Never make excuses for others. Li Xueqin, 24, weighs about 120 Jin, which is not unbearable for a boy, but in the face of this situation, she subconsciously thinks it is her own reason. In real life, many people are faced with this situation, which may be caused by habitual psychology. They are good at wrapping themselves up and think that their reason is that they are too heavy, but they have never thought about whether this boy is too weak. We should never make ourselves feel inferior because of others.
This sentence fully proves that girls should be beautiful for themselves. Girls want to be beautiful in order to appreciate themselves and feel comfortable in live high, not just for the eyes of others. So sometimes, as long as you are enjoying your current state healthily, you don't need to care too much about the outside world's views. If one day you want to change your lifestyle, you can change it as you want. Don't decide to change yourself because of other people's eyes and make your life miserable.
Accept yourself, beauty is diversified. Finally, through this story of Li Xueqin, I want to tell all the girls that beauty is diversified. We should be brave enough to accept ourselves, instead of turning ourselves into beautiful women in the traditional sense. Everyone's existence is meaningful. Some malicious views from outside have no meaning except to make us suffer, so we just ignore them.
I hope that every girl who has had the same experience can reconcile with herself. There is nothing wrong with you. Don't lose yourself because of others.