Human weakness Chapter 13 * * *:
Chapter 1 Ignorance-the biggest ignorance in the world
Chapter 2 Jealousy-If an arrow wants to be long, it will break someone else's arrow.
Chapter III Blind obedience-Wind direction is the direction
The fourth chapter is lazy-waiting for the pie to fall from the sky
Chapter V Greed-Endless Desire for the Sea
Chapter VI Tragedy-Miser
Chapter VII Inferiority-Everything is inferior to others.
Chapter 8 Dependence-Thinking about the Meaning of Life
Chapter 9 vanity-for face, even if debt is high.
Chapter 10 hypocrisy-saying and doing are two different things.
Chapter 11 Prejudice-Thieves are all poor.
Chapter 12 Escape-Escape from punishment is an instinct.
Chapter 13 Luck-Speculation
A wise man is well aware of his own shortcomings, but a stupid man is not self-aware.
A wise man never loses anything as long as he knows himself. -Nietzsche
Only by knowing yourself correctly can we be confident and keep the destination of life from getting lost. Only by knowing yourself correctly can we determine the goal of life. Only when you have the right goal in life, and you are full of self-confidence and work hard for it all your life, can you have no regrets in this life.
Knowing your own ignorance is the threshold to the temple of wisdom. -Check? charles haddon spurgeon
Not knowing yourself also includes not being able to evaluate your ability correctly, feeling sure, or always feeling that you can do something well.
It is always a wise choice to do what you can.
It is not difficult to realize the wrong ambition of others, but it is difficult to realize your own wrong ambition, which requires a lot of reason. -Goethe
Don't point out other people's mistakes with the same mistakes as others.
The most important thing in this world, no matter from which angle, is to know yourself thoroughly. -Montaigne
Only by knowing yourself objectively, knowing your own strengths and weaknesses, and knowing your own abilities and weaknesses, can you explore your own potential and surpass yourself.
"Patrol three times a day", reflect on what you have done, think about it, understand your strengths and weaknesses, and constantly correct yourself.
Jealousy means that you are dissatisfied with yourself and jealous of others. Dissatisfaction with oneself is the beginning of envy of others.
People who are jealous can't achieve great things by themselves, but they try their best to underestimate the greatness of others and belittle their greatness to make them consistent with themselves. -Hegel
The Excellence of others has not hindered your progress, on the contrary, it may bring you unprecedented motivation. In fact, a person who is really immersed in his own career has no time to envy others.
Forget about jealousy, and your mind will gradually widen.
A despicable person can't compare with other people's morality, so he will try his best to slander that person. A jealous villain slanders the advantages of others behind their backs, and when it comes to that person, he will be speechless. Sadie
Jealousy often comes from comparing with others.
The correct way to treat others' advantages is not to let others find themselves envious of him, because this will make them look inferior to others, so you should secretly make up your mind to catch up with or even surpass them.
Hatred is positive unhappiness, and jealousy is negative unhappiness. So it is not surprising that jealousy can easily turn into hatred. -Goethe
Hatred is often a manifestation of a person's lack of talent and will. Voltaire said, "People who lack talent and will are the most likely to be jealous."
We can use the positive role of jealousy to motivate ourselves to keep making progress, but we must not be controlled by jealousy and have a deformed competitive mentality.
Go deep into your heart and find that all the miracles are in yourself. bacon
You should live to enrich yourself, not cater to others. Everyone should stick to his own way and not be bound by other people's opinions. We can't change other people's opinions, only ourselves.
If you don't have confidence, it's really bad! If you don't believe in yourself or doubt yourself, it's even worse. -Chekhov
Following the trend and following the crowd is a common problem and habit of human beings, a patent for lazy people, and a negative ghost that is hard to detect in our hearts. Only by making up your mind can you change it.
It is sad to follow blindly, but there is an even sadder intangible factor behind this sadness, that is, the inner instability of people.
Truth is often in the hands of a few people, and everyone thinks that what is right is not necessarily right. Before following the trend, make a rational judgment to ensure that your life will not be damaged.
Believe in yourself first, and others will believe you. -Turgenev
If you want to achieve something in life and career, you must get rid of the bad habit of blindly following others, be good at thinking with your own mind and make the right life choices.
Laziness is a very expensive luxury. Once paid off, it can't be repaid. Laziness moves so slowly that poverty will soon catch up with it.
Once talent is dominated by laziness, nothing can be done. -krylov
Laziness is a bad habit of human beings. In order to achieve something, we must fight against it and go beyond this bad habit. This kind of resistance and transcendence is always forced by some external forces at first, and then gradually internalized into a constant spirit and behavior habit.
A person who enters a state of hard work will not be lazy for a long time. Therefore, the most direct and effective way to overcome laziness is to get busy.
Laziness is punished not only for its own failure, but also for the success of others. Mill? Renard
Inertia is often a personality factor that many people waste time and do nothing. Laziness is concentrated in procrastination, that is to say, what can be done is not finished immediately, and today is put off until tomorrow, and tomorrow is put off until the day after tomorrow. As a result, not much was done, but the good years passed away in this endless delay.
If one wants to control laziness, diligence is the only way.
The reason of inertia is that I want to escape from difficult things, want to be comfortable, be afraid of suffering, and be habitual. Once people avoid hard work for a long time, they will form habits and habits will develop into bad personality tendencies.
Lazy people can't achieve great things, because lazy people always covet comfort and are afraid when they encounter a little risk. In addition, these people still lack the spirit of hard work and always have luck.
Laziness is the enemy of study, work and life.
Genius is the infinite ability to work hard. -Carlisle
The same is "no time". Do you have no time to work hard for your dreams or do things other than your dreams?
After a hard day, you can have a good sleep; If you work hard all your life, you can sleep happily. -At most? Sparrows
External factors such as talent, environment, opportunity and knowledge are important for a person's development and growth, but what is more important is his own diligence and hard work. Success depends not only on ability and wisdom, but also on everyone's tireless hard work.
In the face of desire, it is not advisable to indulge excessively, but it is also wrong to completely deny your own desire. Maybe what we really want is not to get rid of desire, but to get rid of the troubles, anxiety and pain caused by greed.
Greed is a hell that will bring infinite pain to people. It exhausts people's energy in trying to meet their needs, but it doesn't bring people satisfaction. -Fromm
Material is the foundation of life, and the pursuit of material is natural. However, once a person falls into the trap of greed, he is just like rolling in the deep.
Once a person becomes a slave to desire, he will never be free. -Check? Gogidi
Desire, insatiable desire, on the one hand, is the driving force for people to pursue unremittingly, which has achieved the motto that man struggles upwards and water flows downwards; On the other hand, it also shows the human weakness of "there are thousands of fields, and when the emperor wants to live forever" and "people are not enough to swallow elephants".
In fact, desire is not the root of all evil, it can not only make people fall, but also be the ladder of human progress. The most important thing is to achieve a balance between desire and hope.
People finally like their own desires, not what they want! -Nietzsche
In life, we must reduce our desires and know how to give up. Only in this way can we get rid of greed and gain inner peace.
Don't try to argue with temptation, avoid it and stay away from it. It is not important to be unmoved by temptation. The important thing is to shake your conscience for temptation. -Montesquieu
All stingy people are selfish and greedy.
If you regard money as God, it will torture you like the devil. Fielding
Wealth leads to greed more than greed leads to wealth. -English proverb
If you lose money, you lose very little; If you lose a friend, you lose a lot; If you lose courage, you lose everything. -Goethe
Mean as hell. The more you swallow, the more you want to swallow. -Augustine
It is difficult for a person with inferiority to feel happy and happy, and inferiority will "torture" people, which is the greatest suppression of excitement, optimism and cheerfulness.
The greatest pride and the greatest inferiority both show that the mind is the most fragile. -Spinoza
If a person feels inferior, he will not only dare to have lofty goals, but will never excel.
Be confident and go all out-if you have this idea, you can succeed in anything in nine cases out of ten. -Wilson
People's value is not impaired by disability. From the perspective of personality, all people are equal. No need for pity, no need for sympathy, no contempt, no contempt, no inferiority, no inferiority.
Although failure is the antonym of pride, it is actually the closest to pride. -Spinoza
When a person has a sense of inferiority, it often leads to some very bad negative behaviors, such as unwillingness to communicate with others and lack of team spirit; Fear of competition and resignation; Irritable and unfriendly rude behavior; Escape from reality, depression, and so on. All these results can only be futile self-harm and torture of "inner"; For "outside", people will think you are weak and even humble.
"By default, I am incompetent, which is undoubtedly creating opportunities for failure."
Confidence in yourself is the first step on the road to success. -Einstein
Only those who dare to think, dare to do, dare to face the reality and are not afraid of setbacks can have a successful career and be truly powerful.
Many people fall into a fallacy that they will always benefit from the constant help of others, but they don't know that blindly relying on others will only lead to cowardice. If a person depends on others, he will never be strong and creative.
There are not enough people to rely on, you can only survive on your own. -Napoleon
Either be independent, or you can only bury your ambitions and be an ordinary person all your life.
Letting others exercise for us in the gym will never enhance our muscle strength; Create a superior environment for children, so that they can never be independent and become real winners without hard work.
People should live on their own, but also on their own.
Although we can grow up under the protection of our parents and relatives, we can rely on our brothers and friends, and we can get happiness by making friends, in any case, in the final analysis, people still have to rely on themselves. -Goethe.
When fate hands you a sour lemon, try to make it into sweet lemon juice. Hugo
In order to train the young lion to be self-reliant and self-reliant, the lioness deliberately pushed it into the deep valley, making it struggle to survive in a difficult situation.
The ups and downs of real life can only be experienced and felt by yourself, and no one can provide you with eternal shade. You should grasp the direction of progress, grasp the goal, and let the goal shine like a lighthouse in the distance; You should think independently, have your own opinions and know how to solve problems by yourself. You shouldn't believe in any savior, immortal or emperor. Your personality, your actions and everything you have are the products of your own actions, and you can't change them by other things.
Vanity urges people to wear clothes that are completely different from their original appearance in order to win the approval or recognition of others.
A little vanity, like many loves, is enough to make people pretentious. -Gide
Psychologists believe that vanity is an excessive expression of self-esteem, and it is an abnormal social emotion to gain honor and attract widespread attention. Vanity is a common mentality, because vanity is related to self-esteem. Everyone has self-esteem. When self-esteem is damaged or excessive, vanity may arise.
People with vanity often have deep psychological defects such as inferiority complex and guilt. Vanity is just a kind of compensation. They try their best to pursue glitz to cover up their psychological defects.
Even if you are in a high position and enjoy all the splendor, as long as you have ostentation and extravagance, you will not feel real happiness. Daisaku Ikeda
Vanity is despised by wise men, admired by fools, worshipped by flatterers and enslaved by one's own vanity. bacon
Hypocrisy encourages people to hide their sins with the appearance of virtue, thus avoiding the accusations of others.
Hypocrisy likes to hide in the noblest thoughts. It never tries to break away from thinking, because thinking can make it gain a noble reputation without blowing away the dust. Edmund? fool
Aphids eat grass, rust eats iron, and hypocrisy eats soul. -Russian proverb
Hypocrisy means truthfulness, dishonesty and fraud. Hypocrisy is duplicity, duplicity, duplicity.
Hypocrisy will make you tired, because you have to weave all kinds of lies for yourself every day; Hypocrisy will make you very tired, because you have to smile at those unpleasant things every day; Hypocrisy will confuse you, because you don't know if others are hypocritical, and you don't know if they can believe what they say. In short, hypocrisy is the ugliest weakness of human nature. Like a bug in the dark, it slowly devours people's souls and takes away people's happiness and happiness.
Many things in this world, people are saved not because of loyalty, but because of lack of loyalty. Benjamin? Franklin
Don't lose prestige in life and trust in making friends. This is the law of communication between friends.
Hypocrisy cannot create anything, because hypocrisy itself is nothing. -Geranium
Many people don't know themselves, because people always focus on others and can't see their own problems.
Prejudice is a pre-existing view of people, things or ideas that people agree or disagree with. This original view has become a restraining force in people's minds. Because of its existence, people can't see or notice anything except a simple view. Ding? Morse code
The first cause effect is an important term in communicative psychology. It refers to the impression people leave in the first communication, which forms and occupies a dominant position in the other person's mind.
People's first impressions are hard to change. A good first impression will bring a lot of convenience for future interpersonal communication and work status. So when you are in contact with people, you must plan your first impression.
Misunderstanding and laziness are probably worse than doing evil and cheating. -Soviet proverb
A wise man's eyes are sharp, and he looks at people accurately and appropriately.
If you think without prejudice, if you think about the general nature of these standards, you can come to a completely different conclusion. Because all the rules are practical. Bradley
"I hope others can tolerate my shortcomings, so I often tolerate others' shortcomings. "
The first condition of success is true modesty. I am willing to give up all my preconceptions about myself as long as I see that they conflict with the truth. Spencer
First, pay attention to "projection tendency".
The phenomenon of attaching some psychological characteristics of oneself to the other person, that is, "projection tendency"
Second, pay attention to the "first impression".
Because the first impression is preconceived, it is often profound. It is very important to treat the first impression calmly and objectively, and be prepared to reform or even deny it.
Third, pay attention to "stereotype".
Stereotype is the so-called classification, which divides people into different categories according to the expected types, then labels them and follows the picture.
Fourth, avoid "judging people by their appearances".
Fifth, avoid "circular confirmation".
When you don't like a person and are prejudiced against a person, you should first rationally examine whether your attitude and behavior are influenced by prejudice and consciously walk out of the maze of prejudice.
Escaping punishment is an instinct of human beings. Most people will choose advantages and avoid disadvantages in the choice of "favorable" and "unfavorable" situations.
Escape is the destruction of will and the betrayal of faith. anonymous
When we are wrong, we should admit it quickly and enthusiastically.
If you make a mistake at work, you should report your mistake to your boss immediately, so of course you may be scolded, but your boss will think you are an honest person, and may value you more in the future, and you will get much more than you lose.
Carnegie told us that even fools will defend their mistakes, but those who can admit their mistakes will gain respect from others and give people a sense of nobility and integrity.
Life is linked with lofty responsibility. -Chernihovsky
Escape is the most common, typical and hidden weakness in human nature. In fact, each of us is used to escaping, but escaping is a negative practice, which in itself represents a kind of cowardice.
People with conscience are responsible and enterprising. -Suhomlinski
People who have evasive thoughts also tend to evade importance, because evading importance is actually a manifestation of evading responsibility and punishment. When difficulties come, when they are in deep trouble, instead of trying to face and meet them, they are bent on finding an excuse, a reason to forgive themselves, and then let themselves "bravely" assume those trivial and insignificant responsibilities.
People who avoid the important and neglect the important often have two manifestations: one is to avoid the important and neglect the important when doing things, and such people choose things that are easy to do and have little responsibility no matter what they do; The other is to avoid the important and avoid the light when dealing with problems. This kind of person always finds out various reasons when facing problems.
Avoiding the important will make you lose a very important "opportunity" in your life. If you like to avoid important things, then you won't choose opportunities that exist in adventure. At this time, a chance of success that should have belonged to you slipped away from your eyes.
If you avoid important things for a long time, your mind will become very fragile. You always choose the lighter one to bear, and you can't stand the baptism of life. Then, one day, when you have to face a storm warning, you will only die and have no choice.
Any achievement I have enjoyed is entirely due to my high sense of responsibility for my customers and work. leo burnett
Cowardly people must cultivate and establish a sense of responsibility, so that they can bravely take responsibility and do what they want, otherwise they will only be timid and never walk out of the darkness. No matter what problems you encounter, even in the face of failure, don't lose heart, face them bravely and try to deal with them with a positive attitude. Once the problem is solved, self-confidence will also increase.
Once speculation is a fluke, twice it can be a coincidence, and three times it becomes a trend. Luck is just a temporary gift that falls into your hands. You have to pay it back sooner or later, life can't be possessed.
There is no such thing as luck, and the most accidental accident seems inevitable. -Einstein
Luck psychology refers to a kind of psychology that people don't abide by the objective laws of the development of things and place their hopes for success on external forces and opportunities with a subjective attitude.
Luck hinders personal growth and progress. If a person is lucky, he will relax his requirements, will not have a high degree of professionalism, and will not really accumulate knowledge and talents, just thinking about how to be opportunistic.
To abandon this unrealistic fantasy, the key is to rely on real skills to eat and maintain a positive and enterprising spirit. It is necessary to establish a high sense of professionalism and responsibility, love and respect their posts, and avoid negligence; We must complete the work with good quality and quantity and adhere to high standards.
Opportunism can only come to a dead end. anonymous
Luck is indispensable. Once people can't control their dependence on luck, they will have an impulse to rely heavily on luck, which will make things that go against normal expand at a faster speed and lead to disasters.
Opportunism always makes people lazy. anonymous
Luck does not mean strength.
JPMorgan Chase said, "You can't take part in gambling. If you lose money, you will want to get it back. " If you win some money, you will want to earn more. In the end, you will become a penniless person. "
Don't try to achieve a better life without pain. Even the smallest thing, we must make proper efforts to succeed. If you have this awareness, even if you don't get unexpected wealth, you will realize spiritual wealth and freedom, which is enough for you to realize a valuable life.
Greed will destroy people's spiritual purity, because unfortunately, the more you get, the more greedy you are, and you really always feel unable to satisfy yourself. Angel
The original meaning of "greed" refers to the love of money, the original meaning of "greed" refers to the love of food, and "greed" refers to the insatiable greed for a certain goal, which is not commensurate with one's actual situation.