience it. This is not the real Zhouzhuang.
In the afternoon, it was raining in Mao Mao, but I couldn't wash away the cigar smell in Zhouzhuang. On the contrary, it has added a lot of irritability to the crowded crowd.
When we love Zhouzhuang wholeheartedly, have we ever worried about her? Mr. Zhou once lamented: I love Zhouzhuang, but I personally destroyed Zhouzhuang. However, as we all know, it is not his fault. He was attracted by this "woman" who "clear water produces hibiscus". He is deeply infatuated with this pure land. What's wrong with his pen? Perhaps it is under the banner of "Love Zhouzhuang" that we wantonly destroy this artistic conception and disturb this tranquility. Shouldn't we reflect on ourselves? Don't you need to worry about her?
Has river pollution become Zhouzhuang's complaint? Did the rain in Mao Mao in the sky become the cry of Zhouzhuang? Is Zhouzhuang disappearing? Facing Zhouzhuang, my love turned into deep worry.
[Brief Comment] This paper faces the current situation of Zhouzhuang tourism, compares the tranquility and pleasant of Zhouzhuang in the past with the hustle and bustle of Zhouzhuang today, expresses the sincere and fiery feelings of deep affection and sorrow, and highlights the author's concern about the current situation of excellent traditional culture drifting away, as well as the hope of repairing its unique charm. Especially the powerful rhetorical question at the end is even more thought-provoking. Cultural atmosphere and deep and true love are the highlights of this article. (Xue Mingde)
Worry and love
"This is a book for children aged 6- 12 who are scolded by their parents every day. It provides you with a way to deal with your mother ... are you ready? Take it! " 201165438+On February 5th, a book "The Complete Works of Fighting Mothers" quickly became popular on the Internet.
Surprisingly, the author of this book is actually two fourth-grade girls in a primary school in Beijing. All kinds of strange tricks and immature and simple illustrations make The Complete Works of Fighting Mothers lively and humorous.
After laughing, should we reflect on why? What made our children write such a shocking book? What is reflected behind "Fighting Mom"?
The answer is actually very simple. Now some parents are very worried about their children's future, even to the point of being very worried. We can't deny that this anxiety is a sign of love. They also want their children to have a bright future. However, they treat children rudely and beat and scold them just because they don't meet the standard of excellent performance. Can our children feel such "love"? Can our children's young minds bear the "torture" of their loved ones? What do they really want in their hearts?
The strange trick in "Fighting Horse" gives us the answer: You can cry with your mother in your arms (you must cry loudly); You can laugh at your mother and run back to your room and say, mom is a melon; You can also pack your bags and pretend to run away from home (don't run too far) ... The child is not so much fighting with his mother as calling for love.
I clearly remember that Chen Danqing said in the book "Humanistic Quality of Education": If quality education must be said, it must be family education. Letters from Fu Lei was published before I went abroad, and I returned to China 18 years later. This book is still selling well, and the new book "A Letter from Zeng Guofan" is selling well, which shows that such a good tutor is gone.
Chen Lao's sentence "gone" seems too absolute. "Injured" parents need not be sad. Good family education still exists widely. You can see how successful people connect "worry" and "love" perfectly.
Chen Shengshen, an international mathematician known as China Euclid, has a good guiding role for children. He respected children's wishes, gave them enough love, and finally cultivated pillars for the country. The parents of Zhu Deyong, a Taiwanese cartoonist, are even more practitioners who turn "worry" into "love". Further, it was the persuasion of Empress Xiao Zhuang to Emperor Kangxi that made Emperor Kangxi one of the most outstanding emperors in ancient China. Looking abroad, it was the good guidance and respect of Phelps' mother that made Phelps achieve the myth of "eight perfections" at the Beijing Olympic Games. ...
Whitman said: Where there is water, where there is land, there is grass. I want to say: where there is proper worry, there is true love, and there is perfect family education. I hope books such as The Complete Works of Fighting Mothers will gradually fade out of people's lives.
[Comment] Love is a science, and so are troubles. The author said: "Where there is proper worry, there is true love, and there is perfect family education." Well said! Liu Zongyuan once said in the biography of planting camels: "If you have the ability to do the opposite, you will love too much and worry too much. What's more, you will scratch the skin to test its birth and death, shake its roots to see its secret, the nature of wood, and separate from day to day. " Educating people or planting trees is different from generation to generation, that's all. The author also reminds us through The Complete Works of Fighting Mothers that children are men's fathers (children are adults' fathers). Worry and love interact, so perfect family education is one-way. There is not much touching spring scenery, but these two points are enough, not to mention the author's words! According to (Xu)
Worry and love
Great love seems to have something to do with tragedy. Facing the great sorrow of life, human emotions have overcome the power of destruction. Love is so meaningful and fresh when sadness and anger turn into peace.
At present, love seems to have nothing to do with worry. People equate love with desire: love wrapped in money is simple and rude and lacks aesthetic feeling. When love is mixed with other interests, it loses its purity. With money in the veins, sadness becomes cheap.
With the development of human material civilization, it seems that people don't know how to cherish it more and more, so they squander their emotions. Shallow feelings will naturally not be in it, and it is not easy to cause inner worries. Trouble and love, a pair of lovers who have suffered a lot, hide in life and escape from people's hearts and the words of this era. As human speech becomes frivolous, the mind becomes hard.
In fact, trouble and love are a deep well. How many sincere tears are devoted, how rich human emotions will be. Worry makes love sublimate, and love makes worry full of aura and warmth. Throughout past lives, human beings began to be civilized in sorrow and love, and in the long river of the Book of Songs, generations absorbed the supplies of civilization; Looking outward, Shakespeare's brilliant pen comes not only from his skills, but also from his inner voice and the hero's love for new people. In the feeling of sympathy, love appears implicitly and flourishes.
Therefore, if modern people want to find troubles, they must seek artistic conception. Trouble and love are hidden in tragedy, hidden in ordinary feelings of daily life. People can't find it, not hidden in games and interests!
Perhaps reading is the only way: it makes people escape from the whirlpool of life for a while, giving people a space to meditate and count their sorrows in trivial and concrete life. Because life is too huge and the pace of the times is too fast, small emotions will be discarded inadvertently so that we can catch up with the time. In reading, time is slow and full. In the tragedy with a certain distance from life, we can come into contact with troubles and love that we have never experienced, get closer to the lofty feelings of human beings, recall the time we have never experienced, and repent the mistakes we have never made. Then, we can seriously love our own destiny, savor the beauty of life in sadness and feel the heaviness of life in love.
As a young man. We should realize from this experience that love is not always full of laughter. We should know all the difficulties in love, so that we can grieve more peacefully and give emotions more correctly. We should avoid love without feelings.
Trouble and love tremble under the majesty of the times, but always shine in the words of history. Save the emotions of a generation with human wisdom, and the world will be full of beauty. The power of caring is full of people's hearts, and people's expressions are valuable, so people can be richer.
[Brief Comment] This is an argumentative essay with profound thoughts and incisive reasoning. "Great love seems to be related to tragedy", so I began to write extraordinary. Then, the author laments the current disadvantages with a sharp pen: "People equate love with desire". Then it points out that love "loses purity" and "sadness becomes cheap". In addition, the author also dialectically expounded the relationship between "worry and love": "worry sublimates love, and love makes worry full of aura". "Maybe reading is the only way", and the author points out an "unexpected" way to get rid of the real dilemma. (Zhang)
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