Opening techniques of blind date. Many single men and women of school age will go on blind dates, and the opening remarks are very important, which is related to others' first impressions of us. Many people don't know how to speak. Next, I will take you to know more about the opening skills of blind date.
Opening skills of blind date 1
1, actively find a topic
When two people are dating, if there are many topics to talk about, then there will be opportunities for development. If there is no topic to talk about, both sides will feel embarrassed. At this time, men should listen more and talk less, instead of talking all the time, but listen to what the other person is saying first, and then add something. If you talk too much, you will leave a bad impression on the other party.
2, observe each other's personality
When chatting, it depends on whether the other person is an extrovert or an introvert. If the other person is not good at talking, you should take the initiative. If two people are introverted, not talking much will definitely lead to silence. At this time, men should take the initiative to find topics.
3. Don't be silent
If one party is talking and the other party doesn't respond, there will be silence. Listeners should respect each other. If you don't understand what the other person is saying, you can nod your head or change the subject.
4. Talk about your travel experience
Travel is a good topic. Share your past travel experiences and talk about the places you want to go in the future. You can learn about each other's preferences and interests from your travel experience, which can expand the topic.
Step 5 talk about eating habits
If it is the first blind date, you can ask each other about their eating habits during the chat. For example, if she likes seafood, she can quickly search for a good seafood restaurant you know and have dinner together. If the first date feels good, you can take the initiative to go to another better seafood restaurant next time to prepare for the next possible date.
6. Talk about work briefly.
It's always good to know what others are doing. I just want to talk about some work problems in a relaxed tone, but I should grasp this degree well and not go too far. You can also share interesting things at work with her.
Opening skills of blind date II
How to start a blind date chat?
1, starting from home
My hometown is very close to everyone, and it is also very easy to talk. Generally, single young people of school age have been working hard outside for a long time, and it is very intimate to mention their hometown. Therefore, talking about their hometown can quickly narrow the distance between you. Through conversation, you can also learn about the environment where the other person grew up, or other customs, so that you can know in advance and avoid many embarrassing things when you are really together in the future.
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2. Recently released movies or TV series.
Now, which girl doesn't like chasing plays? Especially the hit TV series. If you know this in advance, they will feel that they can talk to you very well. If you are a boy, you can talk about the recently released movies. If it is a boy, you can talk about movies, which is more advanced. Imagine if a man stayed at home every day to catch a play, which girl would like it? Isn't it?
3. Hobbies
Hobbies are one of the best ways for us to get to know each other. Both boys and girls should have some hobbies, so as a boy, both sports and fitness are actually very attractive to girls. Its realization is that many people like to keep pets. If a boy keeps a dog or a cat, and it happens that a girl likes small animals, then the girl will think that the boy is warm and the chances of the two people being together will be even greater!
How to start a blind date chat?
In fact, in the process of blind date, we must ensure that the atmosphere will not be awkward, don't make the other party feel very scared, and don't have a strong purpose, such as asking questions about garage deposits. Because it's the first time to meet, just talk casually, keep the same frequency with the other person, and make the other person feel happy and stress-free, then her first impression of you will be particularly good. Everyone expects to meet a person who is highly compatible with himself in the process of understanding. For example, talking about food happens to be a "snack", so two people will have a special topic.
Of course, the premise of all this is your personal image and demeanor. Everyone is a visual animal and often looks out at first sight. Don't ignore the sloppy image. If you want to find the right person in the process of blind date, it is also important to tidy up your "facade". After all, only by looking at your appearance first will the other party decide whether to go further with you!