I. Anti-humanity
The distortion of human nature is that the more domineering and emboldened you are, the more people respect you. The more polite and kind you are, the less people will take you seriously.
Second, thankless.
You can be enthusiastic, but don't be diligent. You can be kind, but you should also be sharp-edged and habitually please. After a long time, others take everything for granted.
Third, I'm not in the mood.
Whether you are wronged or under great pressure, don't go around looking for someone to talk to. No one will really sympathize with you. Calm down and do what you have to do. Your heart can be broken, but your hand can't stop.
Fourth, know how to shut up.
Different positions, less words are more valuable, different cognition, no dispute, no three views, waste of breath, different ways, no common goal.
Fifth, there is a bottom line.
A bottom line is a principle. A gentleman who knows how to choose and advance and retreat will not be influenced by others.
6. Dare to refuse
Don't want to borrow money, refuse, don't want to socialize, refuse, don't like each other, refuse, refuse this matter, the simpler the more simply, the better for both sides.
Seven, not anxious
Worry about the present and uncertainty about the future are the sources of anxiety, while ruthless people have clear goals, know what they want, how to fight for it, and never spend time on internal friction.
Eight, very self-disciplined
Go to bed early and get up early, keep fit, and don't crave milk tea, hot pot, beer and fried chicken. I know very well that health is the capital of the revolution, and I will always be full of energy and vitality.
Nine, decisive enough
I can endure things, but I will be ruthless, I will be resolute, and I will always be emperor with Buddha's heart.
Don't delay
Really never delay with others, just do it, act immediately within 5 minutes, finish first, then improve, don't be a giant in thought and a dwarf in action.