"I know a boy who is keen on chatting, but he just doesn't ask me out. What does he want? "

"The last time I saw a boy, it was very good. He sent me home after supper at seven o'clock. Doesn't he like me? "

"I hinted at chasing my boy several times, but he just didn't confess. Does he like me or not? "

"Does he just want to tease me and don't want to make friends with me seriously?"

This is a message from a girl. A boy broke into their world and suddenly collapsed when he should have upgraded his relationship. Girls are puzzled. Girls who dare to ask these questions are already very courageous. They think that boys are playing hard to get, but the answer is simple.

He was at a loss.

He doesn't know what to do. It is an instinctive reaction for boys to pursue girls. He knows the way forward, but he doesn't know how to go, and he is afraid of going the wrong way. They are completely white emotionally, and there will be no routine of playing hard to get. By the time I finished smoking my last joint, I was exhausted.

Most girls are still introverted and like to think about things. Many times, they think they are not interested in themselves and simply give up their relationship with him.

It's easy for boys to stand out from the crowd if they want to clear up the idea of chasing girls and don't force others.

This is the most difficult stage for boys. They all know that they should talk to girls more, but they are often confused about how far they talk and what purpose they want to achieve.

The initial chat is to exchange information with each other, and you will feel safe if you know each other better. But the purpose is to meet.

The process is as follows: chatting (exchanging information)-pleasant communication (clothing, food, shelter and play)-tentative invitation (judging girls' thoughts)-pleasant communication (clothing, shelter and play)-real invitation (playing together)-dating.

Chatting for a long time and talking about many topics may not have a good result, and girls are more likely to get bored. When the girls respond well, they should immediately switch from the topic of information exchange to the topic of real life, such as food, clothing, housing and play, because these topics are convenient for invitations.

For example:

Man: You seem to live far away from me.

Woman: Nothing. It's on XX Road.

M: There seem to be many special snacks over there.

W: Well, there are some.

Man: Hey, which one did you post in a circle of friends last time?

Female: XX.

M: Try it sometime. My treat. We also have some delicious food here ... (tentative invitation)

The girl agreed, which means that she doesn't reject meeting you in her heart, and she feels safe enough. When you get the desired result, you can end the chat.

After that, don't talk about dating directly, keep the frequency of chatting occasionally, and then make a specific date with the girl when she reacts well.

An hour's chat is not as good as a ten-minute phone call, and an hour's phone call is not as good as a ten-minute meeting. We can feel that the efficiency of face-to-face communication is far greater than that of mobile phone communication, which is why most business people prefer to talk face-to-face rather than send WeChat without saying a word.

That's why the girl you chatted online for half a year was abducted by a boy who only met once.

After dating girls, many boys still habitually communicate with girls through chatting, only to find that there are fewer and fewer topics and they gradually become speechless.

The mistake that is easy to make at this turning point is that you have a better communication method, but you are far away. After dating, I entered the girl's real life. At this time, I just need to continue dating her and create the same memories, which is becoming more and more important in her world.

Chatting is just a helpless move before there is no way to date girls.

Therefore, we should recognize the depth of the relationship and not get twice the result with half the effort.

In the past, girls were worried about asking boys for birthright, but now boys are eager to ask for nominal relationships.

Confirming this nominal relationship seems to give boys a greater sense of security, so they screamed and rushed to the girls to confess.

There is a saying that you can date if you can, kiss if you can hold hands, and take it home if you can take it home. What is so white? That's not a chance for girls to turn you down.

For example, my sister blushes beside you. You approach her and she slowly closes her eyes, but you ask, "May I kiss you?" My sister directly promised not to be reserved, but she didn't mean to, and she was embarrassed in an instant. The atmosphere is gone.

Don't be in such a hurry to get a birthright, because this birthright won't change your real relationship. Even if she agreed before taking the stage, she was reluctant and extremely unstable. At the stage, if you don't confess, the two are also deeply affectionate.

If you are really at a loss at a certain stage, you might as well continue dating her and build more memories, which will not only make your relationship more stable, but also help you learn the skills of getting along with girls in reality.