1, when I was in college:
Poor woman: I made 50 dollars by distributing leaflets yesterday. Save thirty dollars, and twenty dollars to buy lotion that the grocery store has been reluctant to buy for a long time.
Rich woman: Last month's 2000 yuan manuscript fee arrived. Treat yourself to a delicious ~ ~ ~ literature book, big coffee class, fitness card and beauty card first, and buy them at buy buy. Invite Li Jie to dinner again. She taught me a lot of skills.
Poor women focus on saving money, while rich women focus on making money. Poor women spend less, while rich women spend more.
2. When looking for an object:
Poor woman: As long as he is honest, he can support me and be filial to his parents. I'd better take care of my family, earn more money, and let me be a housewife and take care of my children. Life, plain is true.
Rich woman: personality, education and ability. Three views fit. There is one aspect that I particularly appreciate, which is also the most important. In terms of materials, we will work together in the future.
Poor women just want to be happy in marriage, and rich women get married because they meet someone they love very much.
3 After marriage:
Poor woman: busy with the children, busy cleaning the house, and quarreling with her mother-in-law. He plays around every day, saying that I am idle and dislike my ugliness. My life is too bitter.
Rich woman: Leave the children with her mother-in-law's nanny and go on holiday with her husband after two years of hard work. Fortunately, I have been practicing yoga, shooting beautiful beaches and sending friends to my husband's face ~
Poor women lament, rich women enjoy life.
4. Educate children:
Poor woman: "Son, we can't afford a piano. It's fun to jump on the leather rope. "
"Study hard, get a doctorate in the future and be a civil servant or teacher."
"Don't learn from your father in the future, you will be timid and worthless all your life."
Rich woman: "Does the baby like dancing? After that, mom learns to sing and you learn to dance. Shall we perform together? "
"Baby, reading is the ladder for you to know the world."
"Look, baby, your father is a very nice person."
Under the influence of family, the babies have all grown up. Their different modes of thinking and family cultivation make them basically live the same life as their mothers.
You might say that many people have changed their fate. But do you know how much pain this counterattack will bear in life? Do you want your child to live a relaxed and happy life, or do you want him to eat until the end and strive for that one percent possibility?
If you are not satisfied with your present life, pin your hopes on your children. Then please rest assured that her future is the same as yours now.