1. What should men do if they encounter sexual harassment?
Because of social tradition, men are thought to be "earned" by sexual harassment, and when men ask for help from others, they are often teased and laughed at. Therefore, many men deal with sexual harassment in a forbearing way, and are willing to come forward and ask for help when sexual harassment is serious to life.
Experts pointed out that there was a case of a male fitness instructor. At first, female students pretended to be the girlfriend of the fitness instructor in class, and even asked the instructor to take herself to see her in-laws. Later, they often told their classmates that they were the coach's wife. This kind of harassment lasted for many years, but the colleagues and officers of the fitness instructor thought it was "no need to worry" and refused to deal with it.
After the fitness coach got married and had children, the harassed female students became more and more intense, standing on the first floor of the coach's house to monitor, which made the male fitness coach feel very scared. The harassed fitness instructor has been reluctant to come forward for help until now.
Another male teacher who works in a girls' school is admired by many female students. When asking questions, lesbians learn to lean on the male teacher and even take off his clothes. Although the male teacher feels very uncomfortable, he has been afraid to ask for help. Instead, relevant groups are invited to give lectures on sexual harassment in schools, hoping to stop the harassment of female students.
2. Women's groups and men become weak.
According to expert analysis, women's sexual harassment of men is mostly excessive pursuit, which also causes great fear to men. Sexual harassment often has much to do with power. When you are in a group with a majority of women, men will become weak. But when men are sexually harassed, they are easily identified as "cheap" by the public.
In addition, men are rarely taught to protect their physical boundaries since childhood, so when they encounter sexual harassment, they often question whether they are too sensitive; Coupled with stereotypes, many men usually have no social support even if they tell their relatives and friends about sexual harassment, which makes the parties afraid to ask for help or report, fearing that it will damage their masculinity. The number of men who are actually sexually harassed should be quite amazing.
3. Sexual harassment is gender neutral.
Sexual harassment cases are gender-neutral. Even if men are bigger than women, they should have confidence in the uncomfortable feeling when they are sexually harassed. In addition, not only touching and waiting for a line constitutes sexual harassment, even if it is stared at for a long time or pursued excessively by others, as long as the parties feel uncomfortable, it is sexual harassment.
4. How do men face sexual harassment?
1, do nothing: no matter how seduced or threatened a woman is, she will not be moved.
2, pretend to be crazy and sell silly: you must really understand the style and turn a blind eye to her eyes, red lips and breasts.
3, drive the tiger to swallow the wolf: once you find yourself the object of female harassment, you should display your efforts in time and shirk your responsibilities.
Smith: Your female manager will harass you and let her know that you often talk to your female president alone.
5. Deal with a man as he deals with you: If a woman harasses you, you will actively harass that woman.
6. Risk: You can publicly disclose the fact of your impotence, or help you issue a medical test report that you have been infected with sexually transmitted diseases through a friend who works in a hospital.
7. Burn your bridges: In the face of women's harassment, face up to the dripping saliva, you show righteous words, seriously criticize and condemn women, and even turn your face and deny people.
8. Walking is the best plan: the last resort. You have to pack your bags, pick up your tail, put on sunglasses, cover your head with your hands, and run away at a slow pace.
9. Don't react too strongly to sexual harassment, especially don't use such fierce words, so as not to annoy the other party and cause the other party's attack and violence. The attitude of refusal must be clear, but it must be very calm and calm.
10, don't despise this kind of thing, or ignore it. If you just give up or run away, you can't solve any problems. The harasser will also think that you acquiesced in his words and deeds, and you are silently accepting it. If this continues, the consequences will be more serious and the degree of injury will be greater.