Never regard abuse as progress. Working as a programmer in 996, a first-tier city, has made great progress. Being a serious and responsible civil servant in my hometown is also very motivated. In first-tier cities, it takes three hours to commute to and from the subway every day, and I feel tired when I go back to my rental house to sleep. Compared with having dinner with friends after work, going to the gym and playing with parents, partners and children in small cities, they actually have no greater motivation. Progress is never how tired, bitter and sad you are with others. Progress means working hard and loving life.
Life is only a few decades, and it will be much easier after it. Don't be fooled by the so-called struggle and the so-called dream. See who instilled in you the idea of struggle (often coolies and overtime) from an early age. In addition to your family, it is nothing more than your teacher, boss, and all kinds of chicken soup media. Family members and teachers may really care about you, and it is definitely worthwhile to make 100% efforts in your study, but the latter two just hope that you will work hard, earn more money and pay taxes to your boss. To put it bluntly, you are leek and cannon fodder. What do they eat if you don't struggle? Besides, what is the result of ordinary people's so-called struggle? In fact, most of the output of your struggle ends up in other people's pockets, that is, those who encourage you to struggle and say that if you don't struggle, you will have no motivation. Look at the fathers hunched on the land in the countryside, look at the workers on the assembly lines in the factories, and look at the white-collar workers who are still working overtime in the office building in the middle of the night. How much of the fruits of their labor can fall into their pockets?
So, sometimes I'd rather sleep than work, just eat and drink enough. Life is only a few decades, so why be too tired and hard. When you are sick, will anyone sympathize with you except your parents and family? Do you know how many young people die suddenly every year? For example, in my legal profession, many people die of illness every year, many of them are young people who have not worked for a few years, and young people are exploited and squeezed in this industry. Marx's theory of surplus value is true.
In the final analysis, in this era, it is very difficult to change one's destiny by struggle and self-motivation. The first 30 years after the reform and opening up were an era of struggle from scratch. At that time, poverty was not shameful, and success from scratch was a typical example of inspirational. Now? Poverty seems to have become the original sin, and local tyrants, the second generation and relocated households have become the objects of advocacy and envy. What kind of social values are these?
Those who love to struggle, please struggle to the fullest, but please don't make irresponsible remarks about those who don't want to struggle. Everyone has his own interests. Yes, I understand and support Sanhe Great God very much.