The woman is dressed in a red suit, and the gas field is fully open. When we face life, there are always countless things, but no matter how much pressure life gives you, we still have to strive for the most important thing in our hearts.
When you face life with brand-new preparations and make full preparations, life will definitely make you strategize.
Throughout the East and the West, those successful women or men, without exception, are very hardworking and self-disciplined. Without exception, they can control their desires and will not lose some opportunities because of their more personal feelings.
Sometimes it is difficult to strike a good balance between work and life. After work, you can face life, exercise and practice yoga.
Even the heroine in the play will go to the gym to exercise after work, so as to stay online at any time and keep her balance better.
Everyone has different views on glamorous life. Some people think that the money is in place, others think it is a life experience. Malice is reflected in these people!
There is such a person around me. He doesn't wear fancy clothes or beautiful clothes, but he is busy every day! In order to earn money, he traveled almost half of China in one year, met some people, helped some people, gained some money and enriched his experience!
He is the boss of our team. He used to be a sailor with a stable salary and a good social status. Later, I resigned and started a business. Judging from the fixed annual salary of hundreds of thousands, he may have no income for a month. From being cheated to leading a team of nearly 300 people, his income is more than several hundred thousand yuan. He can also travel all over the country to help people. He can add people to sell goods on trains and subways.
Be hard on yourself, and you will gain a completely different self! Now he still doesn't wear famous brands, doesn't have a beautiful house, bakes occasionally, and will leave tomorrow. This kind of life is also glamorous!
From now on, I want to be ruthless. What I do, there is no hope, only pain, that is, ridicule, cruelty, progress, progress
I don't vote, others repay me, I just hope he can remember that they didn't. I'm nothing to them. When you want to use me, help me pay it back. There's no need to make a scene. How miserable they are to me,+10 times! ! ! ! He made a decision to help him go to college and change bank money. There is such a thing, and the money has not been returned to me. He said this in front of everyone, and my mother's stomach exploded. How lucky I am now, people are eating well now, and I am wearing a brand-name loan. Damn it, I'm like a beggar now, so I don't have to hurt myself. I hate my heart. what do you think? For husbands, there are also dogs that look down on the poor and farmers. We didn't even mention your consumption. ? Dogs look down on people. The peasants are United, and their good days are over. Sitting on the tiger with "snake disgusting and poisonous" at the beginning is not unjust, but a demon on earth. Wait a minute. Kindness must be rewarded. If you have enemies, you will pay ten times the price. Originally a crab, now it's blackened …
I watched a Korean drama recently.
The general plot is like this. Gao Huilan (Kim Nam Joo), a prime-time news anchor, tries his best to keep his high position in the face of the threat of the younger generation, but he also gets burned and accidentally becomes a murder suspect. Although their marriage relationship has long existed in name only, Jiang Taixu (Jin-hee Ji), Whelan's husband and lawyer, still does not hesitate to clear Whelan's name. In the layers of mystery surrounding Gao Huilan, what is hidden is the ugly truth, which is also her long-forgotten emotion and truth.
South Korea is also a country that attaches great importance to Confucian tradition and family order. One should be filial to his superiors and kind to his subordinates. However, Gao Huilan gave up having children and seeing his dying mother for the last time-he would rather be unfilial than have a career. In the TV series, Gao Huilan's choice was very painful, but this kind of pain made him finally choose his own career.
South Korea is also a country that attaches great importance to the virtuous and gentle contribution of women to the family. For women, the value and meaning of life is to be a good daughter, wife and mother. Women's social status is also determined by their fathers, husbands and sons. Not just South Korea. In many western fairy tales and our domestic TV series, most female hosts have a very noble and powerful father (king, general, soldier, grandfather, modern boss and president). Even Cinderella's father is not an ordinary farmer but a nobleman. This woman will eventually marry a prince or a Gao Fushuai man like a prince, and live happily ever after, and this fairy tale will be over. Life after marriage, happiness should be happiness, but it is so dull that there is no story. Often when a woman gets married, her life legend is over.
In this play, the heroine has no strong background, and even the past is gloomy that ordinary people have never experienced, so in her future professional life, the heroine has desperate courage.
Personally, I like Gao Huilan very much. I have a firm and persistent goal, and I am desperate for progress. At the same time, I have justice and kindness. I'm just too reserved to express my feelings.
Tian Pujun, the girlfriend of real estate tycoon Wang Shi, said in a variety show:
Subsequently, the on-site instructor Gao immediately responded:
Judge high and low.
-glamorous, it is the feeling that outsiders look at you, or it may be that they feel good about themselves. Face lining, which one do you want?
How hard does a person have to work to get a glamorous life?
You probably have some misunderstanding about "glamorous".
Lv Hou, wife of Emperor Gaozu Liu Bang. Is the monarch's wife glamorous?
Poisoning mother and son and persecuting Mrs. Qi became a cruel punishment of "cutting off hands and feet and destroying people's five senses"+starving Liu You alive+forcing Liu Hui to death. What impressed me most was that Peng Yue, as a general under Liu Bang, was framed for rebellion after his victory. When Lv Hou was in tears, he asked Lv Hou to intercede for him. After Lv Hou agreed, he later said to Liu Bang: Didn't you let the tiger go back to the mountain? Liu Bang then seized Peng Yue and killed him.
Is it cruel? Tough, shiny or not? Shining.
It's a pity that Lv Hou didn't end well.
There are many vicious people in the history of China. Looking through the history books, a few words can be chilly.
It is the viciousness of the ancients in the book, and it is based on the battlefield court struggle and life and death of Jin Goma Railway. Modern society pays attention to civilized competition. If you want to struggle, you must have a posture. If you are ugly, you will suffer in the end.
In your understanding, charm is the ultimate goal, and for this goal, the price is "hard"-this logic is so interesting. What did the former troupe shout when teaching students? If you want to be different in front of others, you will suffer in the future. To put it bluntly, it is to make yourself suffer and hone your skills for the glamorous life goals. When you become a corner, you will be distinguished. It's a good topic. In order to be glamorous, I don't hesitate to be cruel, and I regard hurting others as the currency of successful exchange. ...
Probably in your limited cognitive range, you don't know that there is not only one way to charm in this world.
Wrong attribution leads to wrong orientation. Holding the characteristics of some so-called successful people as the goal of life and thinking that things can be done well with the same characteristics is a routine that many people imitate. But the beauty is not in the skin, and the skin from mechanics has no bone support, and it falls apart just like a painted skin.
Finally, people live a lifetime, and charm is defined by others. The word itself has the meaning of looking good in front of others, and the dimension of definition is locked in the eyes of others, completely disobeying the inner will. Therefore, if you live like this, you will inevitably feel sorry when you are about to drive a crane to the west-you have never lived for yourself to be glamorous.
A person is not tough, and he never knows how big his potential is, let alone what kind of life he will have.
In the TV series The Temptation to Go Home starring Ling He, Lin Pinru is a real and heartless character.
At first, she took good care of her in-laws and husband all day, completely ignoring herself and devoting herself to this family, but in the end, she was betrayed by her husband, who even ignored her life when she drowned.
Fortunately, she survived, which made her see the reality clearly and began to retaliate.
She burned her leg to avoid her husband. In order to overcome her fear, she began to learn to swim. In order to get rid of the shadow of a housewife, she went to learn to dance. In order to make her become a different person, she desperately changed and jumped out of her original self.
He succeeded, and once again intervened in her husband's family as a stranger, just like at the beginning, destroying his marriage, bringing down his family and making them almost bankrupt.
Lin Pinru's malice stems from her hatred for her husband. Her malice changed her from a housewife to a gentle, delicate and radiant professional woman. Her malice not only changed her appearance, but also made her career.
Let her life change from mediocre to radiant. Be hard on yourself and others, achieve what she wants and achieve her glamorous life.
If a person is not cruel, how can he be worthy of everything he has experienced?
My friend was young, born in the countryside, and lost his father when he was a child. Her mother raised her and her two brothers with great pains and tried her best to provide them with education. Her mother has a strange temper and is at odds with her neighbors. She was bullied by her neighbor's children since she was a child, which made her feel inferior.
When she was in high school, her mother was seriously ill and both her brothers worked in other places. She has to take care of her mother while going to school. Sometimes she was depressed and wanted to escape, but she persisted in the end. However, the heavy life made her a little depressed.
After graduating from college, she sold the house in her hometown and took her mother to work in other places. Even though my mother didn't want to leave her hometown and sell her house, she made this decision resolutely because she wanted to bid farewell to the past forever.
She spent all the money from selling her house on reading, learning financial management, language, piano, dancing and flower arranging. ...
She has a full day. Every morning at dawn, she insists on getting up early and running, from 140 kg to 100 kg. It took her three months.
She strives to enrich herself, to change the present situation of her life, and to forget those days that made her miserable.
In the past three years, she used all her strength to step by step to the management of the company, from a rural girl to a strong woman in the workplace.
She said that she had to be strong and say goodbye to the past in order to have a different life. Yes, she did.
Now, she is drinking high-grade coffee, sitting in an elegant office and living a life envied by everyone, but only she knows those days when she was cruel to herself.
There was a cruel woman in history, and this cruel woman was also the only female emperor in China history. She is the famous Wu Zetian.
Everyone knows that Wu Zetian became an emperor, and the degree of her wealth can be imagined, but do you know what cruel things she did in the process of becoming an emperor?
In order to compete for the position of queen, she once personally killed her own daughter who was less than one year old.
At that time, the queen of Li Zhi was the Queen Wang, and the Queen Wang was born in a noble family.
If Wu Zetian wants to be a queen, she must bring down the queen. But Queen Wang is a sensible person and won't do anything shameful. She has nothing for Wu Zetian to catch.
Therefore, Wu Zetian is also very upset about this. She just set the queen up.
It happened that Wu Zetian gave birth to a daughter, and she wanted to use her daughter's death to frame the queen and take her down.
Because Wu Zetian gave birth to a daughter, Queen Wang is going to see her, just like we are visiting relatives today.
Wu Zetian seized this opportunity to frame the queen.
On that day, Queen Wang met her daughter and left. Wu Zetian went to wait for her husband Li Zhi to go to court.
Because Li Zhi likes this daughter very much, the first thing he will do next time is to hug her.
This time, however, he and Wu Zetian came to their daughter and found her cold all over.
Obviously, my daughter has been dead for a long time.
Wu Zetian's first reaction when she saw her daughter's death was to ask who came today.
The maid-in-waiting said that only the king and queen had been here.
Because the queen and Wu Zetian had a holiday, Li Zhi thought it must be the queen. As everyone knows, this was done by Wu Zetian herself. She's just a thief, shouting to catch a thief.
From then on, Li Zhi began to hate the king and queen.
However, there is no evidence that someone else's king and queen killed her. You can't wronged a good man in vain, let alone her queen.
However, it didn't take long for Li Zhi to throw the queen off the stage and put her in the cold.
Wu Zetian became a queen. At this time, for fear of resurgence, Wu Zetian began to hand over power to the Queen and Xiao Shufei. She wanted to kill Li Zhi's two favorite people, or Li Zhi hated herself that day and helped them to the stage, so she was finished.
Li Zhi promised to give the two men to Wu Zetian. As a result, Wu Zetian made the Queen and Xiao Shufei into a madam and soaked them in wine.
You said Wu Zetian was heartless. You know, Queen Wang is the savior of Wu Zetian. Wu Zetian wouldn't have entered the palace if it weren't for the Queen Wang. She has always been a nun in Kanye Temple. It was the Queen Wang who sent her to the palace. Unexpectedly, at last, she turned around.
This is not the most ruthless of Wu Zetian. She is so vicious that she even dares to kill her own son.
Wu Zetian had three sons, the eldest son Li Hong died in front of Li Zhi and Tang Gaozong.
Li Hong's death has nothing to do with Wu Zetian.
Wu Zetian's second son is Li Xian. After the death of his father Tang Gaozong Li Zhi, Li Xian succeeded to the throne.
But when Wu Zetian was in power in Li Zhi, she became accustomed to it. Therefore, after her son Li Xian became emperor, she remained in power.
This made Li Xian very unhappy, and Li Xian was even more unhappy with Wu Zetian, so Wu Zetian simply found his own veteran, and then listed the charges of Emperor Li Xian.
She wants to execute Li Xian. Finally, she thought of the mutual affection between mother and son. Wu Zetian chose to abolish Li Xian's throne, then exiled the army and went to the northwest to pick up rubbish. After Li Xian was abolished, only Li Xianlai, the third son of Wu Zetian, succeeded to the throne.
However, Li Xian knew that his mother wouldn't let him be emperor, so he stood aside and said that he could be Chu Jun.
The throne of Datang was usurped by Wu Zetian.
Of course, when Wu Zetian became emperor, she didn't guard against her son Li Xian. She once wanted to pass the throne to her nephew, not her son, in a hundred years.
Do you think such a woman is cruel, so Wu Zetian's glamorous life is earned by her own cruelty? Can you do it if you want?
Tell a story about a big coffee I know. Her name is Sister Zhang, and she is an entrepreneur who is doing well in the field of knowledge at present. She is not only beautiful, but also successful in her career. I won't talk about the specific achievements and business. I mainly talk about how she did it from scratch.
1. Find your starting point. Even if Ma Yun founded a big enterprise like Alibaba, he should take the first step, that is, establish a website first. Similarly, everyone, no matter how glamorous, must have a first foothold.
And Zhang's foothold is "English". When she was in college, she practiced English for three hours in the Woods every morning. No matter how low the temperature is, it was 1000 days.
Many people want to learn English, especially oral English, but they don't stick to it. In fact, according to my experience and the experience of many successful people, a person who has passed CET-4 and CET-6 can achieve basically barrier-free oral communication as long as he insists on speaking and reading English for four hours every day for four months, 120 days.
To put it bluntly, the essence is to expose yourself to the English environment for a long time. Speaking English for 500 hours will basically help you to become fluent in spoken English, just like Alina Zhang.
2. Be hard on yourself. I heard that Meng Jie used to practice oral English outside when the outdoor temperature was about minus 10 degrees in winter. As a result, after returning to the study room, she warmed up for 2 hours before she recovered.
It means "almost froze to death" I can't do this, but I have experienced this cold that can "freeze" you to death. It's a cold wind that you can't stop with no matter how thick clothes you wear. It can penetrate your bones and make you have nowhere to run. Four words "Life is worse than death".
I have only experienced it once, but Alina Zhang has experienced it many times, at least a dozen times, dozens of times, in the Grove practice of 1000 days. This is to be hard enough on yourself, and only hard enough can he be good enough.
Therefore, the glamorous appearance of the city, especially many successful women, are not only beautiful but also successful in their careers. Their male compatriots are ashamed, but what they have experienced is a painful process of hitting the nail on the head.
I am a thousand cities, that is, I want to read 1000 books (I have read 640 books) and walk through 1000 cities. WeChat official account: 1000 cities are books.
Wu Qi, a famous Warring States player, was a cruel man, cruel not only to others, but also to himself.
1. Young Wuqi even killed 30 fellow villagers for slander.
Wuqi is a rich second generation, and his family was well-off when he was young. However, Wuqi is also a black sheep. He studied abroad all the year round and lost all his father's business. His fellow villagers laughed at him. At this time, Wuqi launched a malicious attack and killed more than 30 villagers who laughed at him. This kind of play is not inferior to any Warring States chivalrous man. Is it cruel? Compared with Han Xin, who endured humiliation and leg lifts, Wuqi laid hands on him with a malicious heart.
Wu Qi didn't go home to attend his mother's funeral for studying.
In order to learn the way of the world, Wu Qi ran to Shandong. Not long after, Wuqi's mother died, but Wuqi didn't go home to attend the funeral because he didn't learn Taoism. Even his teacher couldn't stand it, so he broke off his mentoring relationship. Is Wuqi heartless?
Wuqi killed his wife in order to expand his ambition.
Wuqi left Ceng Zi, began to study the art of war, and sought a high position among the kings of Lu. However, the king of Lu doubted Wuqi's loyalty, because Wuqi's wife came from Qi, the enemy of Lu, so Wuqi killed his wife in order to gain the trust of Lu. Is it cruel? In order to be reused in Lu, he even used his wife's head as a warlord Sadly, however, even if Wu Qi was cruel and even killed his wife, he did not win the trust of Lu, and finally he had to go to Wei.
In order to win the morale of the army, Wu Qi sucked pus for the soldiers.
Wuqi sucking gangrene is a particularly famous story in history. It means that one of Wuqi's soldiers has gangrene, that is, a sore on his leg. As the commander-in-chief, Wu Qi condescended to suck pus for Xiaobing, but when Xiaobing's mother heard about it, she burst into tears. Others said, why are you crying? General sucks pus for your son. You should be happy, but Batman's mother said that the general also sucked pus for his father.
The mother and the father and son are sad enough, but through this allusion, we can also see that Wuqi is really cruel to himself. Wu Qi, as a general, condescended to treat diseases in order to win the morale of the army, but how many famous soldiers can endure nausea and suck pus for soldiers' wounds throughout the ages? Do you think, if it were you, would you bravely suck pus for a stranger? If it were your relatives and friends, how long would you hesitate to be ruthless?
Wu Qi established Wei Wuzu, which was very famous during the Warring States Period. "Wei died in degrees, one of the three genera, crossbow twelve stones, negative vector fifty, with a sword. He won three days' grain and became a hundred miles in a day. The restoration of the pilot project is beneficial to Qitian Weiwu ancestral home. "
Wuqi won a brilliant life by his ferocity, which not only made him a famous historical figure, but also made Wei, one of the three Jin Dynasties, the most powerful vassal state in the early Warring States. Wei Wuzu, founded by him, was also the first regular army in the Warring States period. Wherever he goes, he becomes strong. He became powerful in Wei, Wei and Chu, and his great ambition was finally realized. Before the Liu incident in Minnesota, the marriage between milk tea and Liu went a long way, but after the incident broke out, the charm disappeared and Liu's image suddenly collapsed, and milk tea became the object of public sympathy. The milk tea "Stripping Dark Clouds" supports Da Hadron's view, and it can also preserve the marriage, and it will be properly suppressed by the handle of Da Hadron, and continue to maintain the glamorous life seen by the outside world.
This is not a case. Wendi Deng is a strong and charming model. To some extent, Tian Pujun also belongs to this kind of tough woman who wants to get a glamorous public life. Of course, this is a life of personal choice, and the rest is understandable. However, it has no good demonstration function. Milk tea is more than twenty years behind Liu. Although milk tea may not be greedy for money, if Daqian is still in the stage of poverty, will milk tea go with Daqian? If Hadron and JD.COM didn't have their present status, would milk tea be weak? Only a few people in China know this problem.
Perhaps a better way is to treat life gently, treat yourself gently, feel what is happening in this world gently and sensitively, find true love and live in this world.
Do you know those tough and shiny people? Welcome to share your message below.