How to get rid of loving the brain?
1. Learn to love yourself before you love others.
When you learn how to love yourself and make yourself full of love, then you can be different from others. In other words, if a person doesn't even love himself, but wants to love others first, then his love must be deformed. The way to love yourself is to enrich your life first. Study hard, work hard, dress up well, and then accept yourself from the bottom of my heart.
2. Dare to stop loss in time.
If this love life has exhausted you, it will greatly reduce the original quality of life. In fact, it has proved that you are not suitable. The really suitable two people should be the relationship between fish and water, comfortable and natural. For inappropriate relationships, timely stop loss is beneficial to both parties.
3. Keep your bottom line.
In feelings, people who love to use their brains tend to constantly lower their posture and be responsive! Even if the other party's request has violated his own principles, he should force himself to agree for fear of losing him. Understand that people who truly respect you will not constantly break through your bottom line. When he made unreasonable demands, he never considered it from your point of view and never really respected you. So, is your selfless dedication really valuable?
Please stop self-hypnosis.
If you don't contact you actively, you just don't love you: the so-called high cold is just not enough. Don't make any excuses for him.
5. Expand the circle of friends.
After talking about love, the love brain likes to cut off its circle of friends, especially for friends of the opposite sex, and wants to be blacked out to show loyalty. But in this way, his every move will affect all your sensitive nerves, and you will become his shadow. Even if you are in love, you should socialize normally, and friends of the opposite sex should pay attention to their discretion. When the circle is bigger and bigger and the knowledge is more and more, you will gradually lose respect for love.
6. Reject the Heart of the Virgin Mary.
You are not his parents, so there is no need to care about his food, clothing, housing and transportation all the time. Don't think that you are unique and can save him. The probability of the prodigal son turning back is a minority! Love is mutual, and only one party's love is destined to go far.
7. Maintain a sense of boundaries.
No matter how close the relationship is, it also needs a certain sense of border. It is very easy for the love brain to stare at each other all the time and check the posts every few minutes, so that the other person will really feel suffocated. When the other person is busy, it is better to read books, go shopping with friends and go to the gym. Even lovers can't be tied together every day.
8. Watch less brainless soap operas.
There is no intention to criticize romantic dramas here, but for the love brain, watching too much often leads to a sense of unnecessary gap. It doesn't matter if I take a look, just to distinguish drama from reality, more time should be spent on improving myself.
Knock on the sentences that wake up the brain of love.
1. All sudden departures are well-thought-out choices.
2. You should be attracted by what you look like in your life, not what you look like on social software.
You should get strength and happiness from liking, instead of spending all your strength and happiness on liking.
I don't want to fall in love = I don't want to fall in love with you.
5. All the high cold shows that you don't like it enough.
No matter who left you, please don't forget that you lived alone before he came.
7. The more you worry about something, the more you will be controlled by it.
8. It's all dispensable.
When you are not sure whether he likes you or not, he just doesn't like you.
10. Don't wait, he knows everything except that he doesn't love you.
1 1. People who really miss you will find you in thousands of ways.
12. Marriage is not that one family helps another family, but that two families help a new family.
13. Love is not a reason to stay, but to allow him to come and go.
14. The answer doesn't matter, but someone has already answered it.
15. "Like" can be felt. If you don't feel it, you just don't.
16. When he chooses someone else, in his heart, you don't care anymore.
17. Talk to death on purpose, because I don't want to talk to you anymore.
18. It's yours and can't run away; Not yours. You can't have it.
19. Love may be late, but it will never be absent.
20. May you stay up all night and be yourself.
The root of all the love of thinking is actually not paying enough attention to yourself. What do you really need inside? Is to be yourself. Grow up slowly and get the sense of accomplishment you really need. When your heart is strong, you don't have to go out to get energy. Naturally, it will not become a "love brain"!